Tomorrow I got a date with a girl I met on Tinder. Suggestions?

kenpachitz · 2017-02-23T06:57:28+00:00

Suggestion #1: Lead

Don't give her options on what to do. You decide what you're gonna do. Tell her when, where, what you'll be doing, and what to wear on a day she says she is free.

"8PM. xyz bar. Let's relax and play some pool. Wear something red."

"4PM. xyz coffeshop. They've got fantastic cheesecake. Wear comfy shoes. We'll go on a walk after."

Suggestion #2: Conversation

Ask open-ended questions. Ask about her hobbies, travel, favourite TV shows, etc. Let her do most of the talking.

If you're funny, throw in some jokes and teasing.

If you have a few cool stories, tell them.

Suggestion #3: Escalation

There's 2 parts to this: kino and logistics.

Kino is basically touching her more and more intimately as the date progresses.

Here are a bunch of examples:

Greet with a hug. Playfully smack her on the arm. Play thumb war, pretend you can palm read or high-five each other. Touch the small of her back as you walk. Have her sit on your lap. Sit close to her. Put your hand around her. Put your hand on her knee a couple of times, then leave it there.

Logistics is basically planning your date in such a way it ends at your place.

Go to 2 or 3 locations. Say you want ice cream. Go to a store. Say you'll need spoons to eat the ice cream you just bought. Go to your place and get spoons.

About kissing, this depends on who you ask. Some people say do it somewhere in the middle of the date. Others say you shouldn't bother unless you've got logistics down and are at your place before you kiss her.

Whatever the case, if she likes you and the place is somewhat private, go for it. If she turns away, laugh it off and pretend it never happened.

Keep the conversation fun. Do it again in 5-10 minutes.

Showing rejection doesn't bother you works in your favour here.

Suggestion #4: HAVE FUN

If you are ever bored, you are doing it wrong.

This ties in with Suggestion 1 because you should be doing something you would enjoy doing even if she wasn't there.

If you are overthinking it, you are doing it wrong.

Treat the entire thing as a learning experience. Whatever happens, happens. You can reflect later.

abdada · 2017-02-22T23:16:22+00:00

Take her to go do something you would do alone. Show yourself off.

I prefer kisses about an hour or two into a first date.

Primary__Account · 2017-02-23T06:31:22+00:00

Just talk man. See if you click well with her. Definitely flirt.

Title	Tomorrow I got a date with a girl I met on Tinder. Suggestions?
Author	pleeskeen
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	February 22, 2017 11:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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Comments

Suggestion #1: Lead

Suggestion #2: Conversation

Suggestion #3: Escalation

Suggestion #4: HAVE FUN