What am I supposed to do? My name is on the birth certificate that I don't have a copy of. Since she had the child she can take her and do whatever she wants as long as I don't have enough money to hire an attorney and she knows that. She has effectively replaced me and is having someone else bond with my child during her infancy making me the weird guy she has to see every week. Why don't women have morals or conflict resolution skills in general. I can't think about anything else it's effecting my job and my entire life. When I'm not working I'm so depressed I just drive around hoping I will see them and I will get to see my daughter again. All because I'm a man and didn't have to go through 9 months of people showering me with love and affection and gifts. Fuck I wish I could have.