I was just searching for a different subreddit and I came across this by accident. I started reading some of the post and I agree with everything. I am a married woman with small children. I am not a feminist. But when I watch TV and I see the women's March and women wearing those stupid hats, I wonder what the hell they are complaining about. Before my husband I have been in a few different relationships. I have worked with men at my job. I grew up around male family members. I cannot think of one time in my entire life that I felt victimized because I am a woman. I do not feel like I have been treated differently in any way. and it really pisses me the fuck off when I see these women on TV marching and yelling and acting like complete idiots because it makes everyone else look bad. And you know what? I like the fact that my husband is stronger than me. I like the fact that he takes home the bacon while I care for the house and the children. I love how masculine he is. And I feel like that's the way it should be. He respects me and I respect him. Yes I agree there are some things that I can do myself without issue. But he doesn't always let me, and it's not because he disrespects me... It's because he loves me and he knows that I can do it myself but he wants to do things for me... for example the other day I lifted a heavy object because it was in my way in the garage. Physically I did it with a little bit of struggle but it wasn't too bad. He told me next time to ask him to do it. the only reason he did that is cuz he cares about me and he doesn't want me to get hurt. One of those crazy ass feminist would have gotten upset if a guy would have treated them like that. And I really do not feel that women are paid less. The only reason it seems like men make more money is because there just happens to be a lot more men who graduate with degrees in specific fields. a lot of careers just happen to have a lot more men who are interested in that specific career. if a woman went to college and got the same exact degree and the same exact job I am pretty sure that she would be paid the same.