I'd love to get rid of nearly everything I own, but I fear that it will scare girls off. Thoughts?

[deleted] · 2017-03-06T02:55:29+00:00

Don't overthink, and despite whatever anybody says it's your decision.

You will hear both arguments, saying keep your cool shit and go full "spartan lifestyle"...

The bottom line is do you. If you want to keep something then keep it, if you don't want to then get rid of it. The decision is completely yours. Maybe the best approach is to find a happy medium like Aristotle suggests.

At the end of the day, you can get laid on a mattress on the floor of an empty room or on a mountain of vintage junk with shit piled-up everywhere--but as long as you're getting laid and thriving in life then who gives a fuck.

trippinallday · 2017-03-06T04:09:15+00:00

The real question here is why are you basing your life choices on how a women would react?

If you're insecure about it then it'll probably scare her off. If you don't give a fuck odds are neither will she.

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-03-06T03:01:32+00:00

lol I barely have anything in my studio. I just tell girls all my stuff is in storage even though I'm just a nomad. Never had any problems.

oldredder · 2017-03-06T10:31:44+00:00

No, you're right. The status of your possessions shows off your money and/or social class to her. It take a certain kind of man to truly see life for what it is and stop owning nonsense that has no real meaning or value, utility, etc. Most women can't handle that.

I think at the surface they realize they can't read a man's status from her eyeballs so she has to be more engaging and they hate putting in the real work.

On a deeper level I think a lot of women are useless twats AND THEY KNOW IT and if they know you keep nothing useful around, they know they won't be staying either.

Title	I'd love to get rid of nearly everything I own, but I fear that it will scare girls off. Thoughts?
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Date	March 6, 2017 2:42 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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