This is a post by u/dunesfrank the other day with 79 upvotes and 58% upvotes even though it was brigaded by at least two other subs:

> TLDR; My sister's a mid-thirties doctor, has two children, loving husband who is a real estate agent, went to a work party absent her husband 'cause they couldn't find a sitter, got sexually accosted by a drunken resident who acted like a buffoon. Instead of trying to destroy the young man's life (he's like ten years her junior) she sent an email to him the next day and said he acted inapproprately. He apologized and said he had too much to drink and acted like an ass. And that was it. She didn't run crying to human resources and try to get the man fired, because she knew it would destroy his life.

Several of her female friends who witnessed the display told her that she should immediately run to HR and get this young man sent on his way to oblivion.

Instead she said to me in a phone conversation that she "doesn't want to ruin all this young man has worked for" -- "he had too much to drink and made a dumb mistake." How refreshing to hear this from my own sister -- it refreshes my faith in humanity, and makes me proud of my kin.

She could have easily gotten this young man's life destroyed -- but she's been through med school, knows how hard it is, and didn't want to ruin a young man's life.

This is how adults behave. They don't run to HR and tattle tale like like little children, creating a "snitch" culture like the Soviet Union or people living under fascism. I suspect that in most cases, these awkward sexual interactions can be dealt with just by talking to the person involved. But feminism has created an awful situation in which the slightest supposed transgression can be viewed as sexual assault -- and they always run to the nearest authority figure/patriarch. This isn't fair, since both men and women expect men to initiate.

Now I will say one thing: based on my sister's account, this guy really was acting like a complete lout. He's six foot four, my sister is about five foot three. He even tried to pull down the zipper on her dress, but stopped as soon as she said "fuck off." But "fuck off" is itself an example of real "female empowerment", because she told him to fuck off rather than running, crying to HR, like a child.

I think my sister shows the way in the "MeToo" era. Don't run to HR like a little kid; talk to the man, and work it out, and he will in probability admit he was wrong.

Now women admitting they were wrong is another story ;).

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While it's obviously up to any person whether they want to report a crime or not, what happened was both a crime and sexual assault. She chose to deal with it how she chose to deal with it.

He however seems to think it's great when women don't report someone attempting to strip them of their clothing in public against their will that it is both an admirable and desirable quality. I thought this sub was about child support, custody laws, and other forms of anti male discrimination and not some Redpill/MGTOW he-man women haters club. Am I wrong? Or do you think men groping women and women reporting them for it a form of fascism?

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