The number one thing fueling my limiting beliefs about being an Indian guy in the US is a massive lack of Indian guys out there having success with hot girls. How to handle this negative feedback loop?

BullshittingNonsense · 2017-04-05T22:08:24+00:00

Help us out here - are we talking dots or feathers?

JukeLuke · 2017-04-05T22:27:35+00:00

You already know this but the biggest thing holding you back is yourself. Not the "loser white guys that wear baseball caps and are overweight" but yourself.

Last night i went out to the club in not a really positive mental state (i havent gone out in a while and was all in my head, instead of having fun). Im a white 6'4 lean built guy with european features. I get IOIs from the girls you want to fuck and ive fucked "hot blondes" in the past year. I can literally just stand in the corner on my phone and a hb7 will start a conversation with me within 30-45 minutes. Im not trying to brag just showing perspective. But guess what. That genetic pool has done nothing but made me lazy and awkward during conversations with girls. The only girls that I can fuck are the ones that are pretty wasted and dont care about my shitty personality.

Last night, I was by myself when I looked up and saw a 5 foot 5 indian guy dancing with the hottest girl in the club (I kid you not, it was an ugly indian dude with a HB9. She was atleast 2 inches taller than him). He was having the shittiest moves i ever saw. He probably knew that he was dancing weird but you know what he was thinking at that time? He was thinking, "I dont give a fuck. The girl can either accept my company or she can walk away. Anyway I am going to have fun with or without her". And the girl was obviously enjoying it and mimicking what he was doing. 15 minutes later and she is dragging him out of the club holding his hand.

Now im not saying to just go out there and dance like a retard and you will pull the hottest girl in the club. Im just saying that you have to get yourself out of you head that girls wont fuck you just because youre indian. Sure you might have a slight disadvantage during the beginning (when they first lay eyes on you) but if you show that you have a great personality and dont give a fuck, girls will fuck you.

Il128 · 2017-04-05T22:23:38+00:00

It's because you approach this shit from the perspective of "an Indian guy" rather than as a man. So, you know, you're coming off as weak as fuck. Hence, https://youtu.be/l5obLmJ4O9E

Juan-San · 2017-04-05T22:05:49+00:00

https://www.reddit. com/r/asktrp/search?q=indian&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance&t=all

Il128 · 2017-04-05T22:09:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/l5obLmJ4O9E

redpill-account · 2017-04-05T22:40:30+00:00

Ramit Sethi

edwardhwhite · 2017-04-06T04:11:13+00:00

I see it. Try it and see. What's the worst that could happen, you don't get a hot blonde? You're not getting one now. You have nothing to lose.

Pokeylaw · 2017-04-06T22:24:44+00:00

Dude I'm going to try to make a Indian guy post. This shit is hilarious always posting about the same shit. Good trolling

jasonmoop · 2017-04-11T08:08:06+00:00

Hot blondes?

Why don't you try for girls for in your own league? If you are gonna keep hitting on 8's and up then you will keep getting shot down.

Based on my personal experience and tone of your message I am guessing you are 3/4 on a good day. Don't overshoot and you won't be shot down.

BTW, what is up with these H1B-types always trying to hook up with "hot blondes"? Lol

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