I just found out about this kink of cuckolding/hotwiving, and I feel sick to my stomach.

For those who don’t know, it is a type of sexual lifestyle where the wife has sex with multiple partners while the husband just watches. Unlike swinging the husband cannot have sex with other women and cannot partake in the sex with the wife and the “Bull”. That’s what they call it, and it is usually a muscular man, generally black, with a big penis.

It is the most emasculating shit I’ve ever seen in my life. Reminds me the importance of communities like this, where men can stand up for themselves and exercise their dignity.

Like any sexual kink, it’s in a spectrum. It can be as vanilla as your wife texting other men, to sex in front of the husband, to a football team running a train on the wife, and all in between. But on the deeper end of the spectrum you see all sorts of shit that belittle, degrade and humiliate the husband. There’s men out there whose wives get pregnant by the bull and they raise the kids as their own, men giving up their mothers, sisters and even daughters (yes, daughters) for the Bull to fuck. All in an effort to further humiliate and degrade the man, not to mention penis mutilation and castration.

All these things sound like straight out of a psychological thriller, but these men do it willingly. They get sexually aroused by it. They think so little of themselves that they feel privileged that a “real man” can have their wives and father their children. That cannot stem from a healthy place, no way. It has to be deeply rooted in something fucked up inside the psyche, and these people just indulge in it. Relish in their own misery.

My point being, I want to exacerbate the importance of men holding on to our manliness, however we conceive it to be. Honor, integrity, pride, strength. Pick your manliness. These poor suckers, emasculated as may be, are still our fellow men. They have fallen so far from grace, holding on to no pride, no integrity, completely sunken in shame and humiliation. Forsaking their families, their values and themselves in search for their masturbatory perversions.

I’m all for redefining masculinity and relationships for the new millennium, but not like this. Not like this.

Thank you for reading.