Stepdads beware.

d_nijmegen · 2020-07-20T03:19:36+00:00

You will never be number one, even if they are yours. In my experience with mothers

corpsejockey · 2020-07-20T04:08:20+00:00

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BirdMington · 2020-07-20T13:51:32+00:00

There is an even greater threat to stepdads: almost no rights to the stepchild at all.

So if you decide to get together with a mom and she decides to leave you years later you get no custody rights at all. Limited visitation rights maybe (up to the judge), but that's almost nothing. So if you raised that child as yours for years you are going to be forced to abandon him because stepparent rights are a joke.

I'd just avoid single moms, too much drama.

Kingfisher230303 · 2020-07-20T08:00:33+00:00

Isnt this right thou , if I was a single dad my kids would be well more important than any partner.

Darrkelite · 2020-07-20T14:13:36+00:00

To be fair, once kids come into the equation they will always take priority. Doesn't matter if you are the step dad, biological dad or even the mother or step mother. If you choose to add children to a relationship, or take on a relationship that already has children, you need to accept that those kids come first.

VAGINA_BLOODFART · 2020-07-21T00:31:15+00:00

My son comes way before his mother to me, and she is my partner. The kid will always come first whether your partner is the other parent or not.

Did you sincerely expect to be more important to your partner than their child?

corpsejockey · 2020-07-20T08:09:37+00:00

I tried to treat my step dad very nicely but he was raping and beating my mom behind my back 😂 I still try and give people the benefit of the doubt but I’ve learned that reality is a cold bitch

Title	Stepdads beware.
Author	Home--Builder
Upvotes	18
Comments	12
Date	July 20, 2020 2:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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