So I'm on some dating apps. Trying to plate. Still reading sidebar it's long books take ages I'm going through it. Making notes.

One came at me, liked and spent a "credit" to get noticed and started chatting.

I made conversation didn't push, she asked me out on Monday and she pushed for the number exchange.

Her: "So i'm just gonna put it out there, what are you doing Monday?"

Me: "You" Her: umm I was thinking get a cocktail get to know each other? Is that what you were thinking...? Me: "I'll bring my gigolo outfit and everything" Her: "Haha you're so funny" Her: "So I'm a bit rusty on this part...is this where we exchange numbers?" Me: "Let's have it" Number + date set, cut communication mutually.

????????

Do I try to take control, or chill back and go with the flow?

Help. All advice needed.

From approach to frame suggestions to everything. Type your heart out, I need it. Have a long way to go to unplug and stop being a beta AFC.