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| 3 | Girl is very interested in me but my friend met her firstThat’s what I told him. Either you’re fucking her rn or I will. But you know how some of these kids are, they will be pissed if you fuck some girl they have a 5% chance with. With me, if i’m taking to a girl and she either leaves the conversation or some other guy takes her away from me; I look at what I have done wrong (not being interesting or other stuff) instead of blaming it on the other guy. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Girl is very interested in me but my friend met her firstIf the dude hasn't fucked her after talking for that long, he ain't fucking anything Exactly my thoughts when I wrote the following, in the second to last paragraph. -> I thought I might give my boy a W but I strongly feel if you don’t fuck a girl within like 3-4 times of meeting, it’s already over. I told my friend at the time, after the multiple “fuck you”s, that this girl was seriously flirting with me and I wasn’t trying to do anything. I asked if it would be fine to fuck her and he said “if… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on how to get rid of a Dry Streak?hahaha. I totally understand what you mean. its crazy how one day, youre getting IOIs from every girl in the club but the next day even a hb6 wont acknowledge you. To be honest, i feel i just need to get a fresh haircut and i might get on again. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Girl asked me if i threw up in her bathroomyeah i definitely wasn’t going to say it was the roommate i was thinking texting her “yeah i was pretty blacked out last night idk. my bad if i did tho” what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?yeah to be honest, I feel that meeting a girl off of tinder and fucking her has a pretty low chance of the girl coming again. I guess tinder girls are mostly there for a quick fuck. hey, atleast you got your dick wet that night. I know how you feel, especially when you hit it off with the girl and have a connection. Shit hurts sometimes not gonna lie. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?Maybe your right, im not sure. Thanks for your advice. The thing is that I honestly feel that girl view me as a ONS kind of guy. Sorry for sounding corny, but ive gotten remarks from girls that I "look like a bad boy" and I give off that type of vibe. Ive had girls ask how many girls ive fucked in my lifetime and I always say "guess" and they usually guess around 10-15 more girls than ive actually fucked, which is already a decently up there number (I always respond, "Ive fucked 0, Im saving m… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?yeah i guess your right. my bad the reason why i put it, is because there are hot ass girls that might been having a rough week/streak and just want to get fucked regardless how the guy is or looks like. They just want it to be a one-time thing and would be embarrassed to say they fucked that ugly ass dude later on. Guys get horny, girls get horny. Thats why I wanted to state that I am not that kind of guy. To be honest, I look around campus and see the kinds of guys that are around and I wo… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?Yo, thanks a lot for your advice dude. Really hit home. When I started my TRP journey, I (as well as many others still think) that men have to be emotionless and hard as a rock. It took me a good while to incorporate what ive learned from TRP with the basic human ability of having emotions (you should have seen me during my TRP anger phase that thankfully only lasted a month). The fact that you said that I may never forget about her is probably the best advice i think I could have gotten. Like… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?yeah we had a 5 some that night as well. Haha just kidding. nah it was a figure of speech. Like "when someone fucks with you" meaning they like you a lot. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?i’m definitely keeping those videos. In one of them, you can clearly see her smiling, holding my hand, and you can hear my voice (so you know it’s me). but i have a feeling that since we both ended contact and are basically ignoring each other, that there is a small chance of her claiming anything against me (but in this day and age, who knows). this was also 2 months ago yeah i think i agree with you. it was probably all too fast. i guess some girls are different in that way. some end contact b… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Where did I go wrong with this ONS?i’m definitely keeping those videos. In one of them, you can clearly see her smiling, holding my hand, and you can hear my voice (so you know it’s me). but i have a feeling that since we both ended contact and are basically ignoring each other, that there is a small chance of her claiming anything against me (but in this day and age, who knows). this was also 2 months ago i don’t know if i invested too much. one of my problems is that i often invest too little (lost a lot of potential plates bec… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How hard/easy is it to get a girl wetI'm gonna be honest with you. I always thought lube was used mostly for anal. never tried it with regular sex so what you just lube up your finger and put it in her? what if even fingering is too much her? (I'm guessing just be gentle and put it in?) | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How hard/easy is it to get a girl wetyooo. hahaha I literally asked her "you wanna do anal then?" the last time she couldn't get wet that too didn't work smh | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How hard/easy is it to get a girl wetI know right? I get it. some girls might have an off day and she might not be turned on but my foreplay has never been lacking (ive read the Sex God Method in the past) and her not getting wet has happened multiple times. I just dont get what wrong with this girl | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | what do you do when you become too fucked up to fuck the girl and she leaves?yeah I don't have high hopes at all. what do you think would be the best thing to text her in my situation? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | what do you do when you become too fucked up to fuck the girl and she leaves?I do realize that. my question is what should I do regards to that girl. take the L and next her or message her? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:22 PM |
| 2 | what do you do when you become too fucked up to fuck the girl and she leaves?lol rehab. you're joking. I'm in college. a lot of people drink. a lot of people smoke. and a lot of people black out. last night was a one off time I do realize the dangers of addiction and I can see many of you guys are concerned and I'm greatful but in my situation im good. I've gone out for 5-6 times a week for a month and then I've gone 3 months without a drop of alcohol/weed/drugs. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistok so it's like "you pump 50ml of steroids into your arm" kind of thing. so instead of pumping "50ml of steroids" I pump "my life" aka my interests/hobbies. basically what makes me interesting. and instead of "your arm" it's "into her". meaning I'm letting her experience me | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistbet. thanks a lot final question. just curious. can fucking a girl poorly reduce the chances of turning that ONS into a plate and vice versa? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistthanks a lot for your help. makes a lot of sense the problem with me is I don't know when I'm needy or not so therefore I'd rather be uninterested than overall needy. like the more a girl shows interest, the more I'm likely to act uninterested. this is probably because I like when women chase me or do special things to get my attention. but I kinda think the only girls that will stay are girls way below my smv or crazy girls. like I feel if I check her Instagram/snapchat every time, like every I… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistsee I have not thought of that. it's just recently I had a girl that I fucked pretty good (stimed out on addy so I lasted 1hr30) she passed out almost instantly after then she kept texting me everyday after a week the texts slowed down and eventually shit tests started popping up to which had no effect on me (I would either respond single words or not respond). then one day I hit her up to go out and she didn't even reply. so ever since then I have not texted her (fuck a double text) but then ag… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistyeah not possible due to the issues i stated in my post | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Ive become a Red Pilled Pick up artistboth haha but the point is figurative | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:25 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to "You're so skinny"?I don't think so. I get the "you're so skinny" from girls maybe 5 times a year so it's infrequent | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you trust or engage girls with purple or blue hair?yeah I agree. I've been going to a huge social college and I've noticed that every girl that has abstract hair color is either weird af, feminist/liberal, potheads that will bring you back to their place and pass out leaving you with your dick in your hand, or all of the above not worth the time or energy when there are millions of other girls to talk to | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do I think I am better than everyone?you want to “lead” but don’t know how. Simply put, you lead amongst men by demonstrating you deserve to. Come up with fun ideas and do them. Invite your roommate to grab a beer. Suggest hitting on women. > You hit the nail on the head. This is my biggest problem. I am not inviting to people. If you think about it, I’m kinda of a leach that is dependent on others to have fun and I’m not giving any of my fun to my friends (only half joking haha). What are some examples where you made your friend g… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Tracking Plates' Period App?You'll start to notice trends (I've found that women vary greatly as to when they're at their most horny) Care to explain? Do you mean, some girls are horny right before their period, while others during, and some right after? So do you mean there is no rule when a girl is most horny? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 03:46 AM |
| 3 | To remove from all social media or not ?I am completely different from these guys that posted. For some context, I am 20 years old in College with a huge party scene. In a top fraternity so I hang out with a decent amount of girls. My mentality is that if a girl flakes/loses interest/doesnt respond anymore. I just forget about her. She can unfollow me if she wants. That is her privilege. I am not going to take the time out of my day, just to unfollow/block a girl (even though it take less than 5 seconds) What I will do, is go on with … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Why does Time Fly?A lot of the advice in here is shit and I suspect it’s because you’re getting advice from younger guys who have no real obligations. maybe you are right. However, some people are different though However, I feel you and me are similar in regards to having shit on a schedule. I feel like a schedule is key and will result in a lot more shit done. Do "Task A" from 3-5pm and then "Task B" from 5-6. More doing shit, less wandering around deciding what to do. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Quick Question: Buying Girls drinks...Great points. I got a few questions though. Tip your bartender well - we wing for people we like Ok I get tipping. How about introducing myself? (like a handshake and say "Im JukeLuke. What about you?"). Obviously no long convos since its busy but is that fine? I feel knowing their name and vice versa helps a lot in everything. DO NOT bang your wingwomen - you can use them for years to get you laid. Remember their birthdays, send them witty txts, be the dude they love camping with. But do not ba… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Quick Question: Buying Girls drinks...Since you are a bartender. Im curious what you would describe good bar game? The bars I go to pretty similar to clubs (dark, loud music, 50% dancing, 50% standing in groups, lots of people). Any tips? (like how much pregame?, best kind of approach to girl?, biggest mistakes?, etc) | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What to do with girl after a One Night Stand?girls are texting back. every one of them will respond if I write a simple "hey" it's mostly I don't know what to say. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What to do with girl after a One Night Stand?yeah. 100% not sending flowers. I only know the girl for 2-3 hours max. if I start sending some flowers and shit she'll think I got hella attached to her after sex. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend is traditional, but very liberal. What should I do?next her. idk why you havent done it already especially since its a long distance relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Im an asshole. and not in the good way.oh whenever I go out or talk to people, I have the biggest smile on my face. every single time I'm being a dick to a girl, I always am laughing hard regardless how the girl is reacting. I would say I'm very happy. I'm laughing a lot and if a girl rejects me hard, I find it hilarious because that means I don't have to worry about that girl anymore and I'm free to go onto the next one. yeah but I'll try your other tips such as charm and game though. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Make a woman squirt/gush during sexyo not really on topic, but watching the gif, do girls like their pussies slapped like that? (at the end of the clip) Like I know every girl is different but does that arouse them or hurt them (in my mind, it hurts ?). Id rather slap some ass hard than the pussy tbh. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I live a red pilled life but I have no emotions - just apathy+1 on the "what scares the fuck out of you" Literally doing something that scares the fuck out of me and seeing results (to my surprise often positive) gets me going. Not to mention, it builds you as a person. Go on a trip without planning, visit cities you havent been to, turn off and leave all electronic devices for a while, drop acid (id advise with a friend that did it before, if first time), go hunting. Literally sky is the limit (skydiving?). I have a feeling that OP is living the same bor… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How important are internships in college?Call it something sexier Im very curious what you would call it. Like i get it, telling a girl "Im planning on getting a data analysis job after college" instantly dries a pussy up, so what should I call it? The job is basically: getting a shit ton of data, analyzing it (plotting graphs, trend-lines, etc), and predicting what the best opinions are for the company. Potential to work for companies such as Google, Microsoft, InsightSquared, etc. One of my friends got a 120k job 2 years after colleg… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girl wants me to dominate her, any tips?Also, women don't have Adams apples. You do want to avoid the wind pipe. yeah did not know how to describe it at the time haha. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girl wants me to dominate her, any tips?Some tips to add to the advice above. A safe word is a good idea. At the beginning of foreplay (when you are just starting aka making out), say something to her like "Say the word mommy when its too much for you" or something like that. I know its not the most alpha thing, but i feel this allows you to push limits that you would have. Or instead of a safe word, you can do the alternative and try to read her body language which is harder Specific tips: > Then take your hand and reach around from … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Learn red pill game, or MGTOW?Should I even bother learning red pill game or should I MGTOW? Learn red pill game/lifestyle. Ive been studying TRP for a good 2 years and its been life-changing. Even though it might seem weird but girls can contribute to your life and improve it (other than just sex). I was fortunate enough to have a very Red Pilled father, with a wife that often supported him and his views (except when my mom starts talking about me and girls, stuff like "dont have sex till you're married" etc). Therefore, wh… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 05:55 AM |
| 4 | She went on my phoneNegative. Although I agree that doing it secretly works but it also works overtly. I have had decent amount of girls literally say "Oh I bet you fuck tons of girls a week" or "So how many girlfriends do you actually have?" all with big ass grins on their faces. When I agree and amplify every one of those, there is around an 80% chance we are making out in the next 30 seconds (or 100% that night). But hey that just me and my experience. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:58 AM |
| 25 | She went on my phoneHoly Fuck if a girl said "If you want to keep your secret girlfriends safe. I respect your right to do so." I would be literally grinning in my head for the whole day. Her saying that is literally pure gold. Why you might ask? Its because she knows or presumes that you have options. That other girls want to fuck you. That you are highly valuable on the market. That your time spent on her could have been easily spend on other girls but instead shes getting the attention right now. I would agree a… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Should I remember a girl's birthday?Just write her a card No one under age of 40 writes cards to a girl's birthday post on her Facebook yeah so it will be lost in the hundreds of other orbiters posting on her timeline as well. She'll literally glance over it and think "oh thats sweet" and forget about it in 2 seconds. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Should I remember a girl's birthday?Shit, I dont even remember what dates my exams are lmao If the girl is really interested in you and down to fuck, she is going to make it her mission that day to remind you that its her birthday today. and fuck the gift. When I was in a relationship, my gift was my dick. lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:35 AM |
| 6 | How to booty call, ask for nudes, and get more of what you want in general? Slow and steady or to the point?Just to add to what ^ said. This happened recently Like if I notice that a girl's shirt is dirty, I will say "damn that shirt is pretty dirty" To which she will probably say something boring like "Oh yeah, [this happened to me] thats why its so dirty" Instead of ending convo there or saying something boring like "When do you do laundry?" Say: "Damn, you're such a dirty little girl" with a smirk. This works a lot of the times because two reasons: (1) she is actually has a dirty shirt and (2) dirt… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Help me understand girls with boyfriends.what would have you said in that situation? Usually if someone starts talking to my girl, I am of pretty high smv and usually get girls hooked within 15minutes, that I just turn away and start looking at my phone (sometimes, in direction of other females). The girl I was previously talking to, sees this, and does not want to risk losing me so the girl quickly flakes the other guy and comes back to me. Once I literally had two top frat guys come up to this one girl (hb8, top sorority) I was talki… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand girls with boyfriends.texted her. still same interest. Snapchat messaged her around 9pm: "Yo im going out tonight. You should come thru. Also wear that shirt [from last time]" She responded almost 2 hours later with a response but I did not read it until around 3pm next morning. It read: "LMAO that shirt was TRASHED LMAO. Ill be out" The reason why I never opened the message was because it was already 11:30ish when she replied and thats pretty late (I usually go around 10:30-11, and pull girls back to my place around… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How do i balance studying, lifting and Hobbies?Agree my workout regularly ends around 45 minutes (squats, bench/OH press, deadlift/t-row) | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 03:59 AM |
| 2 | How do i balance studying, lifting and Hobbies?^ highly recommend this. idk if it was my procrastination or what but i often did homework the class before it was due. or if i had free time, I would do homework I just got from class A during the next one. Do homework during lunch as well worked for me. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Help me understand girls with boyfriends.nah, at my college snapchat and instagram are everywhere. And girls (including me) prefer snapchat messaging because they automatically delete after u view them (perfect for cheating tbh) | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Balancing Lifting and Going OutThanks a lot man. You explained it perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Balancing Lifting and Going OutStay under your calorie limit for the day if possible, or do cardio during that day if you know you're going to drink. A system I use is 30 minutes of jogging earns me two drinks. So if I eat 600 calories under my TDEE and do 30 minutes on the treadmill I can have 4 drinks and know that it's not going to fuck up my diet. You might want to consider doing something like that. actually im trying to gain weight which must be surprising on this sub. haha On to the creatine. If you take creatine while… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the ideal number of times a week to go out?Whats a good amount of sleep? With my current schedule, I go to sleep at 12 and wake up at 8 to lift at 9. Also how big of an effect does alcohol have on gains from lifting? I tend to drink a lot of water before, during, and after alcohol so I basically never wake up hungover (even with hard alcohol like tequila) | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:53 AM |
| 5 | How to get LTR to be sexual over textThis is the right answer. Every girl knows that her best advantage is their body/pussy. Thats why they post half naked pics on the instagram just to get validation from guys. When you distance yourself from her, she wont be getting validation from you and therefore she will naturally try to pull you back in with more sexual acts. To add. even though im in college and social media is everywhere, I prefer to actually see tities in front of my face instead of 10 seconds on snapchat but thats just m… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Confused what to do in this situation.yeah I've heard of shit tests let me go more in depth since you need it met girl. she's super interested. didn't fuck that night because she had some sorority shit to do and she didn't go out that night see her sometimes at bars over the next two weeks. good convo etc however one night she's completely cold. she sees me from a distance and jerks her head the other way. I don't care and go up to her like nothing happened. she keeps giving me one word answers and looking in other directions. I kno… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How many of you guys went round 2 during sex?yeah Ive been edging everyday with lube for the past 3/4s of a year. Its really helped. I try to go for around 30-40 minutes. making for great facials and all the other fun ways of drenching her in it and every woman I've been with has told me how much they love that I don't just dribble on them when I ejaculate. kinda off topic but when you are about to cum what do you do? Ask the girl where she wants it? (kinda beta if you ask me). cum inside? cum on her face? Or do you do what you feel like d… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys went round 2 during sex?yes I agree. this comment really opened up my eyes: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6y2709/in_your_opinion_what_is_the_perfect_amount_of/dmkcwf5/ Like I always thought that the girl would be disappointed by my short sex game. But ever since that comment, ive been more focusing on my pleasure. I remember a while ago, this girl was about to ride me cowgirl and I felt that after 3 strokes in, I was about to blow a huge load (this was because I was 20, really horny everyday, and to make it … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Had a really bad night last night. Any help would be appreciatedactually no. i dont smoke | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Had a really bad night last night. Any help would be appreciatedyeah but I've said in my post that I'm used to being rusty for the first couple of interactions. I usually get better as the night goes on. but I guess you are right. somehow it showed I was trying harder and it was working against me. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Had a really bad night last night. Any help would be appreciatedwhat? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Where can I read more about posts like "Mystery Man" and "Be More Like a Stranger to Her"?Something I always did was say "Oh, I got to go. My friend just invited me to their apartment. She said she wants to pregame or something like that" When I say "friend" she immediately thinks I am talking about my guy friends until she hears the "she" part in the second sentence. Ive got 100% success with this; from the girl being unhappy/sad with me leaving to trying to convince me not to go. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 02:21 AM |
| 8 | Hydrogen Peroxide and Whitening Teeth.yes you are correct. this is the red pill. aka the self-improvement pill. Half of the advice on TRP is about lifting, which makes you look better. Therefore, whitening teeth is also self-improvement and I want to improve it. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Got a question about my roommate and the girl he brought home last night.makes a lot of sense. thanks a lot man. great advice. to be honest, id rather not get laid than ruin my friendship with my roommate with a chubby girl. plenty of other girls out there for me to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Got a question about my roommate and the girl he brought home last night.Friendzoned. thank god Follow up with her if you can. It's a good plan. Be proactive. Don't wait to see her if you don't have to. Respect your flatmates wishes about her. ok thanks. flatmate started talking today about how drunk he was and the vibe was that he fucked her just because he was fucked up (aka a mistake). Dude called up his friend and said "dude i kinda smashed girls name by accident last night" lmao. i dont know if she will be back, although she did leave her shoes in the living roo… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize without alcohol?Some people are like that. Over time the more you accept it about yourself the less people will question you. oh i drink. I was just commenting a specific example that happened to me once when I decided to go out sober and fuck around with the drunk ass girls. lmao Right now your bodylanguage and voice tonality are communicating discomfort which people pick up on subconsciously which is why they pester you. nah to be honest, i think it was more because she was drunk as fuck and I kept going from… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How to socialize without alcohol?Damn this is interesting. Do you think alcoholism and other addictive habits are genetic or what? Im really curious because my parents are the opposite of yours. Very little alcohol (maybe some wine at dinner, or one beer a year) and no smoking. My dad told me that he smoked cigarettes once in his life (during the 80s, where smoking was everywhere and the bad effects wasnt really known, such as lung cancer). He told me, he smoked a cigarette and never came back. Im the exact same, I got some fri… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How to socialize without alcohol?Just explain to people that got are allergic to it im not sure this works though. I told this one girl i was allergic to alcohol, and I kid you not, she would not stop asking me questions about it for the rest of the night. I used everything to go off that topic, from saying im majoring in becoming a monk to even drinking from her cup (which confused her even more aka more focus on my alleged "allergy".) | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:17 AM |
| 10 | Can you guys share some of your kino moves?This can get creepy real quick. not really. Yes sure, if you're holding her hand hard and she cant let go, it can be creepy. But if you're relaxed, introduce yourself and lightly shake her hand once or twice (pretty loose grip) and keep holding, the girl is in complete power of either letting go or holding it. If she keeps holding it, you're in business if not, tread carefully. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | why am i still having trouble with woman?dude are you me? wtf. I'm almost the exact same as what you are describing above. 6'4. lean built, also above average dick, dual major in an area that I'm very interested in and is booming. taking Calc 2 right now with an 96% average grade. never pussy whipped and I've had girls in top sororities turn down other guys just to talk to me. however I also noticed I'm afraid of rejection. starting convos are a challenge. however I think it's mostly due because I can literally stand by myself in a clu… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What does a typical guy (age 20) apartment look like?yeah. I just wanted a bunch of people here to give their idea of an ideal apartment for a college guy who invites girls and guy friends over. like a typical apartment. then I'll pick what I like and incoporate into my place. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal for women who are NOT HB10 to avoid eye contact if they are into you?my motto: If a girl looks straight into my eyes: she's into me if a girl doesn't look into my eyes: she's shy and she's into me really made my life so much easier. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Realistic?My uncle has a skin deformity. Its something he cant naturally change. Dont know whats it's called but its like half of his face is a natural normal color where the other half is a striking red. There is no gradual change from natural to the red. Its all over his body. And guess what, he's one of the funniest and coolest guys ive met. Everyone loves him. Got a decent wife for his smv and 5 kids (none have his skin problem), 2 of his boys are even taking modeling careers. His ability to not give … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Signed a lease for an apartment with a friend. Today I check and he removed himself without telling me. What should i do?Then cut ties completely. You don't need "friends" like that in your life. 100 percent cutting ties if its true. Dick move. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | What is a shit test?For example: Girl is attracted to you But her mind subconsciously makes her test you to see if youre worth fucking So, typical shit test: "You're not tall enough for me" This is to check if youre option 1: a pussy and going to go cry in the corner or option 2: own up to it and not give a fuck. Remember this is something they dont know they are doing but comes out anyway. The response you give will tell them if your option 1 or option 2. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Telling girls you don't drinkIm not that strict on my "im not going to drink" policy. So if someone already poured me a drink, im going to be nice and take a sip. But often times, yes I dont drink when I go out. What I say to women is this: "I pregamed hard before coming here. I think you need to catch up" while holding a cup of water. Obviously dont let the girl drink the water. If she asks what the cup is, just say "Its the best drink in the world". The nights when I did say that didnt drink, a shit ton of shit tests came… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Ever noticed girls acting shy around you after you bulked/got bigger? Is this the kind of reaction I should expect from now on?what do you feel about women grabbing ur ass? I personally find it kinda weird and jarring. I always tell them "hey that area is off limits" with a huge grin. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Can you explain what happened in this situation.I never thought of it that way. I knew sex was more mental and emotional for them but didnt consider the fact that they can be satisfied even without actual intercourse. Thanks for the insight man. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Is being too smart a disadvantage?Don't get "so drunk" then. I suggest that you build your tolerance. For me, it is a very useful acquirment bc I can take in large amounts of substances and still function well in a social environment what did you do to build that tolerance? drink often or drink frequently? I am a genius. And women love it. NEVER let them pull you into their frame. interesting frame. Im intrigued because ive seen guys have the same mindset and fall flat on their face when it came to talking to women (or talked to… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 03:41 AM |
| 4 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?Going out with the intention of having fun helps a lot, I've been doing that recently. A month or so ago I went to a club with a few friends and I really enjoyed myself, and I made out with some girl for the first time in about a year. I was stone cold sober to. She wasn't great looking but it's something. yeah this is great improvement. keep going out. One thing I do (im not sure if its advice or not but always works for me), is not make-out with girls in the public. Yeah sure they could even b… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:59 AM |
| 12 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?Like everyone else here. I would recommend you to lose it by yourself. Actually stop thinking about getting a hooker at all. Its a waste of money and your time. Its never too old to lose your virginity. I too was pretty afraid and incompetent to getting laid (1 year ago, a top sorority girl kept dragging me to her room and I still was still unable to have sex. I literally kept ignored her when she kept saying "i like you" while kissing my neck in public). Not long after I discovered TRP and arou… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How did you feel when swallowing the red pill?at first I was fine (mostly because I was studying how to flirt and shit tests. just like you with learning how to fuck a girl) but as I dove deeper into the fundamentals of TRP and how society really is, I did have an angry phase (at women). but that lasted maybe a month or two. now I'm much more confident because I know how the world works and I can "game the system" to my advantage. also found out that my dad is RP as fuck so that's probably a reason why I didn't have any more serious effects… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I base, if i should case the girl, upon the first minutes of conversation?Great points but can you explain to me what exactly is "rapport" and how to build it and eventually "break rapport"? I always did not understand what it means even though I have a feeling that I do it anyway in my conversations. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | "Do you have an accent?"I actually have one. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 01:56 AM |
| 3 | The number one thing fueling my limiting beliefs about being an Indian guy in the US is a massive lack of Indian guys out there having success with hot girls. How to handle this negative feedback loop?You already know this but the biggest thing holding you back is yourself. Not the "loser white guys that wear baseball caps and are overweight" but yourself. Last night i went out to the club in not a really positive mental state (i havent gone out in a while and was all in my head, instead of having fun). Im a white 6'4 lean built guy with european features. I get IOIs from the girls you want to fuck and ive fucked "hot blondes" in the past year. I can literally just stand in the corner on my p… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Lying: Why it's the worst sexual strategy...trying to be perfect (never lie, nice, etc) is beta mindset. Girls know that guys (the ones that make them wet) have problems and do stupid shit like lie and fight. Thats why you hear girls gossiping with their "girl friends" about guys all the time. This shit keeps them excited and curious. Doesnt mean that you are to lie all the time (I personally lie just to be sarcastic, like say I got a small dick). | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Im only confident when im horny. Any help?been edging for the past two months. today i successfully edged for an hour. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between leading and being needy?I barely had time to even start talking again. she was always leaving. but thanks for the advice tho. I really need to focus more on watching how she is reacting to me rather than what she is saying. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between leading and being needy?I was talking to this girl and doing exactly that. telling her to do stuff not asking. she was talking about her being a cheerleader and I said to her "show me pictures then". Then she proclaimed "omg your so needy" and proceeded to show me pictures. her saying "needy" immediately made me lose all interest in her and funny enough she left soon after she showed me the pictures. After I started ignoring her, she started advancing to me again but I nexted her already (she was more as a warm up prac… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Should I introduce my step dad to The Red Pill?yeah this. never mention or tell about TRP to anyone. However, do talk about topics that are heavily red pill based to him. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Friends keep calling me a virgin?What kind of information you lose when you're drunk? well this is kinda hard to explain but I'll try my best. when I'm sober I know all the stuff I learned from studying TRP and books. Abundance mentality, being sexual, kino, push/pull, and much more. when I'm intoxicated, I am much more invested into the girl and also go more into interview mode about topics that are go no where (I don't convert them into anything exciting. for example. when I'm drunk: girl talks about her math class. I respond… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Fraternity Problem (Pretty Urgent)midwest | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Fraternity Problem (Pretty Urgent)yeah I am completely for the frat life. However, Im still seriously considering rushing as a junior. I heard there is a separate quota for junior rushees, is that true? How much harder do you think it is for a junior to get a bid to a top house? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do I have pre-ejaculation or am I just really inexperienced/sensitive?Why are you jealous of the foreskin? Im kinda hazy on the advantages/disadvantages. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Fraternity Problem (Pretty Urgent)Who pledges for 8 days? exactly. it is concerning to me. Basically the same as marriage, where I cant leave Above average smv guys in middle tier frats still kill it man. Yeah I havent seen anyone from the fraternity talking to/inviting hot girls tho... so im not so sure that it is a middle tier frat. However, the other 30 some fraternities dont even have events with sororities so I guess I should be grateful? Also bars at my school are 19 and above (21 to drink). So a majority of the freshman g… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Do I have pre-ejaculation or am I just really inexperienced/sensitive?dude thanks a lot. your straight up, no bs, advice is great. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Do I have pre-ejaculation or am I just really inexperienced/sensitive?no, 15 seconds is not 'normal' no matter how you slice it. you need to start masturbating with water-based lubricant first of all to help desensitize a little, and not let this happen again dude. i always masturbated with my dry hand. I also have foreskin. what are the advantages water-based lubricants give? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Do I have pre-ejaculation or am I just really inexperienced/sensitive?always wear a condom, those little slut muffins want alphas to fertilize them yeah this was the only thing on my mind when I was fucking the girl raw. I wasnt going to take any chances so I pulled out and came on her stomach (i even cleaned it up with toilet paper, to make sure she didnt put any of it inside her) With more experience you'll last longer, sometimes changing the rhythm of your thrusts helps Are slow thrusts better? Also since im pretty inexperienced, me cumming so quickly is pretty… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%Shit if this is true, than it makes me really happy about my count right now. I have fucked a total of 3 girls in my life but all of them have been in the past 3 months (and id say that 2 out of the 3 have been pretty hot. both in top sororities in my school). Thanks a lot man. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Ever since I have got rid of wasteful activities (video games, films, porn), I have been feeling like shit and I get great urges to come back to my old habits. Anyway to help me overcome this?ive played around with the idea of NoFap and experienced the "flatline" you say. the longest ive lasted on NoFap was a month and a week. Personally I feel masturbating in moderation (once a week or once every 2 weeks) is the best balance for me. However, i am curious to your experience with going longer? How long have you been NoFap? Do you see a difference? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 05:54 AM |
| 4 | When can you share redpill ideas with someone who is bluepill?didnt even read the post. just came to comment this: "you dont" | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I join a middle tier frat or wait till next semester and gamble joining a Top Tier frat?does it matter if you got lots (I mean lots: 20 or more) top sorority girls vouching for you? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Should I join a middle tier frat or wait till next semester and gamble joining a Top Tier frat?yeah. Greek life is really big here too. all the above hb4-hb10 girls are in sororities and they always ask "what frat are you in". the one thing I'm afraid is not getting a bid my junior year. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean a girl has "Daddy issues?". I met this girl who self-proclaimed she has daddy issues and I didnt know what to talk about.yeah there were a couple of girls. But then again i never fucked them the first night i met them too. I feel that if i dont fuck them on the first night, im more interested. also is it true that girls are more attached/attracted to you after sex? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean a girl has "Daddy issues?". I met this girl who self-proclaimed she has daddy issues and I didnt know what to talk about.So she doesnt have actual daddy issues? She was just using that term as an excuse to get more affection from me? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean a girl has "Daddy issues?". I met this girl who self-proclaimed she has daddy issues and I didnt know what to talk about.One thing about me is that i lose interest in girls right after sex. I have no motivation to text the girl. Id rather instead go out to the club and meet another girl and try again to get laid. I have a hard time developing feelings. is this normal? I never had a problem with my RP dad/ RP Mom tho. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 03:26 AM |
| 5 | I think I finally understand the importance of pausing and speaking slowlyIve been slowing my speak recently (past half year). I used to talk to girls very quickly. One girl even told me "slow down. You're talking too fast" (btw i responded laughing "i think you need a hearing aid instead") What ive done over the past half year is to focus on each word as it comes out my mouth. In private, I would exaggerate speaking slowly. Liiiiikkkkkeee veeeerrrrryyyyy sloooowwwwlllllyyyyyy. I also focused on making my voice deeper even though its basically physically impossible (i… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 02:24 AM |
| – | Need help really quick (next 30 min). Im at a club where there is a lot of potential (girl wise), but I feel hungover and I want to fall asleep. What should I do?so no alcohol? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Texted a girl to meet up at a club. while waiting for her, I fucked another girl. What should I text her the next day?Never apologize. be selfish. "I'm a high value guy. girls want to fuck me. she could have texted me to see where I was if she really wanted to see me. another girl beat her to me." -that's the kind of mentality I should have right? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Havent talked/texted a girl since NYE. What should i do? (not your typical situation)What I would do is, text her out of the blue "do any of your GFs want to be in my private army to help convince those frat bozos to let me in? we want the ones that're so cute they can't say no " She'll probably text you back laughing and saying something like "oh really? what do I get out of it" hm. personally i dont see this working. Maybe if i was constantly texting her, but you have to remember I havent had any contact with her for almost 3 weeks. Does the hiatus make a difference? Do you th… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Havent talked/texted a girl since NYE. What should i do? (not your typical situation)"hey, when are you going to (frat name) pre-game? its been a while, we should meet up" *basically, i want to meet her before the pre-game or make her tell me the location of the party. We would then go together and I will meet the frat guys | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Havent talked/texted a girl since NYE. What should i do? (not your typical situation)So just hit her up and try to fuck her/go to a party at this frat with her. What exactly should i text her? Like word by word would be helpful. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been in a fraternity or is in one? A couple of questions.you offer something unique that would be a great addition. i have a pretty big European accent that, almost everyone i talk to, asks about. Even though ive been born in the United States, i still have it (mainly due to my non-english mother trying to teach me english when i was younger and the accent stuck). I basically have two options to go around this. First tell the truth about me being born in America and living here my entire life. Or lie and say that I was born in the European country whe… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl at college NYE party and now what to text the day after?haha. when you put it like that, it is pretty funny. however I've been learning on improving my game but never my texting game. I'd rather meet them in person then playing texting games where sarcasm and shit like that are lost in translation. however I won't be on campus for the next 2 weeks. so there is little chance for me to meet her in person. so I think it would be good to start some conversation with her. what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone ever feel like they have been reading TRP for a while and, after taking a break, you feel like you know nothing? Because that is how I feel right now. Back at square one.would you rather be accepted by 100 average girls or rejected by 99 ones and fuck 1 perfect 10? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm 13, does the red pill work?yeah what i would give to have the head start at his age is insane. and im 19years old | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm 13, does the red pill work?The biggest advice I would give you is to start working out regularly and religiously. You honestly dont know the amount of money I would give to go back in time to start working out earlier. The amount of girls you get later in life just because of you being big is insane. I might even go into monk mode because the girls your age arent worth a single damn. The "crushes" you have now wont matter in a few years. I'm labeled a creep The only reason for this is because your not high enough SMV. Thi… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Living in a mostly freshman dorm as a junior?Are you deadlifting more than 315lb and eating more than 3000 calories a day? no. Ive been mostly focusing on my bench and arms. I know that is not ideal at all. Im going to add squats and deadlifts soon to my workout. I try to eat as much as i can (i literally threw up two weeks ago because i overate; a first in my life). I cant eat large breakfasts/lunches/dinners because I get full really quickly. Even if i do eat big, i tend to be hungry again in a hour or two. I also have a friend that is a… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Living in a mostly freshman dorm as a junior?I call that a great opportunity. You can smash so much freshman ass. biggest reason I chose to live in a dorm. However, I have a couple problems with myself. Although i feel ive been gifted the genetic pool (height and face), ive been having problems putting on weight (im a really skinny fuck) and I feel really subconscious about it. As a result, I tend to wear lots of cloths on myself to make myself look bigger (right now, im wearing a undershirt, a sweater, and a hoodie ontop of it. It is pret… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Small dick issues what can I do?I have a 6.5 in dick. probably something you would wish to have. what do I say to the girls I talk to? I say I have a small dick and they love it. I literally show them with my fingers how big my penis is (around 2in). why do they love it? because I own up to my allegedly small dick. you have to act like you have a normal sized dick that girls need. once you get this mentality, it becomes so much easier. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give me alcohol when I say that I dont drink?You also don't need to act sober if you're sober. yeah ive noticed that even when im sober, when im around drunk people I sorta leach off their energy and act drunk myself. Frankly, have a drink. Unfortunately im a lightweight (really skinny) so a shot/drink affects me more than the typical guy. I can always nurse the drink though | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls give me alcohol when I say that I dont drink?Yeah one of the reasons I dont drink is so I can maintain my standards. Even with that, I approach 7.5-8s and it still happens (the drink giving). I dont think im that special. id probably rate myself a 7 because im a tall, really skinny fuck and in college there are tons of tall guys. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls give me alcohol when I say that I dont drink?so what would you recommend me to do in the situations i listed above? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Unprotected sexidk they are usually busy dressing up/other shit, when i do that. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Unprotected sexshit every time I have sex. even if I don't cum, I fill up the condom with water so I can see that it didn't break. then I form a knot and throw it away. can't be too careful around that shit. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Meet a girl last night at a club, got her number, but I'm going on school break. what should I say?There's not much way to raise attraction or demonstrate higher value over texting, but plenty of ways to lower it. this is exactly what I dont like about texting. Do your thing So you mean keep in contact/text regularly over the break? The only good thing about texting is, if you're good looking, you can add some compliance tests in the texts what are compliance tests? Can you give some examples? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Meet a girl last night at a club, got her number, but I'm going on school break. what should I say?If you made out you'll have some time and she'll still be up for a date we didnt make out. Also there is literally no time for me to set up a date today. (right now it is 10:30 am and I have shit ton of hw to do. From 12:30 till 2 I got class, and from 2pm till 4pm I have to pack for my 4pm bus to my hometown) even if you can't set a date, you'll have a shot at settling the impression she had instead of laying all your night talking to waste What should I say/talk about? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Less social the more alcohol I drink?Time to do a clean month bro. if you mean not drink any alcohol for a month, then ive basically done that over the past 30 days (maybe 8 shots total over that period, since I wanted to see if it still affected me). The friends I usually drink with started to make fun of me for not drinking (doesn't affect me at all, I just laugh and try to have a fun time). Instead of drinking, ive been lifting pretty constantly and to be honest, I would rather go to the gym every night than go out to the club. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/16 03:23 AM |
| 2 | What are the chances I got this girl pregnant? (Unusual Story)Sperm can live for 4-5 days in warm, moist conditions such as the vagina. However, once dried sperm will die within a matter of minutes. If you had wiped the semen from your hand onto your vagina immediately after its ejaculation you would indeed be at risk for an unintended pregnancy basically dry cum=dead sperm. I think I'm in the clear. thanks a lot man for your help. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What are the chances I got this girl pregnant? (Unusual Story)yeah. I'll definitely do that next time. thanks. by the way is it possible for dried cum to still get a girl pregnant? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants me to help her study for a class. What is the best way to go about this. (Simple)don't be her bitchboy orbiter this was exactly what i was thinking my involvement with her will result in. Thanks a lot for breaking down my post, great advice man. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 12:54 AM |
| -1 | Girl wants me to help her study for a class. What is the best way to go about this. (Simple)Your time is valuable. Don't spend it on girls you don't want to fuck or who don't want to fuck you. really good advice man. thanks a lot. However, I only got her number. She is the only way I can get closer to her friends right now. Also if we fuck, she will probably tell her friends. (right?) Society has told me my entire life that that means that they will not fuck me because of that. Is that true? What is your opinion on this? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Confused about Halloween in College?Thanks a lot man. This really gave me a fresh perspective on things. i do have a question for you though. You say that girls dont fuck try-hard clowns, however I am a pretty sarcastic guy with a pretty decent "I dont give a fuck" mentality. However, that doesnt mean Im doing cartwheels around campus. Is this good? Basically when I talk, I lean a lot more toward sarcasm than I do sexually. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 11:10 PM |
| -1 | Confused about Halloween in College?I don't have the body to pull off gay sailor. sorry I've been only lifting for the past year, so I guess according to your comment I don't lift at all since I can't pull off your Halloween costume. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Confused about Halloween in College?well the last option i have is "mickey mouse" ears and a black sweater and red pants. which seems like the lamest option https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/99/91/8e/99918e8033d7f4fd58793384f5cfa793.jpg | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Confused about Halloween in College?pretty late to change what im doing right now, but I thank you for the idea. Unfortunately (for the costume), a majority of students at my college are very anti-trump and I feel this would be a major no-go. Ive literally had people ask me if I would leave the country to Canada if Trump became president. Anyway thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Confused about how girls and their constant validationok that makes things so much clearer for me. thanks a lot man | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Confused about how girls and their constant validationthat is what im saying. if im not validating her, does that make her want me more? (since im different from all the bluepill losers that like all their bullshit) | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | last 3 times I've made out with a girl, they instantly lose all interest and leave when we stop.but ive read somewhere here that girls are as horny as guys are. They wanna get fucked too. Where do they get those guys? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | last 3 times I've made out with a girl, they instantly lose all interest and leave when we stop.just curious. so how would you handle a club full of "validation seeking chicks"? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | last 3 times I've made out with a girl, they instantly lose all interest and leave when we stop.compliance well she did keep buying me drinks (I spend zero at clubs) and she agreed to go dancing with me. but anyway that gives me great insight on the future. when I go out again imma see if the girl complies to what makes me happy to see if she's into me. thanks a lot man. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | last 3 times I've made out with a girl, they instantly lose all interest and leave when we stop.ok that was one specific example. and I get a lot of what you are saying. I was with another girl and madeout and same result. I noticed out of the corner of my eye her friends were reacting to us making out. after we were done she was completely quiet and started looking at her phone. then she left dancing with another guy. I'm guessing this the ASD even though when we were talking she was literally centimeters from my lips and constantly focusing on them? also what do you mean by "make outs ar… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Quit porn forever and wait for morning wood and random boners to come back Im not sure if its because of my age and my hornyness levels but remember that story i said in my post about the girl at the elevator basically grinding on me? I was around 3-4 hours after I had just masturbated and I still got a half of a boner just from her being so close to me and her ass touching my crotch area. I tend to get morning wood practically everyday even during the period when I was watching porn everyday ab… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.There are two sides to nofap from what ive read. Both consist of no porn. One is completely no masturbating but the other is masturbating occasionally (like once a week) since it still has health benefits. One way to see it is that males have been masturbating since the beginning of time. Its a natural thing to do. However ever since the introduction of the internet and free available-anywhere porn during the last 20 years, guys have no reason to try to get a real life girl when they can just ma… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.I posted here a while ago about the alcohol thing and the majority said that 1-2 shots just to loosen me up a bit is ok. They said that alcohol is a social lubricant. However, I am going to take your advice about the alcohol and not drink. My life is fantastic now Dude. Honestly, I am so glad that you are so happy with your life right now. I can only hope that I get my shit together and be like you in the near future (hopefully before college ends). Thanks a lot man. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Also I want to emphasize the diet and sleep part. You need to literally eat high calorie foods until you feel like throwing up and sleep >8 hours a night. what are a good example of high calorie foods? I mean I could eat mcdonalds which has a double cheeseburger around 700 calories. I really like my body fat percentage tho. Maybe once a week kind of thing? Also about sleeping. I wake up on monday/wednesday/friday at 5 am to get to the gym so I can have a bench without waiting 30 min. Do 1 hour n… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.thanks a lot man. Ive been doing stronglifts 5x5 (bench,deadlift,squat) 3x time a week. Ive been thinking about adding some bicep dedicated lifts as well. What do you think? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Im insecure about my weight. I am really skinny. I often tend to wear long sleeved shirts and roll them up to conceal my lack of muscles in my arms. 6'4 height and 145 lbs. 10 percent body weight. However, Ive been fixing that by going to the gym and forcing my self to eat. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.you've had a strong porn habit for like 10 years I mean to be honest, its more like 5 years. Im 20 so I doubt I was jerking to porn when i was 9-10 years old. But I get your exaggeration. By the way, I dont get strong urges to jerk to porn anymore but I still go back to it. Meaning my problem is not solved. How long do you think It would take for me to completely reverse the effects of my porn usage of the past 4-5 years? I read that natural sex is one of the fastest ways to help this but as you… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.You're naturally attractive but unmotivated= wasting your potential Thats really true. I honestly cannot imagine the amount of money people would pay to have some of the IOIs i get day to day. You only think it's easy for you, but you'd probably crumble on a cold approach and you simply don't have enough practice to hold a conversation long enough to bed a high SMV girl. two weeks ago, cold approached girl at a club. HB9.5. The amount of shit tests Ive got was insane. She was always on her phone… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.yeah I have one of those calorie tracking apps that gives me all information like you provided. However, the biggest reason I dont use it is because how are you supposed to know how much a serving of a particular food is? For example, I make myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. How do I know how many calories is my sandwich since I cannot measure the exact amount of peanut butter? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.I got my blood checked about 3 months ago. I had everything basically fine except for a couple of them I missed the mark by literally 0.1-0.3 points. I do admit that I am really skinny and gaining weight is a challenge for me. 6'4 height and 145 lbs. around 10percent body fat. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Really low Libido. I dont have the slightest motivation to get laid.Im sorry but could you give some examples of dietary fats? off the top of my head, Ive been eating: chicken, protein shakes, tons of water, cereal with milk, around a half gallon of milk a week, lasagna, bananas, grapes, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, cheese sticks, meatloaf and coffee. Basically zero fast food. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | First one night stand with RP approachI think you have a valid point. I wasn't in the situation but I've applied the "slow reaction mentality" in my life. that means standing up from my seat slow, etc. if her tits were coming at my face in a relatively fast motion, I would definitely let them hit my face but retract immediately but slowly. if they were coming in slow, I would have done the same thing you have done. just my two cents ps. at least you know her intentions. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | "What Fraternity are you in?" How do I respond?rush is over right now for all houses. do you think they would take a spring semester junior? personally i dont think so. by the way, compared to other schools spring rush is still pretty big here | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | "What Fraternity are you in?" How do I respond?that's really true. turns out that many of the guys are from the rich suburbs and all went to the same high school. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:36 AM |
| -1 | "What Fraternity are you in?" How do I respond?is that just random or does that spell out to something? I don't get it sorry I felt a thigh? what? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:13 AM |
| 2 | "What Fraternity are you in?" How do I respond?I have some friends that work at bars. I'll definitely ask them for some help getting a job there. also about the quality guys you know. are they just good looking or do they have game as well? because from what I've noticed the guys that got bids at the top houses at my school don't have the greatest looks (literally one kid looks like he supposed to be in middle school. pimples and everything). I feel that being in a fraternity gives you this: access to tons of women to fail and try again, in … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:12 AM |
| 1 | "What Fraternity are you in?" How do I respond?too late for a junior to get into a frat. They want freshmen and maybe 1 or 2 sophomores | /r/askTRP | 15/09/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Girlfriend disrespects me in publicHi, ive been swallowing the pill for almost a year but I still have much to learn. However, I have read OP's original story and this one and I have a question. Could this all have been avoided in the first place? For example if OP had set the facts straight how he does not like to be called "the guy that pays for her shit" from the beginning? Like personally I might let that slide once as a joke or something but if it happened again I would definitely call her out on it (like almost to the exten… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Can you help with this LMR situation?remember this. when you are talking to a girl, focus 10 percent on what she is saying and 90 percent on her body language and how she is reacting. For example, she can say "Not tonight" but she is still kissing you and giving you an OTPHJ. That isnt logical right? Well, girls arent logical, they are emotional. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?I have been doing that for the past month that I have known her. I sorta messed up not escalating fast tho. But that is really funny tho. thanks man | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?What would you have done instead? Imagine talking to a bitchy hot girl that is sorta into you that keeps saying your name wrong on purpose. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?Sounds like a humble-brag to me oh shit dude sorry. I honestly did not mean to do that. Now forget it. She's one girl in an infinite sea of girls. Well i did say in my post "P.S. Im fine completely "next"ing this girl and never seeing/talking to her again." I already have that mentality. The only reason I bought this up after a week is because I saw her a street away today and it reminded me of what happened last week. Ive already talking to other girls. Anyway thanks man. By the way, I am going… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?ok makes sense. thanks a lot man. I never learned about frame and this has made it clear for me. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?Do what you want to do, you don't need to ask guys on the internet what is right for you. Well I did say in my post that "so right now my plan is to completely going to ignore her until she starts first and then probably say something like "Oh are you going to be a good girl now and say my name right?". I just wanted to know what others have opinion on this. Also could you give an example of strong frame? I am sorta confused on the term itself so I am not sure if I do have a strong frame or not.… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How well did I handle this girls shit towards me?can you elaborate more on how I have done horrible? | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my confidence and ability to step out of my comfort zone to make new friends?maybe i did not explain it as well in my post. but going off about what you said about "being as friendly and social as possible". Over these past 3 days, I noticed that I would just either simply say "Hi" to random people (and walk away) or say nothing at all and ignore them. I think I am afraid that I will fuck up in some short of way so I tend to take the safe option and not open up to people. I cant get it in my head that literally everyone i see has barely any friends and they would probabl… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I have a hard time opening myself up to people?makes a lot of sense. thanks man | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I have a hard time opening myself up to people?ok for example, imagine yourself applying for a job where you have to show your skills to the whole company (around 50 guys). Although, you can show your skills perfectly, it is always easier to hire someone that you get along with (friends). Which approach would you do? Be the super nice guy who bends over for everyone just to get the job or retain a "I dont give a fuck" persona? Just wondering. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 03:03 AM |
| 3 | If we hook up you won't respect me...personally I might be wrong but I feel you are taking her shit test (I'm not easy) and eating it up. you are believing what she is saying. if you take anything from what I say, take this: "every girl is a slut in one way or another. you just have to figure out how to bring it out. shit if brad fucking Pitt was there and offered her sex, what do you think she would do? personally I would try to escalate and de escalate a bit longer than what you are doing. try to make it so that she wants it (sex… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Bad at kissing?alright thanks a lot for the help man | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Bad at kissing?Back of the neck with your thumb in front of her ear is there like a video of someone doing this? because Im having a hard time imagining it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Bad at kissing?Lick the back of you hand, wait for it to dry and smell it. yeah I do this to check my breath. However most of the time we are both drunk, so i feel that sorta cancels it out. I do brush before I go out and i often have a stick of gum after im done drinking that night. Do you floss a couple of times a week? no. How important is flossing? I maybe done it 20 times in my entire life Do you use a tongue scraper? I just use my toothbrush and toothpaste to clean my tongue till its perfect red. Having … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl comes to my room for no reason?I don't think she's into him else she'd have tried to just-so-happen to bump into him in the 3 weeks they had zero contact. my school has 40,000 people in it. I have seen one of my best friend (guy) maybe 3 times in a whole year. people have different study and class schedules and different routes they can take. Its highly possible to not see people. Im 99 percent sure that she is into me and she just got tired of "just-so-happen to bump" into me so she decided to go directly to me, even at the … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl comes to my room for no reason?oh i see. sorry for not being accurate. Its officially 7 doors down, not including an elevator in between. I dont have measuring tape but I laid my 6'4 body across the floor seven times from my door to her door, so i would say around her room is around 45 feet away. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl comes to my room for no reason?? ok my music wasnt that loud that she can hear it from her room. Its way too far. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?alright that's what I was thinking. thanks a lot man lmao | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?ok. dude honestly thanks so much for replying to all of my questions. it's been so helpful. as for what happened to me and that girl: you got to fall a couple time before you can fly, am I right? lmao. final question however: the girl I texted is in a sorority (basically group of like 100 similarity hot girls that are best friends). so I could be talking to another girl and she might pop up and say "hey why are you talking to other girls when you have a girlfriend?" how do I respond to this? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?so just remove the home screen picture then? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1mnlg7/the_omnipresent_shit_test/? I guess my execution was horrible. should I still have a picture of a girl as my home screen? is that still a good idea? don't you think "oh she is just a friend" might make her question if I'm telling the truth or not? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?ok. in trp, it says that if a girl ever asks "do you have a girlfriend" you always say yes. this shows pre selection. basically shows that there are other girls also interested in me. maybe when she asked about my home screen image I should have said "oh she is just a friend. she paid me to put her as my home screen" what do you think? better? oh btw to clarify I don't have a girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?what should I had said differently then? like what should I have said when she told me "I recommend you don't talk to other girls when you have a girlfriend"? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?https://imgur.com/a/sp9WY what do you think I should do? right now I'm thinking next. basically text her: "ok" and never text again. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?oh shit. it's been like 24 hours already. and it's pretty late today. should I just text that tomorrow around 1pm ish (I'm free that time) what should I have done differently with the texting then? since I don't have the credibility to do it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?Yeah the thing is there was no joke or funny situation which means it was laughing just to placate, which is nervous laughter. thanks for explaining it. I'll definitely incorporate it into my texting from now on. after a reasonable time period what is a reasonable time period? 1-2 days? oh btw she noticed that I had a picture of a girl as my wallpaper on my phone (it's an actual girl that I know, not some model posting). she asked if it was my girlfriend to which I replied yes. I also said that … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?"haha" is a nervous laughter? i never knew that wtf. I kept saying "haha" to keep it lighthearted. That screenshot is all that she said. She hasnt replied to my invitation. See this is the reason why i didnt want to go for logistics. Apparently it doesnt work at all for college girls. it looks like im going too fast Yeah I guess you're right about the teasing. Im a really sarcastic guy but i should have known that sarcasm doesnt translate well through text. Im 90 percent sure she isnt going to t… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?http://imgur.com/REUZIwJ ok any advice on what I did wrong and any advice on what to do from now? (my options: next, text on thursday asking about it, text today canceling it because i have an exam that day, which is the truth) I really dont want to next her tho | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?ok i see. Now what do i text her? its sorta late to invite her to come over, so do i just wait it till sunday? or do i go with my original plan of saying im going to the bars, wanna come with? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?TBH it's the easiest thing in the world Could you give an example of this? Like a situation that you just experienced recently and how it went. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this texting right?im going to be 100 percent honest with you. Since my school is a lot of bar game, I got really good at it. To be honest comparing that to hanging out alone with her, I feel like I would suck dick (or maybe im afraid of looking too needy especially in this hook-up culture of my school). Once I met a girl at the bar (who was also really interested in me) and the next day I texted her for coffee to which she never responded to (i did the logistics thing). Also if she doesnt come, I am still going t… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Different responses between me and PUA material?In general (all social situations, not just pickup), matching someone's tone, mood, and energy builds rapport. yeah i keep on forgetting about this. thanks man haha I wish i could see how he was when he approached her and all the event leading up to the clip | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Different responses between me and PUA material?It's not a guy's "job" and talking to girls is not work thats a great mindset to have. Ill think about this more Conceited and literally childish. Hey I find it funny and since im still a teenager (albeit a old one), it works for me. I use this line often and not once (not joking) has it gone south for me. Im going to keep using it | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Different responses between me and PUA material?Looking at his body language, I notice that whenever she is talking, he has his eyes focused on hers, but when he is talking alot he looks into the distance. (i dont get it?). He is also very relaxed and looks into his phone often towards the end of the clip (the one that gives the least attention in a relationship is the one with the most power). I think this really relaxed idgaf make him very comforting to her. Him looking at his phone at the end made her question (out loud) "am i up to par"? … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Different responses between me and PUA material?Yeah i know who he is. Ive been watching his stuff for the past 2 days. Its honestly great. Most of the stuff he shows I agree with. It was this clip that just made me think about it a bit more | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | NoFap is Not for Everyone: How Jerkin' the Gherkin Destroyed my Depression Phasethe fact is that I was still just jerking off inside her, thinking of porn oh shit never mind, im not that bad (no offense). ive been jerking off since i was probably 14 and recently ive been doing it 3 times a day. Never has it interrupted my studies or work but sometimes I would jerk just because i was bored. Idk but i have a love/hate relationship with me not jerking it for more than 5 days. I love that i get hard by the littlest things but its so hard not to jerk it when I have the opportuni… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 05:06 PM |
| 3 | NoFap is Not for Everyone: How Jerkin' the Gherkin Destroyed my Depression PhaseIm about 1 and half weeks into NoFap and no porn. Im experiencing a flatline (basically everything you described). Do you think having sex with a real girl helps with the flatline? Because someone told me that when you start NoFap and starting fucking real life girls, you're brain rewires itself from porn much faster. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Basically everything I do wrong (serious post)Start with the basics You call that basics? I watched the first 30 seconds of the video and its genius. haha. i got a lot to learn. thankfully i got spring break tomorrow for a week, where i can go into monk mode and absorb this shit. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Basically everything I do wrong (serious post)either pulled her in for a kiss or walked her off somewhere more private first, depending on context. oh shit, woah. I never seen this girl before and never talked to her. You would pull off a kiss to a girl that has never even talked to you? Also, the guy and girl are in conversation. So just interrupt the convo and take her away to somewhere else? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Basically everything I do wrong (serious post)i added a tl:dr at the end of my essay. haha. good? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Basically everything I do wrong (serious post)"I dont really say a lot of flirty things" - so start. Be outrageous. Watch Youtube if you're stuck. Ok. What should i type into the youtube search bar? "how to flirt?" any specific channel i should watch? Also, ACT. Don't just let things happen to you passively and then wonder why you're going home alone. About the act part. the girl was really close and had her hand over me. What would you have done in that situation. Would you have just taken control of the conversation with the girl? What wo… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Basically everything I do wrong (serious post)TL;DR: idk how and when to flirt (basically the most important part) every HB9.5-10 girl that doesnt immediately reject me, i think they are just fucking with me and will reject me the second i give them attention I dont know how to show interest without coming off in the wrong way | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?and none of it did. haha | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?What do you mean by mindfulness? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Whiten teeth?thanks Ill definitely look into it. Did the dentist do it all in one day? or multiple appointments? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Whiten teeth?You would want to think about that method again You are talking about the crest whitestripes or the part where he sleeps in them? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Whiten teeth?I heard about something similar. Does it hurt your gums? repeat until your desired shade of white you can whiten in one day? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Whiten teeth?how long did it take from the first day you started using them till they were pearly white? and how often (once a week?) | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?dude thanks man. Before finding trp, i would always try to think of every possible outcome, so everything would go smoothly and perfect. I guess that still happens with me now. Need to stop overthinking everything. Thanks a lot man | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?ok i get what you are saying. How should I act if i see her again at the nightclub or during the day? I was thinking she is probably going to try to ignore me so i should just walk up to her and initiate conversation (day game). What do you think? also there is a chance her friends might say something. Like how do you respond to a shit test like: "Wait are you the one that made out with (name of girl) yesterday?" | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?I think you have in to the kids way too fast, and didn't maintain the tension properly. I completely agree with the going for the kiss too quickly. Hey you learn more from your mistakes haha. But i don't get the "maintaining tension properly". What does that mean? When I started making out with her, there was only a split second pause before she was completely into it. Like more into it than me. Idk if you want me to do into details. But she did bite my lip a couple times and invaded my mouth a … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?Dude thanks so much for this. This explained everything. I honestly thought I did something wrong. I still don't get the boyfriend part and her being ok with me kissing her but whatever. It's weird how some girls are like the ones above while others during making out push my hands down to grab their ass on purpose. Haha the funny thing is that I didn't even tell her one fifth about me. So I guess her loss. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?Oh shit sorry. I guess I didn't clarify in my little essay above haha. My hand was always on her Lower back/ hips region during the whole thing. I've done this "ass grab" basically every time I make out. And every single time it goes extremely well. The only difference this time was that I took a while to do it. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?big chance she either has a boyfriend No chance. There was zero evidence anywhere where she could have a boyfriend. Not to mention her friends didn't try to take her away from me at all for 45 min. perceive your smv as too low Might be. I get a sense of that because of the tons of texts she got in her phone but I've had girls that were not drunk and in top sororities come up to me and open up to me (like 8-9/10s etc) during the day (usually when I'm trying to study hard. Wtf haha) So I don't thi… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?usually girls love when strangers grab their ass while making out in a nightclub I'm getting a hint of sarcasm here with the word "strangers". Or are you being serious? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl loses interest immediately after making out?What do you mean? Is there something I did obviously wrong? Or are you saying "dude... Seriously" because you don't believe the events that just happened? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Going to nightclub/bar. Give me number of girls I should talk toI just remember my first time out solo and it was pretty soul crushing - I was pretty socially anxious back then though. I completely get what youre saying. For a year or so I would always go out with friends. Always in a group. The first time I went sober and solo, I think I spent 1-2 hours thinking about everything. All the outcomes. I almost didnt go out. And that night, I didnt get any numbers but i felt that I grew so much as a person that night. No longer did I have to rely on my friends g… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Going to nightclub/bar. Give me number of girls I should talk totoo late. i already done solo a couple times. I feel whenever im with friends I stick with them and eventually dont talk to any girls. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Going to nightclub/bar. Give me number of girls I should talk tooh i think i forgot to say that im going by myself. I might see some friends but there is no guarantee. Also going sober (ive been doing this the past couple weeks and i feel much better socializing sober than drunk). How to have fun by yourself? EDIT: i know how to make friends with other guys but they just focus on talking about talking to girls | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Getting too excited when I talk?It's OK to be animated what does being animated mean? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 05:32 AM |
| 6 | "You're not in (name of Fraternity), dont talk to me"yeah from what ive noticed. these guys in higher status frats are all great with talking to women and typical bro talk. not many are those football players or really built. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 05:45 AM |
| 1 | girl and numberI'd be shocked if she doesn't text him in the next two days. be shocked haha. She didnt text me. To be honest I forgot about her the next day. Should i still hit her up? | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what?ill definitely look into that | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | girl and numberthanks so much man. Your comment helped me out so much Second, it seems like she's trashed and you're not. She wasnt that drunk. She didnt have the dazed/glassy eye look. She also didnt really slur her words. From my experience from girls, she wasnt on the verge of passing out or vomit. But i totally get what you are saying. I feel the same also around girls like the ones you described. Just wish her a good night and then go out and meet 5 new women Meet 5 new women. Meaning talking for them for… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | girl and numberSo we are both not legal here in the usa to drink. I do have alcohol in my room and her dorm is 5 min walk (the only all girls dorm at my school). Since she is in a sorority, im guessing she starts drinking at fraternities. She did specifically ask if i was in a frat but i moved the convo talking more about me being foreign exchange and my accent and shit. When you talk about drinking earlier, does that mean inviting her to my room and drinking? I feel thats an easy way to escalate a lot and may… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | girl and numbermeeting or date. Evening drinks/dates is preferable So basically the bar thing at 11 that i was talking about but a couple days later? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 01:26 AM |
| 1 | girl and numbergrammatical error Thanks man. I was confused haha. Why say "have a fun night" if we didnt talk about that? Set up a meeting later from there like ask to hangout for coffee during the day? Oh btw i know to just use texting for logistics. or is that not entirely true? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | girl and numberNp, have a fun a night Wait what? "have a fun a night"? what does this mean? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | OK, so you're a couple months into lifting. Now what?Alright guys I really want to get big (good size muscles but cut/lean). I know this is a 2-3+ years process so im obviously not expecting astounding results the first week. this is me: 6'4 145 lbs (not a typo) 19 years old total amount of time in a gym throughout my life: around 10 hours 4 years varsity swimmer in HS so i have a pretty good Body fat around 10 percent. I guess i had some great ass technique to be able to compete with guys bigger than me. Also didnt hit the gym during HS so i didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Going to a nightclub. Tips?Wait I thought a lot of trp says to not use social media. Including dating apps like "tinder". I never used a dating app. Why do you recommend to use that over going to a bar/nightclub and meeting real people? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/16 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Going to a nightclub. Tips?well at my college there are only bars. I call them nightclubs because the bars are more similar to nightclubs instead of the traditional sit-down-around-a-bar-and-conversate. I wanted to make it easier to understand. The bars at my school are like 60 percent bar and the rest for talking and some dancing (probably like 20 percent) | /r/askTRP | 27/02/16 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Going to a nightclub. Tips?Alright I'll definitely look out for a job like that in the future. Thanks a lot man. Also btw how do you become friends with the barbacks at the nightclub/bar? I feel like they are really busy most of the time and I don't buy drinks anyway since I'm not legal. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Going to a nightclub. Tips?What does the barback exactly do? Like bring large containers of ice to the bar? Also I never worked at a bar. Why do barbacks "generally get laid more"? im just curious. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Going to a nightclub. Tips?Yeah I don't ever get into fights so I don't think that will be a problem. Thanks tho haha | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | My experience with a girl. What should I do?I personally feel, the more i think about what to say/talk about, the worse i do. I totally get what you are saying. But what do you think should be my reaction to seeing her on campus? What do you mean by "gage her interest"? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreno. its a 40,000 undergraduate school. Everyone my age is working everywhere in my college. Why do you ask? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreAlright. Day game. Im in a dorm at my college, so tons of opportunities to meet girls. I have met a majority of girls from my floor but very little from the other 3 floors. I dont have a reason to go to those floors so how do I start meeting them? Do I just randomly go to a floor and walk around till someone/anyone walks by and initiate conversation? What do you think? Its already been like 5 months living in the dorm, but i recently noticed that people are still down to make new friends (so im … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreAlso make sure you slow down your speech and keep the volume of your voice low. This is hard to explain but you'll know when it's working. She'll be looking at you a certain type of way. Almost like she's hypnotized by your words. It sounds crazy but when it happens it will make more sense. I will definitely try this. thanks my man You should communicate with your body language that you are a man she needs to follow. Yeah thats going to take a bit getting used to. A lot of my life i always follo… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreLook away every once in a while but never look down always look away even turn your head if you want. Yeah i do this, I dont want to weird her out with staring just to her eyes. yeah i tried doing the "I could leave at any moment" attitude but I feel that does not work at all during the first minutes of the conversation. It like that makes me look like Im not interested at all. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreYeah at my school the nightclub is basically a bar with a dance floor. Imagine a square room with the bar in the middle (and people walk around the bar/ dance). I usually start talking to girls when Im waiting to get a drink. Basically It does not look like I approached them, it was just chance that I was there and I initiated the conversation. Im going to honest with you, very rarely do I start a conversation when Im walking around the bar and I see a girl give me IOIs. Should I start doing tha… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Dont really know how to talk to girls anymoreI learned from TRP to have great eye contact (im honestly impressed with how well Ive been able to keep eye contact, compared to before finding TRP) and overall have a great time (aka smile a lot/laughing. I think that shows me off as pretty confident). I try to look as big as possible (like straight back, feet at shoulder level, etc). I occasionally stumble my words due to having an accent and sometimes I talk a bit fast. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Girls tell me that they saw me before?What do you mean by "play it off"? Like I'm supposed to say something like "I've never seen you before but hi my name is Luke"? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The typical question: "I got a girls number. help."assuming you didn't pay for her food you already know ;) Maaaaybe some kind of line asking if she's been following you around anymore. what do you mean? can you give like an example? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 02:24 AM |
| 1 | The typical question: "I got a girls number. help."First determine if your aversion to meeting up is because you actually don't want to see her or rather because you're scared. Im scared bc we were both drunk and some people are embarrassed on how they are while drunk or find it awkward afterwards. You don't need some super slick Tinder line for a first text. Didnt even know you can do that. And I dont know of any so not going to do it. Generally you should only text for logistics BUT depending on how well you know her you need to build some com… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What are your guy's opinion on NoFap?Jerk off only when it is unbearable. It was becoming unbearable after the first 5-7 days. But I learned to control myself and resist the temptation. When I was 3 weeks in, I had no urge to masturbate. Eventually you will normalize and realize just how fucking addicted your brain was. It took me two years to get over it. It's a long process Idk how old you were when you started but I feel like after 1 week I had no images of porn in my head. I forgot most of it. However I did get a great surge of… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Am I trying too hard?What would be a good reply to the girls "Im going to this bar"? (like being flirty and maybe cheeky) | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your guy's opinion on NoFap?so do you still masturbate regularly? If so how regularly? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Added a girl on facebook?Maybe i didnt clarify enough in my post. Before I found out trp I would add girls and talk to them. This was around May 2015. I stopped adding girls because I overall stopped using social media. In September 2015 I found out TRP and soon after deactivated my facebook. Now in January 2016, using whatever TRP taught me I met this girl at a party. Turns out that I added her back in May 2015. If she finds me on facebook and sees that I am already her friend she will A) find me creepy B) lower my val… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?Thats how I do it. If i dont see eye contact I dont say anything | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?Because it fucking annoys the shit out of me. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?Yo, btw would I look anti-social if i walked with headphones on around campus? Like I like to zone out when walking to class and I could always take them off if i see someone I met recently. Whats your opinion on this? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 06:39 PM |
| 7 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?dude thanks so much. Honestly. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?Dude, this is such great advice. Thanks man. I keep forgetting about the "I dont give a fuck" mentality. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Girls ignore me after meeting them the day before?maybe im giving them too much attention when i meet them and that drys them up? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to act when girls pass you on the streets?If you're going to stare at girls though if you always see the same ones, I hope you make a move eventually to start a conversation because it will get creepy after awhile if you don't make a move. Yeah i totally get it. I was actually thinking about adding something like that to my original post but decided to leave it out to simplify it a bit. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Descended into Beta in LTR. Quickly made the change - how should I play the game now?Idk I would probably say something along the lines of "well that makes two of us" laugh and then escalate. Would that work good? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Descended into Beta in LTR. Quickly made the change - how should I play the game now?I would keep doing what you are doing now. Continue being alpha and using trp ways. I wouldn't verbally tell her that you are seeing other girls because from what I've read she is now fully into you (aka begging to be with you). But 100 percent see other girls haha. Especially in front of her. This shows that other girls want your dick and that significantly increases your value in her eyes. If she tries pulling shit again (or seeing other guys) pull the cord dude. Remember girls cry as a defens… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Descended into Beta in LTR. Quickly made the change - how should I play the game now?The shit tests have come rapid fire now. Shit such as "I never found you attractive" Yo I'm really interested on how you passed this test. I've just recently been getting into passing more and more shit tests and I want the most experience. Could you also give some other examples of other shit tests she gave you and how you responded? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome not thinking about the outcome?You're already way ahead of a majority of guys here lol thanks man But the problem I see most is that these hot girls at bars are mostly approached by betas (i noticed this when I am with a group of guys and girls) but somehow eventually i see these betas making out with these girls and eventually leaving together. That is what annoys me the most. I dont know; do these guys meet these girls before and they are comfortable with them in the bars? I mostly believe that the guys dont give a fuck and… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 08:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I overcome not thinking about the outcome?Bars are 19+ at my college. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in a bar?Yeah I get what you are saying. Thanks so much for this man. Your advice about moving to multiple different girls during the night I can see is going to be so helpful for me. Thanks again | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in a bar?IF she's cool, I'll talk with her for a few minutes and then the first time her attentions wanders away from me I fade, immediately What do you mean by "fade"? Like leaving abruptly without an explanation? or leaving because you have so do something? Also what are some typical comments you can say after she replies "yes" to your "its really hot in here" question? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Not really sure if I handled this interaction correctly?dude honestly thanks so much for the detailed review of my actions. Especially the part about how every interaction should be a fun game for me. Always learn from your mistakes right? haha thanks alot man | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?... yeah I know. the joke is that I am often in a sorority house meaning I get laid often. You know... have sex | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?OMG that is so perfect. lol the tridelt house has a great reputation at my school. Dude I cant thank you enough. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to a pre-game?No worries man. No its not if she brings girls. Its if I should ask other girls to come over as well to the pregame. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to a pre-game?what? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to a pre-game?What if she says that she cant come because of some event of her sorority? just saying. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to these??I would have never thought of that. lmfao. Thanks a lot man, Im going to say that the next time. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to these??Wait, I dont get it. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to these??Lmao I actually said that once and it went really well. Thanks man, I forgot about that one. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this shit test?What if you said "No" and she replied with the part with "Im carrying your baby"? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 03:15 AM |
| 2 | How to hookup in a bar?Thats honestly such a great way of thinking of it. My college alone is 50k students so thats so true. You, my man, are a genius thank you. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to hookup in a bar?The bars are so loud that to anyone I talk to, im shouting into their ear our entire bodies touch. Could a girl be acting like hard to get so she might appear not interested? Thanks btw man | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 01:36 AM |
| 3 | How to hookup in a bar?Dude. Honestly thank you so much for this. So many good points, especially the count to 3 tip. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Got a number from a girl in a bar last night. Dont know how to text her.I invite her where? to my room to pregame? Should I have it in my head the slightest chance that I might fuck her there in my room during the pregame? (around 10pm). | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Got a number from a girl in a bar last night. Dont know how to text her.I would have never thought of that (the pic with the flash). That is great. Thanks alot man. Btw in that event, I was smiling joking with the 5 dollars and kiss on cheek. Is that good? or should i have had a serious face?? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 11:48 PM |
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