Someone asked about our opinions on marriage and divorce on a Facebook group. A rare instance of understanding.

TheMentalMarauder · 2021-05-04T04:50:43+00:00

I’m going through a divorce right now, and let me tell you, getting divorced is the fucking worst

CyclopeWarrior · 2021-05-04T06:32:33+00:00

It's also funny how we completely remove one of the causes of such divorce fucking, initial line should be "women fuck over men in divorces" and go from there.

Frosty-Gate-8094 · 2021-05-04T07:50:37+00:00

That person seems sensible enough.

This is the problem with feminism...
A lot of people who support gender equality support feminism with honest intentions.

The problem is that feminism doesn't care for men's issues.

If we can counter feminist lies and gaslighting, we should be able to achieve true gender equality. It might take a few decades, but its achievable.

Of course, feminism cant be trusted with that job. A 100+ years worth of track record is enough to disqualify them.

VectorRim · 2021-05-04T10:47:55+00:00

She's gaslighting you.

SamaelET · 2021-05-04T12:41:55+00:00

I don't see any understanding. We talk about how divorce fuck men and she comes talk about how divorced women are more likely to be beaten. The first is a causation the second is a correlation and is not provoked by divorce.

She only accepted your point of view when you accepted to say women have issues too. Do you believe she says anything each times feminists make a post about how women have it hard ?

nuclear-shocker · 2021-05-04T07:54:52+00:00

Wow... Such a good guy.... Accepted the other persons view without ego

mernie925 · 2021-05-04T09:04:19+00:00

If only more feminists were open to this type of discussion. People need to realize that recognizing the challenges one gender faces does not mean we no longer recognize the suffering of the other. For true equality, the benefits and disadvantages of both groups should be eliminated.

LegendaryEmu1 · 2021-05-05T16:08:00+00:00

Mmm, you explained it quite well, when they added on to the statement.

A common thing I've seen is presuming things about people when they say certain things, or adding their own presuppositions to statements made. A great example of this is the interview with jordan peterson and that uk lady, who kept saying 'So what you're saying is" and then adding things he didn't say at all in.

I wish people would understand that people who advocate for men don't for some reason wish harm to women. Would help people understand eachother a lot better.

Title	Someone asked about our opinions on marriage and divorce on a Facebook group. A rare instance of understanding.
Author	VectorRim
Upvotes	93
Comments	15
Date	May 4, 2021 3:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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