Crosspost "When It Comes To Dating If You Don't Want Others To Care About Your Physical Characteristic, Don't Apply To Them As Well" from /r/dating_advice:

What I mean by this is for example height(this can apply to other things as well)

I have a short friend and when he talked to girls about height they said "oh find someone shorter"

Im like "find someone regardless of their height" and "find someone who loves you regardless of your height"

And my short friend is quite insecure of his height, it's not a good idea to put it in consideration if you don't want to be judged for it as well.

He's fine with women that are taller or shorter, to him it doesn't matter, since he doesn't want to be judged for it as well when it comes to dating

People in the comments who would you rather date: someone who only loves you for your height and looks?

loves regardless of your looks and height, and truly only sees you for you?

The short friend is now happily dating a girl much taller then him, im glad he feels loved, everytime i see a couple with a tall girl and short guy, i feel so happy for them, they look past looks and their own insecurities. I can't relate to being small, but I have my own insecurities when it comes to masculinity in dating, so it makes me happy

It naturally okay to be attracted to good looks, but you're best, beauty fades over time, what only matter is the size of your heart and strength of your character

lovehasnoheights

Posted by Professor_Algernon | 19 September 2020 | Link