What is your redpill rage story? How to overcome it?

d_nijmegen · 2020-11-21T10:53:16+00:00

Understanding the balance of power is important in the beginning. That's the red pil part.

Figuring out how you're going to be able to live your life on your terms. That's step two.

I'm well aware of my precarious situation in legal terms.

But I still got married and have my first kid on the way. Because that's simply the life I want. I don't care for 4 vacations per year and a nice car. I want little footsteps and giggles in my house.

To I took many years vetting a woman, and I now believe that I have the security to take these steps. If this marriage fails. I'll never marry again. Because in my mind I did everything right. So it will be a impossible task to take more precautions. Then it's just over.

That's my life choices, even understanding how things work

Alexander2718 · 2020-11-21T11:37:19+00:00

I fully agree that women are more privileged in society. But a relationship is different from society. A lot of the political correctness about women's issues shown by politicians and journalists is not to be found any where in my broad circle of friends, family and work. So men and women behave pretty normal in normal life. At least in my country. But that may very well be different in other countries such as US.

Also, don't fall in the gap of hating women. Hate political ideas that favour women instead.

obligatoryclevername · 2020-11-21T11:22:06+00:00

I was a feminist ally when I was younger because I thought the movement was about equality. Then I did some reading and realized that it's a supremacist/hate movement. I was pissed and felt very betrayed.

The redpill actually helped with relationships because I understood things like hypergamy, shit tests, etc.. Suddenly the inscrutable behavior of women made sense and I could predict their next move and counter it before things escalated.

caem123 · 2020-11-21T14:41:33+00:00

I have many red pill rage areas, and the corporate world is one the biggest. Repeatedly I have seen women get preferential treatments in companies, which used to have their preferences be discreet and unspoken yet now are increasingly out in the open - quotas, leadership roles, perks for women. Whole departments are commonly all women, yet this practice can not be mentioned, ever.

My reaction has been to minimize my engagement with women at work. If I get a female manager, she'll eventually fire me to keep more privileged demographic-types on her team. I've accepted this as an expected outcome.

I once interviewed for a dream job of mine and the hiring manager (guess which gender) railed for over an hour on the phone chewing my ear off on the demands of this job. She gave me a lengthy assignment to move to the next step in the interviewing process. I dropped out of the whole interviewing process with them. I wasn't even working at the time but am fed up.

tall-bear-man · 2020-11-21T18:20:35+00:00

I can't help what y'all deal with. Frankly, I spent many days in my life wishing I was straight, that my life is so cruel and unfair.

Over tine I realized while a lot of things are bad, terrible even, I have one advantage - I can trust the men I have dated. I can trust my spouse, because there is NO chance he is with me for other things. I have been poor, and I have been out of shape. I know he is here for me. Ride or die. I just wish you guys found someone like that.

Streaksdontrb · 2020-11-21T09:46:08+00:00

I’m a woman and completely agree

RockmanXX · 2020-11-21T15:15:07+00:00

Redpill was never a shock to me because i never brought into any kind of a particular prepackaged worldview wholesale. Red-Pill is just yet another unflattering truth about reality for me. I'm like whatever now, there's more to life than Women, the kind of relationship i desire is an impossible fantasy anyway. The kind of relationship available doesn't interest me one bit, creating good adult friends is hard, finding a "soulmate"? Now that requires bluepill delusion to believe. Like i said before, i never truly believed in the worldviews Society offered me, i don't have any faith in concepts of Romance, Purity of Marriage or Equality of any kind.

The world is a stratified into haves and have nots, Humans can never be Equal because humans think about themselves first, their immediate family second and everyone else last.

jonnyhaldane · 2020-11-21T22:25:18+00:00

Can I ask, what happened that changed your perspective so dramatically?

Title	What is your redpill rage story? How to overcome it?
Author	trash69
Upvotes	12
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Date	November 21, 2020 8:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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