Now I don’t condone pornography at all(I’m nofap), but you seriously don’t need to date women if you don’t want to. It’s completely fine to focus on yourself and your own goals. The problem I see is men devote their entire life to trying to get a girl and when they fall short they just devote their time to regressive tasks like video games, drugs, porn, or binge watching tv all day. Now that is something that should NEVER be considered acceptable imo. We should help one another to take care of ourselves rather than time sinking our lives away. “What if she didn’t cheat”, “what if women were different”, bro who tf cares. You can’t change people but you can change yourself and you can also improve your quality of life in a short period of time tbqh if you make the sacrifices and effort needed to acquire it.

As men we’re more likely to commit suicide, become homeless, end up in prison, we have far more challenges that many of us men have to deal with. And a blowjob and good sex isn’t going to save you.