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Man arrested because he tried to avoid being raped by his girlfriend.

BladeRunner2098

November 3, 2019
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.local10.com/news/national/man-arrested-while-trying-to-avoid-sex-with-girlfriend
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Title Man arrested because he tried to avoid being raped by his girlfriend.
Author

BladeRunner2098

Upvotes 146
Comments 47
Date November 3, 2019 6:49 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/dr4r0z/man_arrested_because_he_tried_to_avoid_being/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/man-arrested-because-he-tried-to-avoid-being-raped.865643
https://theredarchive.com/post/865643
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Comments

[–]Oncefa2 50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Threatened to hit his girlfriend (didn't actually do it), in self defense, then hid in the car, because she was trying to rape him.

I've heard of male victims of domestic violence being arrested instead of their abusers (in fact academic research indicates that this is a widespread structural problem that needs to be fixed) but I've never heard of a man being arrested while defending himself from sexual assault.

Granted, I can't say I'm not surprised.

[–]Greg_W_Allan 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This IS a case of domestic violence.

[–]White_Mlungu_Capital 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hitting a woman is always wrong, but even if he didn't hit her, he is still wrong for being a man!

[–]Asifalikhan125 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Media even posted his photo so that he is humiliated for not wanting sex And also lost the prospect of having future gf

[–]rabel111 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A man was so harassed by his girl friend for sex that he had to lock himself in a car to be safe? And he got arrested?

This is another statistic that will be used to show that DV is male on female. How many other DV incidents are really female on male DV, but are recorded as male on female by sexist pigs in uniform?

[–]Asifalikhan125 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Worst the media didn't hide his face

[–]TheDongerNeedsFood 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reverse the genders and the man would still be arrested

[–]TheMidKnightFixer 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just seems wrong somehow, resisting arrest because he locked himself away from her?

[–]Hargosmos 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TLDR: Girlfriend is THOT, always wants sex. Want to force the guy into sex (rape) , guy locks himself in his GFs car. She tries to bust the window open and fails (so empowered). She calls police, they come and they charge him with trespassing and domestic violence. Not once do they call it rape. They say the things SHE did like "allegedly" etc etc but what he did as facts.

[–]illogicallogical 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit. Did this actually happen?

[+]whibbleymoondanc -21 points-20 points-19 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The real title should be β€œMan failed to follow police instructions and verbally threatened his girlfriend during a domestic Dispute. β€œ he wasn’t arrested in any way related to refusing sex. He was an asshole after the fact

[–]rabel111 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

A less bias examination of the interaction between the police and the victim, might better inform your conclusions.

The man locked himself in a car to escape sexual harassment. He obviously felt so threatened that he looked for a secure refuge. You suggest he acted like an asshole after the fact and got arrested. But if the attending police had treated him as a victim, with the required empathy and respect, he may not have acted the way he did.

The attending police appear to have treated him differently from how they should treat DV victims, because of his race and sex. They ordered him to vacate the vehicle. He has acted how you would expected a DV victim to act if they continued to feel threatened and unsafe, acting defensively and refusing to leave his place of refuge.

Would the police have acted the same way if the victim here were a woman?

[–]whibbleymoondanc -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I understand what you are saying but have dealt with situations like this numerous times where the victim is an asshole too and ends up in cuffs. I was a paramedic in the city and had a store owner that was robbed and assaulted. The robber was also injured. During the interview the store owner was being an asshole to the cops and spat towards the robber. That was enough for cuffs. Let’s face it, common courtesy is hugely appreciated by the police. The more cooperative you are the less difficult their job is. Be nice to the police and they will be nice to you. Be difficult and they will arrest you just to eliminate you as a variable by arresting you and making your life difficult. But to be honest, I wasn’t at this particular even with the man in the car. But I’ve seen emit enough times to know how it probably went down.

[+]Bobbrobb -27 points-26 points-25 points 6 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link

He refused to get out of her car, and was arrested for threatening her, trespass and resisting arrest. Not because he was avoiding "rape." FFS... (here's where they call me an incel and a rape apologist.) πŸ™„.

[–]bufedad 24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

He threatened her, because she was trying to rape him.

He trespassed in her car to protect himself from being raped by her.

He resisted arrest by staying in the car because he didn't feel safe around her.

Yes, he was arrested for trying to avoid being raped.

[+]Bobbrobb -13 points-12 points-11 points 6 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Yeah.. I suppose you could twist the article around to read that... 🀣

[–]bufedad 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

Twist? That's literally what the article is stating

[+]Bobbrobb -12 points-11 points-10 points 6 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

The article said she wanted dick and he didnt want to play. He threatened her and locked himself in HER car. Is said nothing about "rape"

[–]bufedad 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, trying to force someone to have sex who doesn't want to is generally accepted as trying to rape them...

[+]Bobbrobb -8 points-7 points-6 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

What did she do? Rip his pants off and zip tie popsicle sticks to his junk?

[–]bufedad 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Is that the only way you know to force someone to have sex?

[+]Bobbrobb -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Well she's a woman so sh can't do him annaly.

[–]bufedad 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

It always amazes me how much people like you dismiss rape.

[–]Bobbrobb0 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah well... This isn't rape.... So there's that.

[–]bufedad6 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yes, forced sex isn't rape... got it

[–]Bobbrobb-1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You'll need to point out where he was forced to have sex with her.

[–]bufedad9 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I've already pointed it out. It's amazing how feminists can be so pro rape when the rapist is a woman

[–]Bobbrobb-1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

He wasn't raped. Get over it.

[–]bufedad9 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I mean if you don't think this was a rape attempt, no woman has ever been raped by your standards

[–]Bobbrobb1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She asked for dick, he said no.. Thats not rape.

[–]bufedad10 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She didn't just ask for dick. Man feminists like you never cease to surprise me.

[–]Bobbrobb-2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Sure thing Sparky... You win OK?

[–]bufedad2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Feminists... make an argument, attack men for not abiding by their gender roles, and then run away when they've clearly lost.

[–]Bobbrobb-1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Feminist.. Lmao.. Far from it Sparky.. I'm a man who knows how to deal with women, unlike you and this little punk.

[–]bufedad8 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Please, feminists like you are obvious trolls

[–]Bobbrobb0 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You wish I was a troll. The fact that you can't handle a woman must be frightening to you. Google red pill and see things from the male perspective.

[–]bufedad7 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Gender role shaming...from a feminist? Color me shocked.

[–]monicas_side_piece3 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

β€œRed pill” has absolutely nothing to do with this.

[–]Bobbrobb1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It has everything to do with this. If you don't believe it, you dont know anything about red pill.

[–]TheDongerNeedsFood 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Considering you’re attacking a man who was arrested for trying to avoid being raped, id say that β€œrape apologist” is a pretty accurate description of you.

[+]Bobbrobb -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Rape... Lmao. You fucking guys crack me up. She wanted dick he didn't want to play so he locks himself in her car... He sounds like a pussy.

[–]saltymiles 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

U a bitch so because a man doesn't want to have sex hes a "pussy" I guess you also think that if a girl doesn't want to have sex shes a "pussy" too

[–]jameswalker43 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

certain things might be difficult to understand still try to remember you never know the whole story

[–]Bobbrobb 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's a pussy because instead of handling her, you know like a man, he made a lame threat and locked himself in HER car.

[+]BladeRunner20983 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

What would your opinion be had a woman done these exact same actions?

[–]Bobbrobb -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would say she s a crazy bitch, call the cops to get her the hell out of my car.

[–]Supersoup11122 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So in an attempt to avoid rape you would call her crazy even though she is trying to get away from you?

Not sure the police would help you in that situation.

Unless I'm misunderstanding the meaning of the post....

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