OP had a consensual encounter with a girl who initiated it. Now she is saying he took advantage of her which is ruining his reputation and is now concerned about being criminally charged. She will obviously be beloved because she’s a woman.

Crosspost "Girl felt up my crotch, so I escalated, she said stop so I did. Now she's saying I sexually assaulted her??" from /r/Advice:

Yeah Idk what to think, a couple weekends ago this girl was watching a movie with me on the couch and she had her feet in my lap. She started moving them around and feeling up my dick with her feet so I basically took that as a sign to go for it so I ended up fingering her and such. At one point I told her to come upstairs with me and she said she was "too tired" so I just stopped completely and we both passed out.

Come to find out she's telling her friends I took advantage of her and made her uncomfortable?? What the flying fuck?? SHE INITIATED THIS SHIT! I'm sort of worried more about charges and my reputation at this point. What do I do?

Also we were both drinking, so from what I've heard I was supposed to just let her touch me and say "stop"? The fuck, do people know how sexual advances work? Why the fuck shouldn't I file charges against her for touching my dick and say I felt like she "pressured" me into it in my alcohol induced state?