So, I am 18 and a freshman in college, recently lost my virginity after a party over the weekend. I've made out with plenty of chicks but never made it past there really. I think this is because I don't actively go after chicks, I just kind of go out and get fucked up and have fun. When I go after chicks, I have a better rate of hooking up but it is just opposite to how I am. If I was still able to get a chick to have sex with me should I change my approach or not?