Hi, so I am a third year college student at a pretty big university (40k undergrads). I just turned 20 years old and I havent had sex yet. And I know this is not my looks since I get tons of IOIs a day. Take yesterday for example, I was going up an elevator to my dorm room. There was a ton of people on it. I live on a really high floor so as people got off the girl in front of me started to get closer and closer. By the time I got to my floor, her ass was on my dick and my phone was literally resting on her shoulder (I was texting). This wasnt any light touching either, it was almost straight up grinding up there. With my parallel vision i could see all the other girls/guys were staring at us because there was obviously more than enough room for her stand by herself. This was at day time and nobody was drunk. Turns out she lives on my floor as well.

Honestly, i feel if you saw me today and saw the IOIs i get from everyone, you would think that I am gay or something. I literally ignore interactions with girls (i feel i do this because that is how I game them at the beginning. Act like I am a higher value than them and ignore their initial advances. I feel that ignoring them at the beginning makes me different from all the guys that constantly give them validation on facebook etc). Sorry that sounds boastful as fuck but Im trying to get my point across. Literally any stupid shit I say to any girl, they start laughing, while in my head I was like that wasnt even that funny.

However, the problem is that I have no motivation to even try to start a conversation. I know I could get laid in a night if i really wanted to but I dont have the drive to force my self. I tried to go out either by myself or with my friends and it still does not help. I am a lightweight and alcohol does not help much either. When I drink, I tend to just want to drink by myself and zone out. Actually most of the time I go out to the clubs, I zone out because of the alcohol. The most fun I have in a club is chilling by the bar and seeing guys interacting with girls and noticing everything they are doing wrong (ex: obsessing and talking to a girl even though she just keeps looking at her phone, guys using pick up lines, buying drinks etc). I honestly laugh so hard when I see all of this because I know how everything works now thanks to TRP. It literally looks so easy for me.

Ive actually tried to not watch porn for 3 weeks before I relapsed today. I honestly did not see a difference. However, I know that about 4 years ago I was able to masturbate to my imagination really easily every day but now if i try to do it it takes me atleast 20 min. One thing I know is that if I dont masturbate for 3 days, I get really horny. and If i dont masturbate for 6 days, I start grinding on everything. That seems like the only positive thing in my life right now in regard to my sex life.

I am going to be completely honest right now. I get more excited to go to the library to study and get my hw done than going out. Is it because I partied a lot my freshmen and sophomore year? Do you guys think that my low sex drive is because I havent had sex yet and my mind has just given up? I remember when I first started drinking, I had a pretty high libido. now even though i drink 2-3 shots max a night, I dont get that same feeling (with more shots = making me zone out). What do you guys recommend me to do?

EDIT/PS: I also been lifting regularly and constantly for the past 3 weeks.