Met this girl through mutual friends and immediately hit it off. Fast forward a few weeks after meeting up at bars on the weekends, I finally grab her number and start light banter leading into some logistics. We go on one date then next date we bang. Couple of days later we basically spent the whole week together, I was sleeping at her place hanging her 5-6 times a night and into the mornings when we would wake up. Over the weekend we get pretty drunk together and have our first serious talk because it's obviously getting to the point where we are gonna move forward or cut ties. She says she feels like this is moving too fast, in which I responded poorly, my beta instincts came out and I was clearly annoyed she felt this way. I told her to do as she pleases. Later we continue to talk and I tell her more sincerely that I don't want to step in and completely disrupt her life, if we are going to do this it should be easy and comfortable with no serious qualms starting out. After some more discussion she told me I said exactly what she needed to hear. Although I don't want to control her life I know I have to lead her if we are going to be in an LTR.
She was bringing me around her friends frequently and I think they got in her head by saying we were always together and I heard them give her shit about us dating, which we had not talked about yet. So I think this is where the "this is moving to fast" came from.
We spent the rest of that weekend together and most of it was instigated by her. We continued to have sex and sleep over together but when I left on Monday everything seemed perfect until I received radio silence after I shot her a text later that morning.
I made sure during this whole week that she was instigating these hangouts just as much as I was but I'm not sure she sees it that way. She's obviously very into me, practically showering me with compliments every time I see her.
I have spoken to her in 3 days now since I received no text back. She sent a couple snap chats yesterday to which I opened and didn't respond. You guys think I should instigate conversation or soft next until she comes back around?
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