This isn't so much a case of PPD, but a case of why pussy passes should be denied.

I had a friend named pinky (yes real name, parents were assholes i guess) who was raised under the, "never ok to hit a woman" ideology. I was also, most people my age were, but it never left his character.

He dated this completely toxic girl who was a drama queen and part time feminist. She always looked for an excuse to use her pussy pass and was hard to be around for any of his friends, especially me.

It was nothing uncommon to see him with scratches on him (not the good kind) or with bruising on his face from her. He always tried to blame them on fights he got into until i saw it with my own eyes one night.

It was one of their kids birthday party and after the cookout, the kids were playing together, the women were drinking wine and doing whatever inside, and us men were in his building playing penny poker.

After an hour or 2 his drunk gf came out to the building holding an empty wine bottle and demanded that he go to the store for more wine. We all had a strong buzz and he told he he didn't want to, that it wasn't a good idea.

She kept pressing him on and on, and finally he said baby im not leaving tonite, but if you want, i got you a gift for later, i can give it to you now. He goes into his cabinet and pulls out a small bag and handed it to her.

She looked in and there was 2 bottles of the wine she drinks.

He thought this would make her happy and he said, y'all go ahead and drink this, I'll just get you something else later.

She went bat shit crazy.

She rushed the poker table and threw the playing top off, our cards and penniess went on the floor.

"What the fuck are you hiding shit from me for bastard? You don't fucking hide shit from me ever."

You could see he was embarrassed at her, and we all knew she was shitfaced.

He gave an embarrassed smirk and told her "baby i wasn't hiding anything from you, it was a surprise gift for your birthday coming up."

She acted like she was happy and walked up to him, looking like she was going to hug or kiss him.

She put her hand on the back of his head and leaned in for a kiss, when he closed his eyes and puckered up, she backed her head up and broke the wine bottle on his fucking face.

His nose started pouring blood and she starts screaming "don't you ever fucking hide shit from me you son of a bitch."

I rush up behind her and slammed her to the ground, she was flailing around trying to hit me and i just rolled her over and held her arms together behind her back and sat on her.

The other men got pinky awake and he went crazy on me for holding his woman down. I got off of her, she said some shit about me being a woman beater and ran back into the house without her wine.

I tried to explain myself to pinky, that i honestly thought she was gonna kill his ass in a fit of rage, but he didn't care.

He told me i fucked up and i needed to leave and forget his number.

I tried after a few weeks to call him, but he blocked my number.

The next summer, he was murdered by her.

She was fighting him, punching him in the face and he tried to walk away, she threw a glass ashtray at his head, and when he turned and tried to block her she stabbed him in the chest with a kitchen knife, it penetrated his heart and he bled to death on his kitchen floor walking to his carport.

I went to his viewing and was confronted by her family telling me i have a lot of nerve coming there after beating his gf.

I told them to fuck off, that i never even slapped her, much less beat her. I told them I held her down the first time she tried to kill him and they should be ashamed showing their faces there.

She caught a manslaughter conviction and will be out eventually.

People are people and you can't judge a threat by what people have between their legs.

By God do NOT teach your sons to shy away from a threat just because it's from a female. Have some self respect and DEFEND YOURSELF from anyone.