Any men on here willing to share any sexual assault stories? I’ll go first, when I was in high school a girl thought it would be funny to poke me in the middle area of my rear end with a pencil, but since everyone thought it was funny I didn’t think it was something to tell the teacher.

J_Bear · 2019-02-14T13:56:05+00:00

Not myself but I was there when it happened to a friend of mine. We were at a wedding and a friend of ours who is known for her destructive personality got him drunk (like "send him to hospital" level of drunk) and dragged him (literally) into the bushes to try and rape him. The venue bouncers stepped in quickly and stopped it but there was a general humour in the air which I found disturbing.

Had it been the other way round he'd be on a sex offenders list quicker than you can say "drunk people can't consent".

PanderjitSingh_k · 2019-02-14T13:47:56+00:00

Crotch grabbed & knocked to the ground. Never occurred to me that it was a crime. I considered it just part of the ongoing physical abuse that is a man’s life.

LethiasWVR · 2019-02-14T16:58:40+00:00

When I was 2-3 years old, I had an aunt (my dad's aunt, really) that would chase me around the place saying "letta me see you bish!" (short for bishidil(sp?), slang for penis in her native language.)
If she caught me, she'd pull my pants down and do weird, sometimes painful, but seemingly non-sexual things to my junk like yank on it, or flick it, or pinch it or whatever while I cried. After a minute or two, I guess she'd get bored and go away.
Luckily I didn't see her very often, but this would happen every time I saw her for a while. It only ended when I learned how to better escape her by using my small size to do things like run under tables she'd have to go around and get enough distance between us for me to run into a room with a door I could lock.
I didn't really know what was happening at the time, just that I didn't want it. I only realized the truth of what had been happening when the understanding kind of dawned on me in my early 30's.
Looking back, the most troubling part of the incidents were the reactions of the other adults around. Many just ignored it, and the few who didn't just yelled at me to quiet down.

Truth be told, it sucked at the time, but I never really felt 'damaged' by it in any lasting way, nor do I now. At the time I realized what happened to me, I don't think I had thought of these things for over 25 years.
That is not a justification or excuse of it happening. It was not a good thing, nor did it 'build character' or anything, but it didn't ruin my life forever, either. It's just how I feel about it now, looking back.

spacedoutdad · 2019-02-14T13:50:44+00:00

had a co worker that was gay that repeatedly grabbed my crotch & touched my ass

FuckingPrawns · 2019-02-14T14:20:40+00:00

I've been groped on numerous occasions in the groin and butt. Also had a couple of girls try to kiss me whenI wasn't looking.

_Sp4rk3y_ · 2019-02-14T22:45:39+00:00

8 years old, babysitter would strip both of down and groped me while I sat on her lap. Only reason I remember is cause I told my parents one day and they called the cops on her. Not sure what happened since they never told me and we moved a few days later with my aunt and uncle.

2019-02-14T15:51:17+00:00

Sorry to hear about everyone's experience

2019-02-14T15:52:22+00:00

In High School a guy once grabbed my butt. He was regular bully and since schools don't punish bullies (all they do is tell victims to 'ignore them'), I did not do anything. Plus I was too embarrassed to say / do anything

2019-02-15T13:26:08+00:00

This girl brought me to her teen church group. Later when she was driving me home she took a bunch of back roads I didn't know. She was driving a standard and kept "accidentally" putting her hand on my crotch. I was very uncomfortable because she was someone I wouldn't ever want to be with. I thought she would get the point buy my uncomfortable silence. She didn't understand that I couldn't control what my dick did, and that my mind was repulsed...that's the worst, having to sit there and be violated because your punk ass teen hormones, and she was too big to throw off :-/

the_evil_morty93 · 2019-02-15T13:43:30+00:00

Drunken roommate (female) would constantly hit on me, making lewd suggestions. One night she was so drunk, she fell on the floor. I helped her off the floor and rolled her onto her bed, where she kept trying to grab my junk. Another time she grabbed my wrists and insisted we have sex. I told her no, and she said, "Scream rape. Do it. I dare you to do it." I was incredibly frightened because physically, I could have just pushed her away, but she could have just flipped it around on me, making me the aggressor.

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