I have a girl I've been seeing for a few months. We aren't seeing anyone else (as far as I know) and things have been truly awesome until last week. I ate something that didnt agree with me on a date and she saw me in a weak state.

Since then things have gone to relative shit. She's gone out with her old party friend and flaked on a date we had on Sunday. She had plausible reasons to flake (moving) and was texting me the whole time, but she never showed up or let me know she'd be late until well after the scheduled time until I just called her out for being evasive and flaky. I made it very clear that her newfound flakiness was completely unacceptable and that it was to stop immediately. She apologized and said it wouldn't happen again.

Lo and befuckinghold, she's taken to completely ignoring or sidestepping my attempts to make plans, as in: Me: let's meet at 1 Her: look at this link!

I'm under no illusions that this is a unicorn. The odds are there that she's already looking to branch swing or found someone else. It's most likely because she saw me get a little sick which I suppose counts as a loss of frame, but I think I reestablished much of what was lost by telling her her behavior was unacceptable. Just need to know if there's a way to break through this weird cycle of sidestepping invitations (like if she's acting up for attention or negotiating for commitment or if she's actually just over it) or how to end it if necessary. Will getting her to come out again and see my usual healthy muscular self again help? Or do I just soft or hard next for the continuted disrespect?

I already set up dates with two old plates this week so there's full abundance mentality here. just need some help planning a course of action.

Thanks in advance!