Context: In East Asia, I went on a tinder date with this girl. I know the bartenders there so they know to always bring us separate bills. (East Asian girls have a weird expectation that guys always buys, and I'm not down.) Problem is she had a call in the middle that she forgot about and gave me her credit card and bolted out.

Question: What should I have done with the bill?

Finale: I asked myself what would red pillers do in this situation and I'm not exactly sure. I don't want to next her yet - seems like a good head on her shoulders, hardworking but humble. I ended up paying because I actually appreciate being put in a situation that I didn't even consider and left her card with the bartenders, and she messaged me after and said sorry and that she hopes I used her card to pay her bill.