TLDR: Met HB9 at bar, talked for a 4hours, actually I had a connection with her (rare), she really liked me, we fucked at my place, she brings me back to her place, she introduces me to all her roommates, then I sleep over at her place, we wake up the next morning and she is dead cold to me (lost all interest), never talk to her again and she ignores me every-time I see her.

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Ok, so Ive fucked a decent amount of girls but this girl is top 5 in looks. also i’m pretty up there in smv. top frat and pretty popular at my school. girls sneak glances at me a lot of the time. Not to mention, typically every girl I talk to are basically the same. Its literally the same shit over and over again. (All girls are the same). However, I really fucked with this girls personality; really fun and was able to keep up and sometimes surpass my sarcasm, which is pretty hard. Truly felt a connection for the first time in my college career. This honestly surprised me because usually I tend to forget about the girls I fucked within the next day or the most a week.

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So I met her at the bar and I was dead sober. This is also around noon (College tradition, saturday day drinking). She initiates contact and laughs at all the shit I say. We spent around 4 hours at that bar just talking and having a great time (obviously with breaks where I talked to my boys, with her still sticking with me). I met her friends and they eventually leave me alone with her (no cockblocking). She keeps on forcing me to drink the whole time. To be honest, I think she was decently tipsy but not blacked out, didnt drink that much only sips from my drinks.

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Then she is like "I want to meet your roommates" and obviously I bring her back to my place and she just goes straight to my room. We fuck. I wished id had eaten food before and hadnt fucked the night before but I still preform. She was super wet and doing a lot of freaky shit that I really liked.

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After, she says "I want to see what my roommates are doing", therefore I bring her back to her place. She is still really into me and we hold hands all the way back. I even do that instagram shit where I record a video of her leading me and you see her holding my hand. So we arrive to her apartment and its the typically goodbye. I ask for her number and she types "Monika is hot af Smith" (made up name). At the last moment, she is like "So you arent coming up with me?" and i take that invite instantly.

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At her place she introduces me to all her roommates and they also fuck with me. She has her legs all over my lap and we keep having the same energy since the bar. She wants to know all about my past and history. Even says "you should change your phone background to me" which im like "Woah there Monika, we are moving too fast" in a sarcastic tone. She loves that.

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Eventually she takes me into her room and we pass out. I slept over at her place. She passed out real quick. However, in the morning she is dead cold to me. Complete 180. I try to warm her up but everything I say fails. Then she leads me to the door and says "I dont have my keys, can you get down yourself?" I was like yeah. She also mentions "Send me those videos of us" (the videos I took of her at the bar). I text her a few hours later, sending the videos and saying "Hey I had a fun time yesterday we should do this again" and she responds "yeah most definitely. I gotchu on teaching you that dance move" (paraphrasing, not word for word what she said).

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Then nothing. I text her once and I get no response. She unfollows me on instagram a week later. Now she ignores me and drops her head to the ground whenever I see her. I do the same, just to act like im not needy. Any clue what might have happened? Anything I did wrong? Because the last time I slept at a girls place after a ONS, she was really into me and was kinda hinting at a relationship or to fuck again (plate). Do you think it was how I preformed in bed (it was below my typical standards and we both didnt come (which is usual for me)). What do you guys think. Im sorry for the length but wanted you guys to know the full story.