Hi reddit.

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Don't get me wrong. I strongly believe in all gender equality. I believe men and women and other genders should be treated equal. I have read so many articles about feminism etc. as I want to be a good husband, I support my wife in her decisions, supporting her etc.

The thing is, in my country and maybe other parts of the world, feminism seems to tell that men and women are SAME! It is killing the personality each person has. If this is the feminism, I am an anti-feminism! I believe each gender has its own properties and abilities. men are less multi-task while women can handle several tasks at the same time. Men can think about pure nothing (lol) while women can't (actually by saying this sentence, false feminisms may kill me, they hate can't).

The question I have is that am I doing it wrong? Am I missing something here about feminism being good? classic feminism and why it was started is perfect and I believe that definition. But when I see some posts in social media, when I see discussions in some sub-reddits and between people, I really get to hate feminism. Sometimes it is only spreading man hating.

We are not SAME, but we should be treated EQUAL. SAME and EQUAL are different.