Monday Field Reports 12-2-13

Icedeamon · 2013-12-02T19:18:06+00:00

So longtime lurker of TRP, but I swallowed it a while ago and recently have been reaping its rewards. This is how my date went.

Had a date with this girl I met on OKcupid set for Friday after Thanksgiving. Now initially I was not going to message this girl seeing as how she enjoys country music, smokes cigs and is a vegetarian. While none of those are deal breaker in themselves they did serve as a strong disincentive to message her first. However noticing that she had lurked on my profile a few times, I sent her a short, none generic opener. I think it was 2 lines and took me a total of 10 mins total to prepare (reading her profile, thinking of the opener and writing it). Much to my surprise she responded back with a wonderfully articulate 2-paragraph block of text; as someone who is sick and tired of stupid women this earned her a ton of points in my book.

As for the date itself, we decided that she would pick the restaurant and I would decide what we would do afterwards. The date itself could not have gone better, conversation was never lacking and we were both smiling and laughing the whole time. Come time to pay, she asked for the check to be split and when the waiter did not split the check she was more than happy to pay for the meal and our drinks (2 good beers apiece), if I got the cost of the later activities; totally acceptable in my book.

Went from the restaurant to the liquor store, bought two nice Belgium bombers and headed over to the hookah bar where we sat on the couch drinking beer and talking for a solid 2-3 hours. I am running Kino all over her, arm around her pulling her into me on the couch, bunch of other minor things, but we both were into it and while I there was one failed attempt to go into kiss her it was playfully brushed aside.

By now its 6 and I only just realize that I have spent the last 5 hours talking to this girl and I am just not satisfied with were we are. Prompting us to spend more time, I say that we should walk off the beer buzz by going to the park and swinging on the swings, she enthusiastically agrees cause who does not enjoy swings. Walk to the park, it is quite cold in the evening so we were holding hands and were physically very close to each other, for warmth of course. The swings get our blood moving again, and shortly afterwards we are engaged in a wonderful first kiss. We do a walk around the park which end up with us lying down starting at the stars making out like we were in high school again, wonderfully romantic and great for me because I have my hands all over her. 30 mins of kissing groping and biting later it has finally gotten too cold to be outside, but I still don’t want the date to end so I ask if she wants to go for a movie, we deiced on 12 years a slave, because I don’t want to pick a movie where we will just end up making out during the whole thing, that would be a waste of a movie ticket. Looking back this movie choice was actually surprisingly good for a number of reasons.

Now I am not an emotional person by any means, but I will freely admit that I cried a little towards the end of that movie, now this was not planned, neither was her seeing me cry, however she was wonderfully close and nurturing after the fact. The movie just had so many feels. Anyways after the movie we were both emotionally drained. But we both agree that we NEEDED a drink after that. She offers to take me back to her apartment since it is only a few blocks away from the movie theater, of course I accept.

Back to her place, meet her female roommate probs around a 6-7, little less attractive than my girl, shorter too. We all turn on a silly movie (Bill and Ted’s excellent adventure) because some laughter is exactly what we need right now. The roommate leaves about 30 mins in and we go from sitting next to each other to animalistic passion in about 10 seconds flat. We move to her bed because the couch is not big enough, and the night devolves into an excellent night of everything but sex.

I do learn some things that reinforce my already high opinion of her already: 1) she loves it rough, biting, scratching, spanking, as a big guy (read 6”3 220, and I do lift) the one thing I really don’t enjoy is holding back during sex. 2) This girl has a huge oral fixation (read she loves to suck dick) and while she did have some trouble with her gag reflex, her tenacity and desire to keep at it was more of a turn on than actual technique.

Anyway I left the next morning after she made me some breakfast and we had another good 3 hours of fooling around. I am planning on seeing her this coming Friday with the understanding that we will fuck all night long. My game plan for the week involves drinking an extra pineapple juice, not sending her a bunch of inane text messages, I will probably send her one on Wednesday with details of how I want our Friday date to go, and to see if she has any meaningful suggestions to make it better. I will send her another Friday morning to make sure she does not wear any panties to the date and that she has deal with her mildly untidy bush.

Thanks for reading this huge chuck of text, this is my first post over here, and I just wanted to say thanks for all the great advice that I have gotten, I will add my own little bit of TRP advice which I have found very helpful, 90% of being a dominate male, is knowing when to be a dominate male.

edit: fixed double sentence

No_DOX_for_you · 2013-12-02T03:04:02+00:00

So I have a friend who somehow finds a way to pull bitches off social media.

Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Vine, ect ect

He's an underground artist and we live in LA so I suppose there's that, but honestly sometimes I don't get how he manages to pull it off. Then again, text and IM game has always been my crutch. I just don't have the patience for it.

So anyway, on Saturday he somehow manages to get an HB8 he met on Twitter to meet us at a bar. This bitch is flirting and grinding on the dance floor the whole night. Not my thing, so I ignore her completely and chat with my homies and other girls at the bar.

Fast forward to last call and we're all getting ready to head to my friends house for the after party. We get in the car and guess who sits next to me...

I don't usually act like such a dick but it was just one of those nights for me. I tore her apart. It was pretty bad. Won't get into specifics but my favorite line was "Sit your slutty ass down." which she complied to like a fucking well trained dog. It was wonderful.

So we finally get to the after party and I'm having a smoke outside. She makes her way over to me and says "Have I been mean to you?". I actually got caught off guard with that one. I had been a raging ass to her the whole night and she was so desperate for validation she actually thought the opposite. The red pill at it's finest.

So I decided it was probably time for some pull and I started to console her. We flirt a bit more and eventually she says "You know you're really fucking cute" which I reply to "Yeah thanks. You're just ok". She goes to playfully hit me after that but I forcefully grab her by the waist and we begin to make out...

As I said, I'm generally not THAT big of a douche so the way that played out actually quite surprised me.

drrtyfrrnr · 2013-12-02T11:22:14+00:00

I told my regular plate, after she came over on Friday night with good food that she was going to cook for me, that she couldn't stay over. She was hurt, but still cooked for me and then we had sex. She left at 3AM after we fell asleep at 1AM. The reason she couldn't stay over was that I was throwing a party on Sat and had invited my other plate to it.

Me and my buddy, we discuss game all the time, he is very good in his own right but has been in a rut for the last few weeks.

So we threw a party, put it up on Facebook and couchsurfing, and selected like twice as many hot girls as guys to come from couchsurfing (gold technique to keep ratios good).

At the peak, we had about 50 people. I didn't put any energy into gaming women, but at one point I noticed one of the girls touch me as she was passing by. Later I noticed her getting her picture taken, and I invaded the picture, and then took one with me kissing her cheek, and then tried to kiss her on the lips. Well, she evaded that. Later on, she left.

My buddy had a good time, and made out with a cute chick he had his eyes on for a while.

I woke up the next morning hungover as fuck, and what's in my inbox but a friend request from kiss chick. I sent her a message and we started talking, she loves me. Tried to set up a date but she has class on the evenings. Gonna see how it goes. If she doesn't meet up I'll just delete her from my facebook.

mauispartan · 2013-12-02T20:43:40+00:00

Turned down an ex who wanted to meet up because she was being a bitch.

Main plate lost some weight over the time I didn't see her.

Was close to nexting a second plate, whom I number closed a week ago. Thought I screwed up by texting her early, but she texted back, and we're on for this week.

Hung out with the guys and got a new car.

It was a good week.

ToMetricBot · 2013-12-02T13:04:21+00:00

Moderately poor weekend

Friday - Got a bit of a flirt on with a solid 8, she was ridiculously into me but it seemed to be in a non sexual way at first. She kept grabbing and kissing me but it was just lip pecking. She apologised for being so forward "if you have a girlfriend or wife or whatever" i responded "I have as it happens" because at that stage IDGAF, 2 minutes later her tongue is down my throat but i failed to close as her gay BFF dragged her home.

Saturday - Got some strong interest from one girl but she was a 5 at best, had a few minutes chat but kept it platonic. Same 8 from Friday comes in, she can't remember a damn thing from the previous night (though she must now have a fair idea because as soon as her friend saw me she shouts "OMG you were really going at it last night") i manage a number close but she's really distant and turns out she has some guy with her. Just text the number now, but i dont anticipate much back. Should have closed her when i had the chance. Oh well, plenty more where she came from.

Personal development side, weight is continuing to pile on as the bulk cycle gets into its 5th week. Not really liking it, knowing fat is going on as well makes me hate bulking but lean mass is increasing and my strength is almost back to best, maxing certain machines again such as the fly and tricep press. 233lbs, 6'2. 34" waist 48" chest

blowlinesfuckdimes · 2013-12-01T23:45:31+00:00

If you have an iPhone, you should most definitely lose her number and make use of the new block feature when it comes to exes. Block them from everything that you can possibly block people from.

siparation · 2013-12-02T19:00:22+00:00

I'm on my phone, so pardon the typos.

Its been a couple weeks since I've made a post, so I'll try my best to summarize. For the last couple of weeks, I've been going to bars where the band I like is playing and each time, they've brought me up to play. It's a great experience and can see myself getting more comfortable playing each time. First time I was shaking, fearing the outcome and careful not to screw up any chords. Now I'm way more relaxed, no shaking, and if I screw up a chord, no big deal. Building self-confidence onstage.

There is one time I'm not particularly proud of. I had grown used to always getting up and playing that song that one time they played it without me, and I started pouting like a five year old. Checking my phone, avoiding eye contact. When I was about to leave, the band went on break and the singer came up to me and said they played it without me because some jackass who couldn't make a G chord to save his life was playing with their spare they let me use. I thought he was their new rhythm and didn't want to tell me. They brought me up on stage and did the song. I felt like shit afterward. I really got that upset over not playing a song when I've done it at least six times now? And the song's kinda boring to play anyway. I realized then that I need to unwire my ex-wife's programming more and work on inner game.

Another reason I need to work on it is because of something else that happened that night. I was up dancing, which is a huge comfort zone leap for me, and spot a 9 dancing with a whole bunch of guys. The guys leave and she's alone. She looks over to me, eyes me up and down, and goes back to sit with her friends. Huge ego hit, but I wasn't as devastated as the song bit. That shouldn't phase me. But it did. And I need to work on that.

Friday night, my ex was at the bar with her new boyfriend. I know it's her boyfriend because someone added me on Facebook, and my ex showed up on what looked like her mutual friends list. I went to her page to make sure I wasn't friends with her, and saw him littering her Wall. Along with a warning from her aunt to not let the new guy "do what [I] did." I doubt her aunt heard the true story, and I don't care enough to enlighten her. Her new bf looks a lot like me, which I find funny.

She tried to contact me a couple weeks ago, asking how I was doing. I just blocked her again.

I'm going to start focusing on working out more. I'm making excuses not to at this point. Lift more weights, spin more plates (as the mantra goes). And watching more videos and reading more books on inner game and inner harmony. I have a feeling that losing weight will help in that regard, too.

You stay classy, San Diego.

LuciusExitius · 2013-12-02T19:14:29+00:00

Went to a friends birthday party on Saturday. Her being a female I figured I would go out and have a good time. We haven't hung out in awhile so I knew she would bring some friends I have never met, the bonus was she held it at my local spot so I had the home field advantage. I have taken a long time off dating since my last girl friend so I got in my best outfit, went over some of my weak points, eye contact, talking slow and loud, keep my posture nice and tight, walk with purpose. Though I didn't close the deal I held my frame and had a girl qualifying to me. It made me feel good, and I am going out again this week, need to keep practicing!

2013-12-02T20:21:20+00:00

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Title	Monday Field Reports 12-2-13
Author	redpillhead
Upvotes	25
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Date	December 1, 2013 11:35 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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