Alright guys, I need your advice on how to proceed with this hb9, and hopefully some feedback on my game that evening. I met her at my apartment on saturday, one of my best friends brought her over for a preparty.

To set the scene:
My friend (He'll be Buddy from here) usually works saturday and sunday so we rarely have an oportunity to party together during the weekend. He's been complaining alot lately that he has so few friends now, me, another dude (Dude from here) and this chick hb9. He also complains alot about terrible luck with women (he's had a shitload of relationships but few ONS). I shoot my friend a message asking if he's working tonight as well. He's not actually, he's going to be drinking with this friend chick and meet up with some colleagues out on the town.

I also have a friend who wants to drink with me tonight so I invite him over. He's an old army buddy (Army Bro from here) and he's the first one to arrive. We smoke up and start drinking and chatting. My phone starts ringing and it turns out Buddy's friend Dude is arriving, and has brought another friend with him. Both these dudes are some artsy feminine types and there's a sudden culture clash when they arrive. I play good host and keep the conversations going until Buddy arrives.

I walk out to greet them and I'm almost shocked by this girls looks. She's exactly my type. I of course play it cool, greet and guide them in. The feel at the party gets a whole lot better and I invite another couple of friends living next door over as well. One mate (Mate from here) comes over and brings his gf, I was the one to introduce them a long time ago. I keep conversations flowing all around and HB9 sits down next to me on the couch. Her body language is pretty neutral at this point. I don't react and keep talking with Buddy. Buddy wants to smoke and I pull out some stuff. HB9 gets very interested and tries to ask me something about it, while I'm talking to Buddy. I ignore her and keep talking with Buddy. He adresses her, telling her how he only likes to smoke my stuff because of the quality etc., I interupt him and ask HB9 if she can roll. She says she can, so I give her the stuff and walk over to Mate's GF to talk to her. We do some nice chatting and I can hear army bro and Buddy talking to her behind me. They're playing me up really well, without me asking them. I overhear army bro saying something like "when the shit hits the fan, you really want [OP] beside you. He's such a great warrior and leader" etc.. They try to get my attention, I turn around and tell them to wait, I'm talking to Mate's gf.

We talk a bit more and I can smell that they've started smoking. HB9 has the jay and I walk over and tell them it's bad manners to smoke without the host and supplier, and take it from her. She blames army bro and I give her a stern look. I of course pass it to Buddy next. I sit back down next to HB9 and her body language changes a lot. Her knees are now pointing almost directly at me even though we're both sitting in a straight couch. I chat a bit with her, and she's very receptive. The party goes on and I do my best to not give her much attention, all the other guys really want to talk to her and it shows. She lights up every time I talk to her. Buddy keeps joking about the mission tonight being to get Dude a girl. I tell hb9 this in a joking way and she quickly says "sure, but not me!" with an expression looking like approval seeking.

We take to the town and get a nice table. During the first 10 minutes, she's hit on by like 5 geeky guys, every single one gets shut down. I make it clear I don't care and chat with some other girls. She has a lot of fans and is like a celebrity in certain environments. I finally see an open seat next to her and I seize it. She snuggles up under my arm and I start lightly stroking her back. She grabs my thigh and I grab her hip. I feel like this one's in the bag already and I leave without a word to get more beer and visit the toilet. When I return she's swarmed by her orbiters. I never get a chance to sit next to her again. Buddy tells me they're going back to her place to chill with some of the orbiters. I realize I fucked up and decide to not join the orbiter party at her place. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to take a shot at her with her being the only girl.

I come home and realize she's left some stuff at my place. Not important stuff, so I don't think she'd mind if I threw it away. She's the first girl I've become really interested in ever since oneitis broke my heart and I found the pill. I've been lifting for almost 2 years and I'm starting to look really good. She didn't comment but the guys did and I think she was mirin' a bit. She has not made any contact, no social media ads or anything, and I of course haven't either. I'm certain that if I get another chance I'll be able to bed and/or plate her. It's somewhat dangerous, and usually I next 'em if I don't score the first night, but this one feels worthy of some chasing. Haven't chased a girl in almost 2 years because I don't care enough. I would really like to plate this girl. I have some low quality plates already.

Now, I can think of some ways to proceed but would really like some advice from my brethren.

  1. I can contact her on social media with a pic of stuff she left at my place, asking if she wants it back some time.

  2. I can host more partys and invite Buddy, hoping he'll bring her along once more (Gatsby style, may take some time)

  3. I can go the stalker way, she doesn't live far from me, and "accidentally" running into her would be relatively easy

  4. DGAF, pl8 others and hope our paths cross by coincidence some day

  5. Add her on FB and ask her out to drinks or something

Lastly, how long do you guys think I have before I lose the "progress"? Or is it lost already? Thanks guys, any feedback is appreciated.