So I'm 25y and my wife is a 23y. We have a son who is almost two. I am in the army lower enlisted still and she hasn't worked a day since we met. She refuses to work and won't make herself marketable. She doesn't want to do it. Also, it's been a bumpy 3 years of marriage. We don't have any assets other than a car we are leasing. I have no idea how to go about starting the process or what the outcome would be. I'm worried I'll be left with little to no money at the end of the month because she isn't valuable in any way and doesn't work. She is currently living with her parents while I'm out training. Any advice or help would be great. Thanks.