Original post with some background can be found here.

I ended up running into an ex-plate of 5 months the other night at a bar after not having been in contact for a few months. After finishing a conversation I just walked up to her, said hi and asked her how she's been. Surprisingly she was super responsive and happy to see me. I lead her back to hear seat and just talked very platonically about what we were up to in life. She was with female friends who had all told her not to hook up with me, but she gave me 100% of her attention all night. Because I had left her with little closure, I suspected that she was just using this opportunity to feel good about herself and relieve some of the anxiety she may have had about her shitty behaviour.

We ended up going home together, despite her friends having some objections. I have her sit on my lap in the car and at home we hang out with my housemates like we used to for 20 minutes (with her still on my lap obviously) and then head to bed.

We've both had a bit to drink but are not particularly drunk. I just tend to be abit more of a dickhead (her words) after a few drinks. Physically escalate to sex as usual and she mentions that she's on her period, so might be abit messy and should use a towel later. Now I'm still trying to figure out her motives: Did she come home with me because of desire, or is she doing this just to get comfort and closure? We escalate, maybe abit quickly, to her giving me oral sex, but she then mentions that she isn't feeling that great and doesn't want to continue having sex.

Now at this point, I'm trying to figure out why she decided to come home with me. Is it just to get some comfort and closure? I'm fairly pissed off at this point, as I had to turn down other girls that night. I tell her that I felt like getting laid tonight and don't enjoy having my time wasted and that she should think about why she came home with me - It's because she likes me (apparently). I don't try to re-escalate appropriately, and instead just tell her to get dressed and find a way home - like I would to any ONS. She's upset, but gets dressed and tries to phone her friend to pick her up. There's no answer, and pretty pissed off so I tell her that I'm going to sleep and that she can stay the night. We get into bed, lights off, and after reading something on my phone for 5mins, I change my mind and decide it would be better if she sleeps somewhere else. She gets dressed again and eventually gets a friend of hers to walk to meet her a 10min walk from my house. I walk her out the gate onto the road. It's going to be a 10min walk in the dark for her, which she is stupidly willing to do at this hour. After telling her that this is goodbye, I realise this is a stupid drunken idea and walk her back in the house. There isn't a free bed/couch to sleep on, so I tell her to stop talking and go to sleep in my bed.

I'm still fairly annoyed the next morning, and am waiting for her to wake up so she can walk home. I let her nuzzle up to me and we end up having a good heart to heart, which escalates to pretty good period sex. She isn't really upset about me being a dickhead, so I laugh it off and turn it into a bit of a joke. No apologies. She ends up spending the morning at home with me just like she used to when we were seeing each other, but comments that I'm looking really good (been lifting alot more). We don't end up having a sex marathon due to the period logistics, but end up spending alot of time in bed together making out.

I get her number again so that we can meet up again before she leaves town the next day. We're both pretty busy meeting up with various people that weekend, but I end up joining her and a few of her friends for a drink for an hour before she has to pack her bags and leave town. Although we have kino while she sits next to me, I don't get any time alone with her. I tell her I'm not sure when I'll be in her city again, and get a rather cold hug goodbye with her asking 'are you leaving?'. I always get lackluster goodbyes from her, but am wondering if I just got mentally nexted? Is it possible to just re-initiate with ex-plates if you maintain frame and keep increasing your SMV? Would like to see her again when I next visit her city.