Do you ever think a woman has tried rape baiting you?

darkbluexanadu · 2019-07-23T17:53:36+00:00

Yup...had a gf once who cheated on me. After we dealt with that(hadnt been together long so not as much of a big deal at the time.) we were getting it on when starts getting a little freaky says things like "punish me/rape me/etc). I thought it was just her way of getting out the guilt. I didnt hit her or choke or anything other than go a bit faster and harder. We dated for another three months before i dumped her. Shortly after our mutual friends started telling me all about her declaring i raped her as punishment. Luckily this was in the mid 90's when society as a whole still had some common sense so nothing ever came of it.

KingSpydig · 2019-07-23T16:15:39+00:00

I was dating a gal and she wanted the rape play, "break into " the apt we shared, ski mask, etc. Nope

2019-07-23T18:12:37+00:00

Yes. It didn’t work because I stopped everything at the first sign of non-consent, hugged her, told her everything’s OK, escorted her out the building, went for a long walk with her and then proceeded to friend-zone her. In a nutshell, she popped over to my house for some quick casual sex the same day I’d first met her, we were on the bed making out, she was touching me all over. At the very last minute, as I started kissing her breasts, she said no and acted extremely flustered.

Figuring there’s no harm in friendship, I continued to meet up and talk to her and in the weeks that followed I asked her some honest questions where she all but admitted rape-baiting. I also straight up told her that she could have been raped if she’d done to others what she did with me and to be more careful for her own sake. She mentioned how “harmless” many of the people were that she’d done this to and how she’d learned to tell who was and wasn’t likely to push things too far. She also told me that she had been raped before, so she knew what to look out for (really?)

Edit: For context. This was a long time ago. Tinder didn’t exist, Facebook still required you to be a member of a “network” to use the service and Twitter hadn’t yet been adopted by mainstream folks. People still commonly used Java-based Blackberry phones to communicate. You get the drift.

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-07-23T18:18:47+00:00

a girl I was dating many years ago pulled some weirdness the first time we got in bed together. She was more than enthusiastic, but as things were "lining up" she suddenly pushed me off and said no. and I was like ok, but then she was all over me again, then said no again, and this repeated 3 times before I said it was late and I had to leave.

the next time we went out she told me that she was really disappointed that we hadn't had sex, and I said "you told me repeatedly that you didn't want to" and she said "yeah, but I wanted you to just 'take me' anyway".

"Non consent" games are fine and all if everyone is on board with it, but fuck...she literally wanted someone with no warning to refuse to take 'no' for an answer and screw her. The only person who would do that is a literal rapist.

Weird chick. don't miss her.

goodmod · 2019-07-23T16:30:35+00:00

What is rape baiting?

Title	Do you ever think a woman has tried rape baiting you?
Author	Forrix17
Upvotes	12
Comments	11
Date	July 23, 2019 4:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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