'There's tremendous shame in being undesired, it devalues self esteem'

calmly86 · 2019-10-16T06:06:30+00:00

Are you kidding me?

"It was my friend’s husband who was no longer interested in sex, not my female friend. She confided in me that they had had sex only two or three times in the past decade. A few years after her affair, she found the courage to leave her marriage, and is now in a satisfying relationship."

Can you imagine what the reaction would be if you switched the genders of the bolded part?

She found the "courage" to leave her marriage... AFTER HER AFFAIR?

I am disgusted.

1LegendaryWombat · 2019-10-16T06:19:33+00:00

A few years after her affair, she found the courage to leave her marriage, and is now in a satisfying relationship.

But she was a spineless coward before that, i guess.

Sixty four per cent of the women claimed to feel sexually neglected by their husbands and one quarter reported having sex with their husbands once or less per year.

I would be curious to know how many voice these concerns, in no uncertain terms, to their husbands.

What’s more, male sex drive is inextricably linked to masculinity and power.

What? Masculinity, sure,i guess, but power, where the hell did that come from?

The Ashley Madison survey found many respondents cheat for sex, rather than love and see infidelity as a way of getting their needs met whilst remaining married.

Which is bullshit reasoning. Either be in some kind of open marriage or don't get married, cheating is bad, don't justify it.

I'll be honest though, i don't think a woman knows much about men in these situations, shes mostly just parroting nonsense. Oh the wiminz have a lack of sex, boo fucking hoo.

2019-10-16T11:20:08+00:00

more Borderline Personality Disorder advertising...

are they still going with ‘Indigo Children’?

Real question- how many of you gents are dealing with a partner/ex-partner with BPD?

citerunner · 2019-10-16T05:08:55+00:00

subverting the stereotype... it the guy!

2019-10-16T12:21:16+00:00

She said we didn't have enough money so I took on more hours and was always tired. So no sex. Got accused of cheating even though my time sheet proved I was working.

Title	'There's tremendous shame in being undesired, it devalues self esteem'
Author	tomtomzzzz
Upvotes	30
Comments	6
Date	October 16, 2019 2:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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