My long rant about “Men=Bad, Women=Good”. Just want to share my thoughts about some things....

goodmod · 2019-01-08T08:49:02+00:00

Question: How can OP change the negative thinking induced by society?

2019-01-08T10:43:29+00:00

Dont let it get to you, there is a world outside headlines and internet and most of it fairly normal and mild. What I mean by this, we have these disscusions online and get submerged into politics and bombarded with negativity, but we forget most people dont even think about it, which is a double edged sword sure, but it also means that most people are firstly individuals who see situations and gender relations in individual way. I was for a time overwhelmed too seeing how feminists act online and in return started to expect that men in real life will hate me to the point I tried to slip into every conversation that Im not a feminist (I work as a woman in a heavily male dominated field), until I realized things in the real world are not that "serious" or heated that I need to distance myself from tje lunatics at every point. It also became better when I moved away from MRA, but simply because even around here there are some genuenly mysoginistic people (which I understand, people get frustrated, cant really blame them, but its also frustrating when you want to support someone and they hate on you). So I fully understand the "not wanting to hate your own gender" as well as getting frustrated with another one. Unlike feminism tho, at least despite a few bad apples, I believe MRAs are fighting the good and needed fight. If you feel pressure and frustration focus on people directly around you.

(Sorry about bad editing, Im on my phone)

The_HaminaTHor · 2019-01-08T12:14:15+00:00

Just an anecdotal fact; in Singapore men can't be raped... BY LAW. The legal definition for rape is nonconsensual p in v action

azazelcrowley · 2019-01-08T14:44:46+00:00

Women feel defeminized when their agency isn't seen as wholly positive and reasonable at all times and places and they seen as the victims, and with the focus on them and their feelings and how anything done to harm them is wrong, even if greater harm is done to others in the process. The stuff they say about "emasculating" applies to them too. Defeminizing. The tantrums they throw about it are equivalent to men throwing a tantrum about a woman doing something more masculine than them, like if a woman beats a man at a sport and he starts sulking and shouting. Modern Feminism is just one major prolonged version of this tantrum when it comes to mens rights.

You're talking about femininity. This is what femininity is. It's every bit as disgusting and toxic as the toxic forms of masculinity they talk about, and just as harmful to other people. But they can't see that because of the cult they've formed around it like the pathetic shits they are, they're just the same as the hypersensitive masculine guys. It's exactly the same shit.

"How dare you imply i'm the perpetrator and you're the victim in something, I feel so defeminized i'm going to throw a tantrum over it and try to terrorize you into silence."

When you realize this it makes their constant gaslighting about how men "force" them into this role all the more obviously nonsense and even more pathetic. They defend it tooth and nail every chance they get and gatekeep men constantly over it. Their entire fucking movement is this. The claims men force them into it is just more of the same, expressing their toxic femininity and the dynamic their identity is built around. This is what feminism has done to them, to femininity, to women and their identity.

Title	My long rant about “Men=Bad, Women=Good”. Just want to share my thoughts about some things....
Author	VoteRepublicanAgain
Upvotes	67
Comments	8
Date	January 8, 2019 6:52 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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