For people who liked to argue/debate and went through self improvement, have you debated less or found a better outlet for it? How has it affected your life in general as well as your sex life?

SirAttackHelicopter · 2017-04-28T16:20:19+00:00

You see, you need to re-program your brain to not-give-a-fuck. If someone says something that doesn't sound right to you, it isn't your place to argue them. Not unless it is at your place of work for work related issues that directly effects your job. This trend of people constantly getting offended at what others say or do has got to stop. No one cares about your opinion unless you're an expert in that field AND they ask you.

That feeling of frustration needs to be outlet in better ways.

refusewool · 2017-04-28T16:26:14+00:00

I used to argue all the time. Now I avoid it like the plague. The easiest way to "make peace with the world" and get to a higher mental standpoint where you don't care about petty arguments is to meditate. This is something you should be doing anyway, just like how you go to the gym. Download a guided meditation app if you don't know where to start.

sperrygarcia · 2017-04-28T16:45:51+00:00

"The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it", basic lesson from Dale Carnegie

Quench your need for mental masturbation / external validation of your opinions or at least find a better outlet for it - joining groups such as debate clubs or discussion circles can help you debate without the social consequences of constant arguments; however, no amount of people validating your opinion is ever going to fulfill you, only consistent self improvement can do that. As mentioned above I'd start with daily meditation to reinforce calm.

multivitaman · 2017-04-28T20:34:05+00:00

i mean, i find flaws in peoples logic all the time, girls seem to like it cus it makes them laugh.

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