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My first results of changing to RP behaviour! (kind of story time)

wall-of-meth
November 25, 2013
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Title My first results of changing to RP behaviour! (kind of story time)
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wall-of-meth
Upvotes 7
Comments 16
Date November 25, 2013 9:33 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1rg2jo/my_first_results_of_changing_to_rp_behaviour_kind/
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Comments

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

either i havent fully digested the pill/is stuck in my throat and I just have a hard time grasping this or some of these posts are just to ridiculous, they sound almost fictional the way the try to wrap so much trp vocabulary and concepts into it, i mean i know this is trp so obviously they are going to be about trp, but this post for example just seems too polished and i start thinking trp is just like every other theory/technique/mindset used in self help sense. I mean no offense to OP if this is true if it is good for you.

I am very cynical and pessimistic and finding the trp has helped a lot in just the sense of it confirming suspicions ive had about women/life and the positivity on here and success stories are infectious, but being cynical and a bit pessimistic it is still hard to shake these feelings i get when i read a post like this. and lastly, again i dont mean to sound ungrateful or accusatory its just what i feel.

[–][deleted] 7 points7 points7 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]1wall-of-meth[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This might just be why it sounds unlikely.

I am on the first stages of TRP and kind of blown away by the results I see.

[–]CurveballSI 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The problem is you're cynical and pessimistic, and thus you're still putting pussy on a pedestal in a sense.

Women are going to act like women. You have to accept that first and foremost.

Secondly, stop looking at a RP mindset as a means to get women and only to get women. As has been said a million times in this sub, find something to occupy your time with that makes you feel accomplished. Find something that betters you and enjoy it.

You haven't fully digested the pill yet because you're using it as a means to get women and only to get women. Stop that. To me, that's putting pussy on a pedestal. It's admitting that your only source of confidence is women validating you, and I don't think that's what you want or you wouldn't be here.

So again, find a hobby that you enjoy. Focus on it. Become good at it. Hit the gym. Don't try to make every change all at once, because it will become frustrating. Focus on one goal a week, as small as you need it to be so that you can hit it, and you'll start feeling better.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i mean i like what you said but im not sure its a putting pussy on a pedestal thing, i was just using this post as an example of the whole RP's philosophy and the seeming to good to be true benefits of it.

I mean yes I'm really not that great at getting girls or have much game and so to that respect yea i do still need to get better, but I really don't need a woman's validation, at a bar or where ever it is I am that I see a girl i want to chat with and I'm to nervous or in my head about it I know its my problem and it quickly gets to the point where its not the girl herself I'm not even thinking about her i just self analyze/deprecate myself til i tire myself out and don't even go try.

But other than that I just really want to change my "life" around not getting girls specifically, which I would hope changing my life around would of course help with that, as it is still an essential and important part my or any mans life. I'm turning 25 in less than a month am unemployed and just graduated with a degree in business and I have been a passive and cynical person most of my life with terrible self-esteem (terrible body image despite not generally being in terrible shape just look ugly), but I have recently found this subreddit and I really feel like after years of searching the internet and looking at various self help type philosophies I've finally found something that really reflects my personality who I am and who I want to become. But, I'd be lying if i said applying the techniques and mottos and aphorisms is easy. Im likely just to daft/dumb to truly get it cause I read some of the things here and so much sounds good and has created a better awareness for lack of a better word, but I don't know its like everything seems a little to nebulous for me. I feel like I'm way behind in a really advanced math class or something it just feels really hard trying to catch up.

[–]CurveballSI 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love it when I can say that I'm wrong. Seems like you're thinking inwardly about what issues you have, which is great. Like I said, don't try to put them all together at once. Just focus on one issue at a time and work your ass off at it until you master it.

Just to use women as an example, are you bad at opening? Yes? Then start there. Force yourself just to strike up a conversation with someone. You will get rejected and ignored, just prepare for that. Be ready to keep on pushing.

Remember, part of playing the game is losing it. Just accept that, tell yourself she's the one missing out, and move on.

Most importantly, keep your chin up.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

thanks man i appreciate that

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He says he's knew to trp so it's not yet natural behavior for him. He still has to make a conscious effort to be redpill which is why it may sound forced.

[–]1wall-of-meth[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, I still am not over the point where I do this naturally. A lot of it is still forced, but I'm getting the hang of it. I'm on a good path towards natural behaviour, I would say.

[–]testerod 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely. I think you really do have to fake it until you make it as they say. And it can be exhausting until you make it... But I have no reason to doubt what he's saying is true as I'm experiencing it myself. I'm married, but the IOI's I've been getting since really soaking in TRP and putting it to use are amazing.

Just changing a few things really does make a difference. Bought new clothes... Posture and swagger when entering a room... Telling myself before entering a room, party, bar, etc. "I'm the baddest mofo here"... Slightly smirking/raised eyebrow when talking to women... Teasing and light negging.

Having dinner at a bar on a business trip last week and struck up a conversation with a gorgeous Eastern European bartender and the other folks at the bar. After I paid my bill she literally jumped over the bar and waited for me as I was saying goodbye to the other folks at the bar. Grabbed me and gave me this big ass hug pressing her breasts into me.

It's still not natural behavior for me because my mom always drilled into me how important it is to be humble. Fuck that... Humility doesn't work. Boldness does.

[–]RedSunBlue 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

either i havent fully digested the pill/is stuck in my throat and I just have a hard time grasping this or some of these posts are just to ridiculous, they sound almost fictional the way the try to wrap so much trp vocabulary and concepts into it, i mean i know this is trp so obviously they are going to be about trp, but this post for example just seems too polished and i start thinking trp is just like every other theory/technique/mindset used in self help sense. I mean no offense to OP if this is true if it is good for you.

You are right to be suspicious. OP is likely a teenager or otherwise mentally underdeveloped.

These are the kinds of posts from the newbies who haven't read and digested any of the sidebar material that are making the rest of reddit think we're all neckbearded virgins (not that their opinions matter, but by reading this post I can see where they are coming from).

He's just wantonly throwing out TRP jargon without really understanding what any of it means.

[–]1wall-of-meth[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So, you are kind of hating against someone who tries to get used to TRP?

I'm not here to write correct essays about TRP. I said I am presenting my results and how I see them/feel about them. And as you might read between the lines, yes, I am still not "real" RP, which I never stated. I try to change towards more alpha-like behaviour and I feel like I am on my way to that.

No reason to disrespect here.

[–]RedSunBlue 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, you are kind of hating against someone who tries to get used to TRP?

No, I'm hating on people who don't read the sidebar.

I'm not here to write correct essays about TRP.

Then what the fuck are you here for? The terms we use here are meant to describe specific phenomenon. If everyone makes up their own definitions for all the established vocabulary, how the fuck are we going to know what anyone else is talking about?

If one person says, "Spin plates," and no one can understand what he means because people began using that term to mean everything from, "Talk to lots of girls at a party," to "Bang hookers with no rubber," can you see how that is not helpful to the community?

I said I am presenting my results and how I see them/feel about them.

Nobody will care what you see/feel if you can't describe it accurately.

And as you might read between the lines, yes, I am still not "real" RP, which I never stated. I try to change towards more alpha-like behaviour and I feel like I am on my way to that.

Good for you, but I have the distinct feeling that your definition of "alpha-like behaviour" is not quite the same everyone else's. And FYI, you will notice that a lot of the veteran users here rarely describe their own behavior as "alpha-like". There are better and more descriptive terms to use.

No reason to disrespect here.

If you don't respect the language, I don't respect you.

[–]ilovemyself101 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It could also be that you have had attractive qualities already, so you may be seeing these changes before and think of them as normal.

For example you don't really notice how people pay attention to you when you talk because its normal, but for a guy who was ignored suddenly becoming listened to it's a massive change

[–]RedSunBlue 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Last week I was on a birthday party, had 3 girls I kind of spinned as plates. One approached me and said something I didn't like, so I moved over to another girl. Her look was priceless. That second girl was more touchy, was a more exciting conversation. The third one is a girl I dated in my beta days. We were close to starting a relationship, but from today I can tell, I wasn't man enough for her. On that last evening though, I showed how I changed. These 3 girls were sometimes fighting over my attention.

This is not what "spinning plates" means.

[–]1wall-of-meth[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup, didn't have any other words for that. English isn't my first language.

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