Hi.

Went on my first date today, not first, but first using the red pill, and my first date with her, met her in my social circle. Was fun, did a balanced amount of push pull and banter was good. Didn't pay any money. Walked on a trail, went shopping, and got coffee. She was receptive to my kino, and my move for the kiss was responded to well.

Anyway, after a bit I asked her to come back to my place to see my new kittens, got the yes, was easy.

Showed her the kittens and and led her to my room in the house and began dicarlos escalation. She seemed turned on up until I made the move for her panties. Got a no, so I pulled back and went to looking at my phone.

She started grabbing me and laying on me so I put her back on the bed for an attempt to rescalate.

Another no, this time I smiled and said "ok", pulled up my pants, and told her "I'll take you home then". She seemed like she did not want to actually leave, but in the end she left and I took her home. Kept a smile the whole time to avoid seeming butt hurt.

What's up with this? Kinda suprised here. Also what should I do next? Should I soft next, set up another date, and re-escalate the same way?