Invited this girl at my place, how should I proceed

Cunt_Robber · 2017-03-22T12:23:35+00:00

It's a shittest. You can say multiple things, just stick with humor: "safe? Other than the handcuffs and whips, yes." Or "no but we can make it safe by building a pillow fort." You get the idea.

What if you ask her out for a drink first, and then take her back to your place? She'll be loose at this point anyway. The trick is to use some excuse to get her to come over that will appeal to her, ans not just "hey come over lets chill" because she's not going to come over if it's simply for sex unless your smv is a 9-10.

_Tactleneck_ · 2017-03-22T13:53:29+00:00

I would say "absolutely not". She grew cold recently, I don't know all the details of why, but I'd guess you started acting some type of way and she was turned off.

At this point there's nothing to lose and everything to gain, so set up your intentions from the start and continue going about your life regardless.

[deleted] · 2017-03-22T13:01:37+00:00

you should go out somewhere other than your apartment for a drink.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-03-22T16:36:08+00:00

just ask her what she means? Why is that so hard? You don't have to be alpha and clever with every fucking text op.

phareux · 2017-03-22T15:43:37+00:00

Just tell her that if she doesn't come over someone else will

Title	Invited this girl at my place, how should I proceed
Author	rutluv
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	March 22, 2017 11:53 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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