Background:Been in LTR for a year. She is Christian.I'm Agnotic/Athiest. Go to church with her once a month but told her i won't be converted. Sex is really good. She often initiates.

Logged on to my computer today and my LTR had left herself logged in. Curiosity got the better of me, so i checked her messages.One message from a guy, back in Jan.

Message went like this:

Guy:"Hey _______"

LTR"Hey, i'm in a relationship with _________. He's gorgeous. He's non-Christian and i'm really happy" She's a born again Christian and i'm Atheist.

Guy:"I like how you had to explain yourelf. I didn't say anything haha. You're still beautiful as always. I've been single for 36 years and things are still the same. Still looking for someone to settle down with. We should keep in touch. :)"

LTR: "Yeah, let me know how you get on :) "

Seems like she was letting him down gently. Her initial reponse makes me think they have history, as it seems unprompted. Unless he was a beta orbiter at some point.His message seemed rather pathetic and reeked of desperation.

What are your guys thoughts on the messages?