Setting condition for LTR

zagermaster · 2017-03-07T14:43:10+00:00

Rather than bank on the hope that she can/will change, why not find someone who makes you happy that doesn't do shit stuff? Don't come from a place of scarcity (eg. another girl won't make me happy.)

RedSkeller · 2017-03-07T14:44:39+00:00

If she thinks you're higher value than you are she will accept, however, she will only maintain these standards until shit hits the fan. It's just a question of when. People have to want to change, you can only lead them so far. Changing people is a waste of time and most people want to do the easy route which is not put any effort into it. Chances are she has a sky high n-count from what you described. Getting a better gauge of that will determine your success.

Willow-girl · 2017-03-07T16:28:21+00:00

Bad idea. She'll chafe under your restrictions or sneak around and lie in order to do what she wants.

You don't say how old you are, but it's been my experience that most young people go through a partying phase but eventually become bored by it. If you like her, keep plating her and wait to see if her behavior naturally moderates over time.

Fontess · 2017-03-07T18:22:56+00:00

She definetely doesnt look like ltr material but seems like awesome plate. Why do you want to ltr her when you are already plating her and other women?

Title	Setting condition for LTR
Author	_ohnoes_
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	March 7, 2017 2:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5y0j32/setting_condition_for_ltr/
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