I don’t know a better sub for this, but it’s the best I can find.

Over the past 6 months I’ve had a few girls contact me out of the blue. The first one was a girl I had a crush one when I was 11, she was 14 at the time. She is 19 now, I’m 16. This chick messages me at 9 am at night and I haven’t spoken to her in 5 fucking years. Turns out she is pregnant, ex meth head and really wanted to see me, thankfully I was over 300 miles away at the time. Oh and she just divorced Her husband. The more she talked the more uncomfortable I got. I ghosted her real quick. Turns out she knew I had a steady job. This other chick who is 14 who I talk to a little bit but not much (1-2 times a month) wanted to get close to me. She also knows I work a steady skilled job. Shut that down fast. It makes me extremely uncomfortable. Knowing these girls who are OLDER and younger than me want to take advantage of me and stability. I just shut down any relationship attempts any more.