hi so often times during my game, I tend to let the girl lead. I do this to make myself look like i am not needy. this occurs in ways such as: girl wants to bring me home, girl starting to be sexual first, etc. But on the other hand, I feel if I led her/be more bold girls would find it attractive. I feel some interactions I fucked up because of my "fake" lack of interest. I'm a big advocate of push/pull method but I lean a lot on the push after i know she is interested.

one example of this was a couple nights ago. girl is in top sorority but I'd give her a hb7.5 (mostly due to her saggy tits, she's a freshman with milf tits). but her status being a top sorority means that she gets the top guys hitting on her all the time. my go-to method is to engage the conversation, show my value and pull back. She was really into me. we separated and met 3 times that night. all 3 times she walked up to me and started the convo back again and kept increasing her advances to me. I feel that if I showed her a tiny amount of interest she would have fucked me that night. now after that night she's kinda no longer interested in me (doesn't matter to me because I'm already on to the next girl)

but there were other interactions where it worked. one girl wanted to take me home and literally would not let go of my hand. we were walking and she wanted to tell her sorority sister that she was leaving with me (all sorority girls do this). I wasn't going to stand there and look pretty. so I literally started wrestling her hand away from mine in a playful way (saying "let go girl"). later. she literally dragged me into her sorority house and pushed me against the wall and started making out with me and fucked me.

it kinda makes me feel that the only way a I'm going to fuck a girl, is when the girl is determined to get fucked tonight and is willing to drag a guy. I promise I'm not gay. I get turned on by girls and enjoy conversing with them. it's just I feel there are a ton of way to fuck up getting a girl back home so I let them do the work. I literally had one girl tell me "would you fuck me" and I said "no" and she kept asking "why wouldn't you fuck me". the reason why I did this is that I thought that would enable her hamster and make her want to fuck me more. what do you guys think? What should I change about my game? when's the best moment to move from basic kino (touching, teasing, kissing) to bring a girl home? Do I just tell the girl to move to a different location (like little movements such as a different location in the club to moving her to go eat?)