Whatare the telltale signs of a failed date?

RedSkeller · 2017-04-02T22:17:26+00:00

You did fine, as long as you are not texting her or stalking her over facespace you're in decent standing. She dropped the 'free next week' because she wants you to lead and ask her out again. Just play it cool and give her a day or so before you do. Every first date you should be ending with at least a kiss if you're feeling her, women grade on a sharp curve for that shit.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-04-02T22:20:57+00:00

You don't get a date #2

That's it

I laugh when guys come on here wondering why she didn't want to go out again and they are all like "I have no idea why! Everything went so well!"

If the date went well it means she would want to see you again. If she doesn't it means she is not attracted or no longer attracted.

EDIT: Reading about your date. Sounds ultra beta of a date if you ask me. You walked in talked in a neighborhood? WTF? Went to a restaurant? I can't think of a more beta first date. Women have had dozens of men take them out on boring ass dates like that all the time. How do you expect to stand out when you do the same? It's nearly impossible to demonstrate any kind of value or any kind of image of a man who has fun when doing that shit.

First dates always need to be active. Your goal for a first date should be to say as few words as possible and let your actions do the talking. The more you talk the more you bore her. WOMEN WANT TO HAVE FUN. Talking is NOT FUN. They can talk all they want with their girlfriends and beta orbiters. Combine that with the fact you didn't escalate at all this was a failed date.

Get rid of the bullshit blue pill mentality that having shit in common matters. The only thing that matters is if you make her vagina wet. That's it. It's really hard to do that by "walking and talking" in a neighborhood and going to a restaurant. Have you not read any of the sidebar material here?

TravelingShitLord · 2017-04-02T22:46:22+00:00

Go cart racing, skeet shooting, or indoor rock climbing. Those are your options for a first date.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-04-03T02:06:38+00:00

You did too much. Dates should lead back to your place or hers. The more time u spend on a date the more chances you give her to realize that you're a sperg.

[deleted] · 2017-04-02T23:28:40+00:00

Look between your legs. Is your dick dry? If so, failed date.

[deleted] · 2017-04-03T19:55:53+00:00

I've had one failed date ever. And it was fucking obvious.

Shit I've had a great one and didn't get a kiss or anything. But her texting me sexy pics for the next week made it obvious.

11novirt · 2017-04-02T22:58:31+00:00

What if I text her in 2-3 days and say along the lines "Hey how you holdin up? Sunday didn't went as planned, you down to shoot guns this weekend?"

Title	Whatare the telltale signs of a failed date?
Author	11novirt
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	April 2, 2017 10:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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