I posted this as a reply to a TRP thread a bit ago. Thought it was post worthy.

You are assuming that you need to change who you are, and/or need to become an immoral person to get sex, but you are wrong.

Forget Alpha and Beta. Think about this instead: Who is having sex, and who is not?

Now, you're telling me that there isn't a single man in the world that you admire and respect who is also getting sex?

What about the great artists, musicians, athletes, entrepreneurs, inventors and visionaries — now and throughout history?

Or, in terms of people you actually know, don't you have at least one uncle or friend or cousin or acquaintence who is getting laid but is also a good guy?

What you are blind to right now, is that it isn't just the "bad guys" who are getting laid. And it isn't just immoral behavior that gets you laid.

Yes, part of TRP is realizing that women are attracted to some crazy, unethical shit. And yes, often indifferent, aloof, selfish and callous behavior works in attracting women. But these are not the only ways.

Women are also attracted to ethical qualities like strength, courage, confidence, competence and leadership.

Women are also attracted to not-necessarily-unethical qualities like fame, status, wealth and power.

There are plenty of good and great and ethical men now and throughout history who had a lot of sex, and had a lot of quality options, even if their preference was to pursue them in a monogamous way.

Regardless of how you define "Alpha" you said it yourself that you want to have sex. So just look around and ask yourself these questions:

Who is getting sex? What kind of men are they? How do they act? How can I be more like them?

If you look at a broad enough sample, and you're willing to be honest with yourself, you'll find that there's a lot more to it than the "Alpha" attributes you find repulsive.

If you wanted to conciously manufacture a set of beliefs designed to help you avoid fear and pain, yours would be a damn good one.

Do you think it is a coincidence that your beliefs just happen to be a perfect excuse to not try, to not face your fears, to not experience rejection and pain and hardship?

You believe that the only way to get sex is to be immoral and inauthentic, and therefore you've given yourself, not just an easy way out, but a righteous one.

You don't have to change who you are deep down, but you may have to become a better version of you. Become the man you aspire to be, the man you know you can be.

To get there you will have to face your fears and you will have to endure pain, but that's what makes a man a man, that's what makes a hero a hero.