I think toxic expectations of men is a better term, but I think toxic masculinity is a motte and bailey used by feminists. When pressured they will say "It's just unhealthy expectations of men by society" but they will then go on to use the word to a) refer to any aspect of masculinity, b) blame it solely on men as men are the ones who possess masculinity so they must be the ones propogating it and c) apply it to anything harmful men do, even if it is rare behaviour directly opposed to what we teach men to do.
Toxic masculinity is nothing but a word weapon to beat men over the head with. You will notice the people that claim toxic masculinity exists, can never clearly state what is non-toxic masculinity when asked. They can't, because they think all masculinity is toxic, but hide behind these kinds of weasel words.
One term that's been proposed in the academic literature is the "men are toxic effect". It's meant to contrast against the "women are wonderful effect".
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[–]Dunkolunko 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I think toxic expectations of men is a better term, but I think toxic masculinity is a motte and bailey used by feminists. When pressured they will say "It's just unhealthy expectations of men by society" but they will then go on to use the word to a) refer to any aspect of masculinity, b) blame it solely on men as men are the ones who possess masculinity so they must be the ones propogating it and c) apply it to anything harmful men do, even if it is rare behaviour directly opposed to what we teach men to do.
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Toxic masculinity is nothing but a word weapon to beat men over the head with. You will notice the people that claim toxic masculinity exists, can never clearly state what is non-toxic masculinity when asked. They can't, because they think all masculinity is toxic, but hide behind these kinds of weasel words.
[–]Oncefa2 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
One term that's been proposed in the academic literature is the "men are toxic effect". It's meant to contrast against the "women are wonderful effect".
Here is a paper that uses this term:
https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-04384-1_5
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[+]Cyber_Renaissance1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
You are to this sub, what feminists are to mra's!
[–]goodmod 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
If I was like that, you would have been banned long ago.
[+]Cyber_Renaissance1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Soooo, you admit you are to this sub what feminists are to mra's!
[–]goodmod 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
No. I said that if I was like a feminist moderator, I'd have banned you long ago. But I'm not like them at all.
You seem determined to believe what you want regardless of what I say or do. I see no point in continuing this conversation.