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Are you trying to suggest that meditating is broscience?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 07:20 PM
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Don’t you need sunscreen after BHA application too?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 12:05 PM
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Exactly. I can’t comprehend why people would want to explain this shit to the media. Who gives a fuck if they think we are all incels? Let them think what they want to think. It literally has no effect on our lives.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:32 AM
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Why waste our time writing a post explaining the difference? Let them think we are the same as incels... what journalists / mainstream media think or say we do is completely irrelevant. It should not affect you in any way.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:23 AM
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This is essentially the ‘natural alpha’ vs the ‘learned alpha’ (i.e. some of us) dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:08 AM
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You can certainly identify low SMV males from a photo. No fat, poorly dressed, poorly groomed man is going to be high SMV regardless of any confidence or charisma.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:54 PM
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In my experience a fuck buddy will last 3-6 months max. Don’t get emotional when it ends.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:11 AM
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But she is a unicorn. Duh.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:46 PM
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My advice for you is get a grip. No such thing as unicorns and you aren’t going to get ripped in 4 months. It takes years to stop looking like a pussy. Edit: just seen the bit about your relationship with god. Please tell me this post is trolling.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:46 PM
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There’s a bodyweightfitness sub. Never been on it because fuck body weight fitness. You might find it useful for your situation though.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:35 PM
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Asktrp is for personal advice or clarification of theory. Don’t waste our time by posting your practice theory here. Well done for actually reading the sidebar. As suggested, read the top several hundred posts and start digesting recommended reading lists. The Book of Pook, the Rational Male etc.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:48 AM
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No symptoms = not contagious
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:44 AM
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Herpes is only contagious when active. She likely had even a small flare up of genital warts and just didn’t give a fuck. Firstly, calm down. You are not going to get revenge. You are a man, and that is petty and stupid. You have lost frame but that’s understandable, just recognise that now and don’t escalate this any further. If a kid selfishly gave you an infection you wouldn’t assault or mentally fuck with him, would you? Like I say, herpes is only contagious when you have active signs. Stres…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:41 AM
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You probably look like a thumb.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 06:34 PM
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I’m no stranger to leangains, I tried it for about 6 months. It’s a good way to cut since you limit your calorie intake window but there is limited evidence to suggest it is anything more. No quality evidence proving that you can build muscle and cut fat. Edit: gaining lean muscle mass is certainly possible and can be facilitated with the leangains programme (or done just as successfully without). I’m not disputing that. Just that you can’t burn fat and gain muscle simultaneously.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:20 AM
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Calories in vs calories out. If you eat carbs and fat all day but under your TDEE, you will lose weight. Sure, you will lose muscle too and feel lethargic and look like shit, but this is an exaggerated example. Carbs or fat alone do not make you fat. Calories in > calories out does.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:55 AM
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Nice work but don’t give people false hope about losing fat and building muscle at the same time. This can be done to a small extent when you first start out but otherwise is not achievable. Calories in vs calories out.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:50 AM
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Don’t trick her into admitting she gave you a fake number. Don’t give her yours either. Say “what’s your number?”, input what she says into your phone, text it a day or two later. Then move on. Maybe she replies, maybe she doesn’t. You’re too busy to dwell on it.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:10 PM
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Your abs are accessories to most of the shit you will be doing with SL. Don’t do them on off days or they will never get time to recover. Throw in arms (pull ups, dips, curls and tricep extensions) and then abs at the end on your training days if you wish. Hanging leg raises are the best exercise for them.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:54 PM
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One solution: dread. Employ the 12 Levels. Search for them if you are unfamiliar. Applies to any kind of LTR. Edit: how foolish of me, the best solution is to not get married. My advice is to merely remedy the circumstance.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:05 PM
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You’ve got oneitis. There are no unicorns. You aren’t thinking rationally. Go fuck 20 girls then see if this one still preoccupies your mind.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:16 PM
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Keep at +0.25lbs / week. You’re still relatively skinny. Bulk up big, don’t forget to work on the abs. When you hit 15-18%, cut to 10-12. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:52 AM
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You’re probably right. It’s a hassle having to maintain two wardrobes worth of clothes.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:20 AM
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I looked great at 15 when I was cutting down from 18. I suddenly hit 10 and everyone said I looked ill. Much better shirtless, ten times worse in a shirt. 12-13 is my sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:52 PM
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You would not still be getting sore if you lifted 5-6 times per week for 2 years. In any case, it’s fine if you’ve rested the muscle group for at least a day.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:33 PM
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Those are the ones. Make sure you pinch the fat with your fingers and measure with the callipers, rather than pinch directly with the callipers.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:33 PM
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Buy calipers and take multiple measurements and use the average. Google how to use them properly. Either that or pay a lot more to have it done by your doctor.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:20 PM
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Body language and posture (What Every Body Is Saying) And charisma (The Charisma Myth).
/r/askTRP11/04/18 12:24 PM
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Difficult to video that yourself. Better asking a parent to do it.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:24 AM
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Right now? None but I think that’s about to change
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:21 AM
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First example is good but last two suck. Why help her find her keys? Haven’t you got better things to do than rummage around on your hands and knees? And why would you not pay your own water bill? That is beyond retarded. You presumably require water yourself.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:49 AM
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Any evidence for this or just broscience?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:40 AM
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It’s possible to gain some muscle while burning fat if you’re a beginner. It’s not gonna be very significant though. Pick one: cut or bulk. Calculate your TDEE and eat at a deficit or surplus respectively.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:24 AM
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Sexual strategy is amoral
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:25 PM
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Yes up to a point but it isn’t too important. You will stall on skull crushers and bicep curls a lot sooner than any compound. The most important thing is good form and high rep. I recommend 5x10. At least do 3x10 if you can’t stomach that. The weight really isn’t important.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 09:29 PM
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100%. As long as you don’t skimp on your compounds.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:29 PM
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Assistance exercises are vital or you end up with the dreaded Stronglifts T Rex figure
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:44 PM
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You’re best browsing the Fitness or Gainit subs. General beginner advice is pick a full body workout programme like Stronglifts or Starting Strength, lift until you plateau, move on to a more advanced programme like 531 or push pull legs. Calculate your TDEE, track your calories and eat at a surplus. Lifting is your new way of life.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:18 PM
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If she makes even one more excuse without a reschedule or a rejection it’s a soft next in my book. Soft because if she ever sends a late night lonely booty call it may or may not be accepted. Hard nexting gives her a big fat DNR stamp.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:21 PM
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Is your memory that bad?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:21 AM
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Lol. Yes I do.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:16 AM
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5’10
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:15 AM
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Yes. Stop looking for excuses and get working.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:13 AM
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Unless you intend to frame yourself as a miserable son of a bitch, no.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:43 AM
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This applies to everyone. You should digest TRP then leave it alone. Read books but go out and apply your knowledge. I don’t browse TRP anymore. Nothing is new. I spend some time on asktrp, because it’s fun. A lot of people choose to live in TRP, which I think is a trap.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:00 AM
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If you have to ask this question, she’s cheated. Next.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:27 PM
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And consider it a soft next from the moment you press send. No more contact unless she reinitiates. Even then, tread lightly. Once a flake, always a flake. For the same guy, that is...
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:15 PM
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It doesn’t matter. Don’t overthink it. If you’ve got time, ring back. If you’re genuinely busy, wait until you’re not.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:13 PM
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Patrice first taught me this concept. The amount of emotion and passion required to hate someone is similar to that when you love them. You are consuming their thoughts and they cannot stop thinking about you. If they have indifference towards you, they don’t think about you and don’t give a fuck. Therefore it is the opposite of both love and hate. If a girl hates you, yeah, you can maybe fuck her. She holds a lot of passion towards you. But it’s not the right foot to start an LTR off from. You …
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:10 PM
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This is the toughest pill to swallow. I think you know the answer. The girl has no respect for you and wishes you were even a shadow of the alpha she sucks off. But you aren’t. You need to divorce and get working on yourself hardcore mode.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:07 PM
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Pump and dump
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:35 PM
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Go on the fitness sub and read up on recommended programmes. Different options suited to your schedule, goals etc.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:19 PM
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Shows you are unaffected? This is passive aggressive and butthurt. The only option is no reply.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:32 PM
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Good suggestions but you can’t learn how to control your emotions just from reading. You need to actually meditate too.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:19 PM
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There is no hope. You have been friendzoned. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Please salvage your dignity and cut off contact with her. You either kept things too friendly on the date (didn’t even kiss) or your SMV is too low. Work on yourself and move on.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:18 PM
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Fuck them then. Find others to play with if you haven’t tried playing in a band yet.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:58 AM
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Music comes to mind. Perfect for a group of friends. Pick up an instrument, get good, jam together.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:55 AM
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3 dates no sex yet we are ‘probably going to fuck tonight’. Even the statement lacks confidence.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:39 AM
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If she doesn't, you know she's not interested and you can stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:40 PM
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And the hamster wheel spins...
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:30 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? Of course it is. This is basic anti slut defence hamster spinning. Roll with it and make your move when the time is right. “Phew. I was worried you were just going to use me for my body.”
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:00 PM
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Search
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:11 AM
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PUA was really focused on tricks and routines and such and didn't really concern itself with truly improving yourself. This is still the case. That’s why you should avoid subs like Seduction.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:19 PM
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Even if it was a shit test, the best response to this one given the context is no reply. If she brings it up on the date, then maybe it is a shit test. Act accordingly in person (you can be sarcastic and agree&amplify etc., which can’t be done very well on text).
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:18 PM
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No reply. Like others have pointed out, this isn’t a shit test. This is an ideal response from her. Don’t over analyse.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:56 PM
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Grow the fuck up. It’s life. AWALT. Learn from it and up your SMV.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:00 PM
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If you want to go for other reasons then that’s your call. Always remember that you can’t negotiate attraction.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:32 AM
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Why waste your time? She isn’t interested. This is some PUA seduction bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:05 AM
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Not quite. Girls ‘friendzone’ boys to keep them around so that they can constantly be validated. When we next a girl, we don’t want her following us around licking our asses.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:54 AM
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Take it to the next level...
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:01 PM
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Pretty much any LTR issues (or ‘basically’ LTR in your case, whatever that means) can be solved by applying dread. Look up the 12 levels.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:39 AM
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Just wait. Not only will she probably say no whilst she’s treating you, but she’ll be more attracted to you once you’ve had the op anyway.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:29 PM
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Why would you need to google it when it’s covered in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:27 PM
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Do you really want to fuck up your patient/doctor relationship with the woman who holds complete power over what your teeth will end up like? At least wait until she has discharged you.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:53 PM
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If only there was a way to delete someone from your Facebook... oh well. Guess you will just have to be best buds with the guy.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:22 PM
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Do you have any links to papers on it?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:17 PM
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Don’t reply. She rejected you.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:30 PM
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Why would you possibly care? That’s what baffles me
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:57 PM
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The opposite - it says in the sidebar not to use fiction as an example. A good movie nonetheless, might give OP that boost of motivation to hit the gym once then come back and ask why he isn’t seeing any improvements.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:56 PM
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You train your body but not your mind? Why would your mind hold any less value than the thing it controls? Meditate.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:55 AM
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This is some bullshit broscience. Why don’t you consider finding scientific evidence before accepting everything the guy says? Lift, meditate, sleep. Let me guess, you are lacking in all three?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:54 AM
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Don’t drop the soap
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:29 PM
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You’re right, in your text, it’s still a date. This means you just triggered her ASD. Considering her initial statement in the OP, you have just lost. My text bypasses her ASD and enables a meet up, even if it’s worded in a way that facilitates her rationalisation that it’s just as friends. In any case, once you meet up, she will know it’s a date from your game, conversation, kino etc. If you can’t get laid by arranging the date with my text example, sending it your way won’t have made the sligh…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:18 PM
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Are you a girl? Because you text like a girl. Law 4: Always say less than necessary. Cut your word count right down. “Cool, let’s just hang out then. Meet at X tomorrow at 7pm.”
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:29 PM
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I listen to what I want because I like the music and/or vocals. I don’t give a fuck if the lyrics don’t coincide with RP ideologies. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:47 PM
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Read the sidebar and you won’t need to ask such simple questions.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:02 AM
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Here’s a story: got dumped by a girl several years ago, swallowed the pill, moved the fuck on. Do the same.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:12 AM
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My bad. Sometimes stupidity can crack holes in it.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:20 PM
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Then why the fuck do you need to make a post in asktrp to figure out if you're getting stronger?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:17 PM
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This is a dumb question. You can tell if you are getting stronger by your compounds. Please tell me you do compounds anything other than machines...
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:32 PM
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Just buy one and keep it spare for any passengers you might get in the future. Some people confuse TRP with trying to live as cheaply as possible at all costs. It’s reasonable not to pay for a girl’s drinks all night on a date. It’s unreasonable to expect a girl to buy a motorcycle helmet for the odd time she wants to go for a quick ride with you. Edit: emphasis on the point that it is your spare helmet for passengers. You are not buying her one.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:55 AM
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If you have any dignity or self-respect, let some other guy listen to her problems.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:42 PM
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Not a shit test. Most likely hoping you will listen to her while you float around her orbit. Cut out attention.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:31 PM
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Fap once a week, slowly, with lube. Each week go for one minute longer. Edge. Nofap is the opposite of what a guy in your position should be doing.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:30 PM
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You’re burnt out. Happens to everyone. Take a week off of gaming girls and TRP. Have fun, rest, then get back to chasing your mission. Whatever it may be.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:54 AM
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You understand what people are telling you in the comments which is good. A lot of people here argue it like children. Learn from your field report and improve.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:42 AM
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Well no shit. Get reading.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:41 AM
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TRP is a toolkit you constantly use. It’s not a pill you swallow once and then you are set for life. Read the sidebar again and always have a relevant book on the go. You just need refreshing.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:21 AM
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So much wrong here. Firstly, you speak like a fourteen year old. Grow the fuck up. Secondly, you got friendzoned once then failed to take any kind of hint and added her a second time. Scarcity mentality. Thirdly, you gave her the ultimatum (finally, some kind of balls) but then entirely lost frame and drove her back for free so she wouldn’t tell on you to her big brother, who you now seem scared of like a little bitch. Obviously you should never have readded her, but also as soon as she turned u…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:59 AM
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Nipple tape.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:49 PM
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Why are you wasting your time for a girl? Find girls local to you. In any case, this one didn’t text back so move on.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:39 PM
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Scars would help. So would facial tattoos. Easiest way is to just get a criminal record. Why don’t you spend a few years in a cell and become a true bad boy?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:47 PM
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This is retarded. What do you think can happen? You ejaculate out all of your leg gains? Sounds like hamstering to me.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:30 PM
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Good place to start with hobbies and simultaneously develop your fitness and expand your social circle is martial arts.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:09 PM
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If you can’t stop yourself getting in fights then you are nothing more than a grown up irresponsible child. Meditate and sort your anger out. Ps Karate is a waste of time. Consider Muay Thai, BJJ, MMA, boxing etc.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:02 AM
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Fuck Her Gently by Tenacious D
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:35 PM
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You want sex, she wants attention. No point going out and giving her what she wants when you know in this instance you can’t get yours. Reschedule for a day that suits you better.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:09 PM
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Treat her like a human. “Sorry to hear about your father.” This is not an invitation to start a long text conversation.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:13 AM
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Are you 12? Drop the smiley faces
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:11 AM
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What’s more expensive, new condoms or a kid?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:13 AM
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Learn to detach from your emotions. Meditate daily.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:27 PM
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This is a simple question. You would know the answer is mystery if you properly digested the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:24 PM
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First text is weak. You’re one step away from kissing her feet. As long as she can fit you into her busy schedule, right? Then you initiated boring text conversation by asking about her work. Do I need to explain why this is a bad move? Fortunately she still seemed to show some degree of interest with her last text. Treat it like a shit test. Agree and amplify, disagree or ignore. “Yeah, it’s bingo night at Doris’ care home. Met her on Tinder.”
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:59 PM
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You said it yourself - girls are dependent on texting and receiving validation. Why are you so eager to feed her? Follow our advice and avoid texting unless you wish to enter her orbit. Who knows, maybe you do.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:47 PM
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Do you really think every woman outside of the US responds in the same way? It obviously depends on where you are. Girls in Sweden are going to respond differently to girls in Brazil. Give us more information.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:11 AM
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I'm definitely guilty of using the terms 'ghost' and 'soft next' interchangeably. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:00 PM
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Not everything is a shit test. Sometimes girls aren’t interested. Don’t dwell on this one.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:46 PM
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What I mean by that is you next her without discussion i.e. cut off all contact and move on. No reply. She says “maybe”, you take the L. Call it something else if you want to get into semantics.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:32 PM
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This is how I have been all weekend makes no sense to run the same shit test 20 times over with the same unemotionally involved results. Are you trying to understand her rationale using logic and reason? You’ll be here a while.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:13 PM
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Possibly wants to see if you get jealous when she talks to her exes. If you go, remain totally unfazed and calm. Jealousy does not exist to you. Talk to people and have a good time. Or don’t go because you’re busy.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:02 PM
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Anything but a strong yes is a soft next. Assume she isn’t interested and move on. If she reinitiates, give her a final chance but only accept a time and date. Don’t enter her orbit if she just wants a texting buddy. Act normal in person but remain distant.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:49 PM
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You’re jacked though... right?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:22 PM
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What are you going to do if the answer is height? Go lift some fucking weights.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:21 PM
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You were stoned... how could you expect to have been socially adept? The answer is obvious...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:07 AM
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Absolutely focus on solid size for the future. It will still work to your advantage in the short term. In any case, you’ve got the next 30 years to catch up on girls.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:46 AM
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This is a stupid question. How do you expect us to answer it without any background information or pictures? I’ll try my best: If you haven’t lifted before bulk. Unless you’re fat. In which case cut.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:05 AM
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Good plan. You should write a field report after the 50 days with lessons you learnt from your experience. Post it in the main sub.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:58 AM
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Don’t waste your commute on music. Listen to audiobooks and podcasts...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:52 AM
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“Maybe”
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:51 AM
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Martial arts, meditation
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:13 PM
7

You like reading? Start with the sidebar. Meanwhile join a gym and pickup a martial art.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:13 PM
5

Nothing you said is funny. Drop the “haha.”
/r/askTRP18/03/18 08:11 PM
6

Nope. Block your ex so she doesn’t have access to new ‘love interests’. Learn from your mistake.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:36 PM
2

Are you sure she isn’t just bored and looking for some validation?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:35 PM
3

Could be either to further gauge your SMV by seeing if other girls are interested (preselection)... ...Or as you say because she is pushing for exclusivity. Tread carefully.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:40 PM
2

Eat 4000 calories + a 300 surplus. Buy a mass gainer. Lift at a gym, man.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:53 PM
19

She can only hit you once because it’s a cold, hard next after that.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:47 AM
1

You can mention your hobbies but don’t talk about the core motivations or underlying mission. Eg “I’ve got MMA class tonight” rather than “part of my mission involves reaching my physical peak and becoming adept at fighting, so I’m training in MMA 3 times a week.”
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:43 AM
11

“You think knowing my favourite colour is gonna make you want to suck my dick?” RIP Patrice
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:35 AM
1

You’re either trolling or retarded if you think nudes are going to spice up mundane sex, which you can acquire from anyone so easily. Either way, get a grip.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:29 AM
1

My advice would be to go and get laid.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:24 AM
7

Don’t talk to girls (or most guys) about your mission, goals, ambitions etc. Be a closed, mysterious book. Don’t subconsciously seek validation. You don’t need to talk about that shit.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:24 AM
6

Rest it. Don’t fuck your self up worse. Focus on legs.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:47 PM
4

But she is The One...
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:15 AM
12

Completely rumbled
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:47 PM
7

If she is into you, it will work. Make sure you warm her up at the bar first. Get onto the topic of movies naturally. If she turns it down, she would have turned down any offer.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:59 AM
2

She ghosted you. Give her very limited attention. Don’t ignore her fully because that will look obvious. Instead, treat her normally but with minimal interaction. Focus on laughing with your pals and talking to the other girls. Whatever you do, don’t mention the text conversation you were having.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:41 PM
2

Beer, pussy, shitting with the door open, river boat gambling trips
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:35 PM
12

Tuck my cock between my legs to make a mangina. Works best with a caption along the lines of: “Would you fuck me? I’d fuck me”
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:33 PM
14

Grow the fuck up and ghost her. You don’t need to give her the damn key.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:29 PM
3

One day’s rest is enough. Yeah, you will be sore, but your muscles will have recovered sufficiently. That is when you train through the pain. Sooner or later, the soreness stops. Here is my plan for you that worked wonders for me after 2 years of half-assed training and gaining nothing. Several years later, I have since gained 20kg of mostly muscle (obviously some fat). Calculate your TDEE again, add a surplus of calories (300-500) and count them religiously on the MyFitnessPal app. Download the…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 08:48 AM
3

If you gained fat then I believe you were eating enough calories. How high was your protein content though? Assuming it was reasonably high, the reason you didn’t gain muscle is because your workout was shit. You didn’t increase the weight linearly each week, did you? You didn’t focus on heavy compounds either, right? Drop that genetic potential bullshit. You’re making excuses.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 07:49 AM
10

Stop hamstering. Lift weights and eat more. Put on some muscle. Edit: if you didn’t calculate your TDEE and count calories, you didn’t even try. No sympathy.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:53 AM
1

Bad idea. Why validate girls for nothing? It’s futile. Your confidence is naturally rising as I assume you are digesting the sidebar and relevant books. On top of that I assume you are making serious gains in the gym and dressing well. Better to take this new-found confidence and open girls for actual conversations and number closes rather than fleeting compliments.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:55 PM
2

Absolutely not. Do it. You’ll be surprised by the results (assuming you have been improving your SMV)...
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:20 AM
4

Absolutely. By reacting emotionally.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:42 AM
11

No dinner dates. Drinks only (alcohol or coffee) If a girl makes an excuse and doesn’t suggest a reschedule, soft next. Every time.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:10 AM
16

Treat it like a shit test. It is clearly getting to you, which is why they do it. Laugh the teases off, agree&amplify, disagree&amplify etc. Do anything that doesn’t look upset/angry. Remain entirely unfazed. They will soon move on. In the mean time, continue working on your SMV.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:08 AM
2

80/20 is based on SMV. Not just facial aesthetics. There is so much more to SMV. What don’t you understand?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:30 AM
9

Lube up a bagel and fuck it whenever you get horny. Or fix your mindset. The latter requires dedication, time and effort. You need to start with the sidebar, read the top posts and recommended books, raise your SMV and learn game. Meditate and master hobbies and your career, too. Not a walk in the park. The former requires just some lube and a few bagels. Choose wisely.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:38 PM
11

Imagine a red flag. Now imagine another red flag on top of that first red flag. That is your current situation. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:35 PM
8

Fix your teeth. If they are crooked, get them straightened (clear braces). If they are yellow or stained, get them whitened.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:15 PM
6

Sounds like you’re doing fine. She seems into you and not friendzoned. But where to go from here? Either make a move, take her out and fuck her or drop it. She’s getting what she wants (some validation, a bit of texting) but what do you want?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:39 PM
3

Or from most men.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:49 AM
2

Research the 12 Levels of Dread. You work your way up the list until you achieve your desired results. Level 12 is ‘nuclear’ and a last resort, when the only other option is nexting anyway eg if continued no sex.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:52 AM
2

Dread dread dread. Go nuclear if you have to, since my alternate advice would be to next her anyway.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:57 AM
2

Lol. Sorry I don’t sugar coat it like Mommy does.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:44 AM
1

This is TRP. Go read R Seduction if you want a quick fix. Go read the entire sidebar and learn to think for yourself if you want to be a man.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:10 AM
1

Try once more for the hell of it. I’ve got laid that way before. Dating apps suck dick, though. If this was a girl you actually knew in real life, it would be a soft next.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:28 AM
1

Already looking for shortcuts. You’ll go far, kid.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:16 AM
4

Of course like you say it is a different type of dopamine hit, but the problem is that you're not making self-improvements when you read TRP -- you're learning how to make self-improvements. It means jack shit if you don't apply.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:09 PM
1

Public WiFi
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:04 PM
44

Spot on. It seems like some people have made internalising TRP their mission. They study it like a degree. I rarely visit the main sub anymore. Always maintained that you should digest the basics from the sidebar and the top few hundred posts then go out and apply. Spend some of that time reading published books, too.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:47 PM
3

We already know exactly what it takes to get laid.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:13 PM
2

Raise your SMV and learn game like everybody else if you want to get laid. People will think you’re a little bitch if they ever find out you lied. Stop looking for shortcuts.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:17 PM
1

Why don’t you work on actually losing your virginity instead of just lying about it?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:28 AM
5

The fundamental issue with this post is that you are so concerned about what others think of you. Yeah, the lie may work. It may not. You need to learn to give less of a fuck.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:12 AM
1

Look how much text you just wrote about one girl. She has the capacity to ruin your career and you don’t even care. Read the sidebars.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:47 AM
2

You have oneitis. Did you even read the sidebars?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:37 AM
9

Dude. 25% is fat. Cut that shit right down to sub 10 before you try and discuss further options in facial aesthetics.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:12 PM
60

You messaged her back and she didn’t respond. Soft next. If she reinitiates, hold frame and get her to cook. A bet’s a bet. Don’t reach out.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:01 PM
7

Romance isn't what I thought No shit. That's the point.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:08 AM
1

If a girl ever says you have a small dick, say her pussy stinks.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:13 PM
1

Grow beard burn fat
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:08 PM
7

Wow. You went full retard I'm afraid. Not that it matters since it's just Tinder and she's just a girl, but still. You went from a good chance of getting sex to none. Better luck next time.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:41 PM
2

Absolutely
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:08 PM
6

Bad idea. Employ dread and maintain. You don’t do it for two weeks then revert to how it was before and repeat once a month. You keep her suspended in a constant state of dread.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:41 PM
4

He should probably do a bit more than deadlifts and dips
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:14 PM
3

Yes. Download Headspace.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:15 AM
12

You need to go read the sidebar. If you actually wanted to fuck this girl, you fucked up by initially suggesting a group meet up. You then fucked up again by attempting a dinner date, and even though you tried, she rejected the offer and suggested a group meet up (aka she is not sexually interested in you — although perhaps as an orbiter). She then showed interest in your friend which was the ultimate “fuck you” (in other contexts perhaps a shit test, but not in this one). This girl does not wan…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:56 AM
25

don’t for a second believe that there is another guy involved You’ve got a way to go, man.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:31 AM
12

Don’t take it to heart. Some girls will have boyfriends, some will be in bad moods, some just won’t dig you. And that’s fine. Plenty of others will. If your SMV is high.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:59 PM
7

Not every girl is going to respond well to an approach. But many will respond poorly if your SMV is suboptimal. How high is yours?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:18 PM
7

The first rule of fight club
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:15 PM
1

U/Jebof is right. Your LTR should be in a constant subtle state of dread. Sometimes heightened but never back to zero. She needs to live with the fear that you can get other girls and she can lose you forever.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:03 PM
16

You absolutely haven’t taken it too far, it sounds like you’re doing well. If she asks about the texts, casually brush them off saying you were busy. Keep doing what you’re doing until you get your desired results.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:20 PM
3

So all you’ve done for your SMV is go to the gym? Have you actually gained muscle? Are you eating enough? Computer science and web dev may help your career but certainly not your SMV. How well do you dress? Is your personal hygiene in check? Skin, hair, odour etc.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:29 AM
0

Tread carefully. You are shitting right where you eat. Do you really want to risk this blowing up in your face at work? You should work on your game. It sounds just like you are reeling off rehearsed ‘asshole’ moves. Don’t actually be a dick and ignore people (even though it was a mistake, for future reference). Just give very limited attention, push/pull etc. Leave her wanting more but don’t take it too far.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:35 AM
1

Increase your SMV. Read the sidebar, books etc. then go apply. Simple.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:31 AM
1

Read the sidebar, dummy.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:02 AM
2

Sounds like you have Imposter syndrome. Take it a little break, have a think about what your mission is. You must define it. Then work at it like a powerhouse.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:02 PM
21

You are not in control of your own thoughts and urges. That’s the problem. Start meditating everyday from today. Detach yourself from your cravings.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:37 PM
6

Ignore
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:34 PM
7

Something else: bigger and stronger. Because all other combinations are retarded.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:51 PM
2

Read books
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:06 PM
1

You obviously don’t have a clear understanding of the term since ‘recent LTR’ baffled you. I suggest you do some basic reading. Start with the sidebar, kid. And wow. OP inboxed you so I guess you are right. Your dick is truly bigger than mine.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:42 AM
1

The term ‘LTR’ is analogous to ‘girlfriend’. They are interchangeable although you’ll notice the word ‘girlfriend’ is rarely used here. An LTR becomes so when she is promoted from FWB/plate. So you can have a recent LTR. Your advice is poor. It lacks tact and is likely to make things worse. It’s a comfort test and you failed. You don’t treat an LTR just like a plate.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:00 AM
3

It certainly doesn’t sound like she had a lot of choice. But she still has all those dicks under her belt. Who knows what else she had to do... Unfortunately, the reason isn’t too important. It’s the end point that matters.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:07 PM
5

You should learn not to concern yourself with the opinion of women (or anyone for that matter). Short term plan: meet up with her and either fuck and have a good time or get rejected and practice taking shit on the chin. Long term plan: sort your skin out.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:58 PM
7

slept with several guys to get by Just several? Let me guess, that’s what she told you... Big red flag in my opinion. Is there a shortage of women where you are?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:56 PM
1

Download the Headspace app for a start.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:43 PM
3

Meditate. Because I know you don’t already.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:46 PM
7

Who are you trying to convince?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:39 PM
1

Your clients probably just don’t know any better because they don’t have a good understanding of English themselves.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:40 AM
10

I think better to go radio silent with no screenshot. Let her hamster spin, employ dread.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:23 AM
3

Are you telling me you'd seriously wait 1-2 months to fuck a girl? Firstly, never act beta. Especially if your intention is to fuck. Your advice is the cringiest, dumbest shit I've ever heard. Secondly, listen to her actions, not her words. You need more help than the OP.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:24 PM
2

Give her one more opportunity with a reschedule. "Let's do next Friday. You can get to know me then." Any response from her other than a yes is a next.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:19 PM
37

Most are taken but there's always a disabled one?
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:17 PM
1

The term can be applied to wherever you ‘eat’. For me, there would be worse social repercussions from a plate turning sour at the gym than at work. That’s because the gym is my temple where I focus on myself to my full capacity. I don’t want to have to ask a smashed plate how long she has left in the squat rack. At work, there are plenty of girls who I don’t have to cross paths with.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:34 PM
1

Do men in your social context wear bracelets? Is it a current fashion/trend? Because that is what determines whether it is a social norm or a social faux pas. They don’t in mine. Maybe they do in yours. Everything depends on context.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:27 PM
1

Depends where you’re based. In some social contexts, it would be considered ‘gay’. Perhaps not in others. Don’t blindly ‘own’ everything thing because you’ve been told ‘not to give a fuck’ because that’s autistic behaviour. Follow social and fashion trends.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:17 PM
5

Requires true discipline
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:38 AM
1

It takes time to alter a mindset. Continue with what you’re doing over an extended period of time (reading, lifting, working) and you will see your mentality change. Make sure you meditate too and get some hobbies.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:46 PM
1

Nice piece but don’t skip leg day. Running doesn’t build big quads.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:58 AM
2

Nothing with as much certainty and ease as lifting.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:40 PM
5

Read the sidebar and apply
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:11 PM
6

I can hear the hamster wheel spinning... You aren’t lifting hard enough or aren’t eating enough or both. Anyone can get big if they actually try.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:10 PM
2

Way too passive aggressive. Cringed hard at the thought of delivering that line with a cheesy grin. She’s being disrespectful, not everything should be treated like a joke.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:02 PM
2

Plausible deniability. Tell her to come round to stroke your cat. The reason does not matter.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:56 AM
1

Why would you assume the definition is incorrect just because “all girls date up”? AWALT.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:27 PM
1

Can confirm this doesn’t work well if you don’t actually have a dog.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:32 AM
2

It means going for sexual partners (LTR, marriage) with a higher social status than them.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:21 AM
1

You mean both
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:20 AM
7

Go for a drink (bar/your place/hers) and fuck. Don’t be a boyfriend. FWBs last 3-5 months before it’s time to let her smash or possibly promote her to LTR if suitable (no red flags).
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:15 AM
6

Don’t call. People text nowadays. “Let’s grab a drink at X bar on Friday. Meet me at 8.30”
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:11 AM
9

Ignore. You won’t look like an idiot.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:37 PM
6

Finish in 3 seconds and let her tell all her friends how shit it was. You need to learn to not give a fuck about what others think — especially strangers you met in a club.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:01 PM
4

This is the most retarded shit I have ever seen. Are you seriously asking for advice on how to handle this situation?
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:47 PM
3

As long as you have rested your muscle group, in my experience it’s fine to train it again about 2-3 days later even if it’s still sore. You lift through the pain. I’ve been lifting for 6 years, never had any issues. Others might tell you the opposite...
/r/askTRP24/02/18 11:02 AM
17

Fuck reading your entire post. You’re 15 and are wondering if TRP is for you? It’s the truth. It’s for anyone who doesn’t want to live in fairytale land. Read the sidebar, recommended books, start with some exciting hobbies whilst you’re young and begin lifting at 16. Study hard. Socialise and build a name for yourself. You’re in a fantastic position.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:59 AM
19

Don’t tell girls that you live with your parents
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:57 AM
17

Cringed so hard at your opener and first few messages. Couldn’t carry on reading. What are you trying to achieve with your texting? Arrange a meet up and game her in real life. I’d tell you to read the sidebar but you probably want cheap and quick seduction tactics.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:54 AM
5

Ask yourself WHY. Why does a girl think you don’t deserve respect and that it’s acceptable to let doors slam in your face? Perhaps she was just a bitch. But perhaps you don’t look particularly muscular, well dressed, confident etc. If it is the latter, you’ve got some work to do. Don’t hamster the explanation. Either way, don’t concern yourself with the opinions of children.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:39 PM
7

Why? She’s a girl. Don’t take offence. You wouldn’t post on an Internet forum if a kid chose not to hold a door open for you...
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:34 PM
2

It’s her way of gently letting you know she has a schlong that needs to be sucked. Or she is just being vulgar. I think the first one is more likely.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:31 PM
9

Lack of respect
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:19 PM
1

Did you make your own workout programme? Because that is a bad idea. Do something like stronglifts 5x5 or PPL.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:59 PM
2

“Let’s go for a drink on Friday and catch up. Meet me at X.” Don’t validate her through mundane chit chat. If she ghosts again, delete her number.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:55 AM
3

Do you really lift? Or do you just hit the dumbbells in your flat once a week? Get hobbies, socialise, read, meditate. Free your mind and your ass will follow.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:27 AM
3

Don’t send another text and see if she messages back confirming the meet up. If she doesn’t, it’s a soft next. If she does, go fuck her brains out again.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:54 PM
4

You’re overthinking this. Not everything is a power play. He even said to phone when you are ready... how is he dominating? Just ring him.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:39 PM
1

Never go for dinner (or lunch). Both are terrible. Go for drinks every time.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:27 AM
5

Tinder is full of flakes and catfish. Most girls use it for validation. The premise is fucked anyway since they only assess you visually and from just a couple of photos. You’re honestly better off deleting the app and focusing on gaming girls face to face.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:52 PM
2

Go to bed at 12, wake up at 8. Lift hard (workout shouldn’t be “better” on days off, you should be killing it all the time). Read a lot of books. Get some hobbies.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:47 PM
12

Say “shut up bitch I’m trying to pass my algebra class”
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:44 PM
14

Is drinking water beta? How do I sleep like a man?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:05 PM
1

Lifting and hobbies yield tangible results. It takes discipline, not motivation. You need to keep reading. Start with No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:03 PM
1

By definition, no alpha uses nootropics for that purpose. Why would he need drugs to enhance his game? It doesn’t make sense. He can get all the girls he should desire without. Relying on drugs is some weak, pansy, PUA bullshit. Learn to game like a real man naturally by practicing and developing your skillset.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:00 PM
3

Random dick pic? Never. Dick in a hot dog bun with Ketchup up the shaft? Works every time.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:41 PM
8

It’s a comfort test. Your answer is a sure fail.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:38 PM
2

Why are you sending photos of your food to girls on snapchat? There probably isn’t a good response because they probably are only interested in the food. Send a photo of your dick in a hot dog bun with Ketchup on it.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:37 PM
1

Your texts are way too wordy. Always say less than necessary. Now the ball is in her court. Soft next and let her reach out. If she doesn’t, move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:01 AM
3

Overthinking. Who gives a fuck? Your question is a non-issue.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:56 AM
1

TRP
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:29 PM
16

“I know, I’ll put it in your ass next time. Will presumably be a bit tighter.”
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:57 PM
1

Following on from the paternal thing, what would you do if a kid said you’re lucky to have them as a kid? Obviously they are lucky to have a supportive parent but you don’t sit there arguing with them about it. AKA amused mastery.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:57 AM
3

If you respect your son, stop treating him like a little kid and get out of his search history. Respect his privacy. Treat him like a young adult. What he searches for online or with his phone is none of your business.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:17 PM
0

No one is too busy to send the occasional text throughout the day. It takes 15 seconds. Fair enough if you choose not to, but don’t pretend you are too busy.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:29 AM
1

Would she break up with you if she found out you cheated? If so, might be worth considering a threesome to start.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:25 AM
3

That’s fine, but why don’t you just break up with your girlfriend so you can easily spin plates without having to worry about the logistics so much?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 11:45 PM
3

Who gives a fuck if you feel comfortable? You want to minimise your chances of being cucked? Go lift. Stop hamstering.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:36 PM
6

Easy set up for “I’m just happy to see you”
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:01 PM
1

Since you’ve been out of weightlifting for 8 months, I’d say fuck the cardio and start packing on muscle with 5x5. But I don’t know the full picture eg body fat percentage, weight and height etc.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:00 PM
2

Up to you. If you want to build muscle, it’s easier to drop the cardio. Otherwise you’ll have to eat an extra several hundred calories. I do cardio anyway as it helps with my martial art training.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:08 PM
3

As long as your doctor has said it’s safe to start lifting, I’d start really light with Stronglifts 5x5. You will probably find some exercises quite easy at light weight and some quite hard. This will ‘calibrate’ your muscles and allow you to catch up so that everything is proportional.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:32 PM
2

Whilst absence increases respect and honour, availability isn’t what makes McDonald’s cheap.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:08 PM
3

Familiarity breeds contempt.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:06 PM
1

I personally disliked the book because it hardly applied to me. Like you say, the fictitious Nice Guy examples are way too pathetic. Pushed through hoping I’d strike gold towards the end but it never happened.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:27 PM
15

If your LTR sends you a text you don’t have to ignore it just because somewhere on the internet it says “Thou shalt only text for logistics.” Not every rule is so black and white. That being said, in this instance OP should have ignored. Not that it would salvage his relationship...
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:07 PM
1

Establish rapport then use for logistics. Don’t chit chat throughout the day.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:14 PM
2

It’s funny. Don’t take it so literally.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:35 PM
2

So if a girl shit tests you with something this simple you’re just gonna sit there on your high horse with a smug smile and ignore her?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:34 PM
1

It’s a shit test. Why would you take it any more literally?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 04:26 AM
2

Uh oh, you are listening to her words. Go back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:56 PM
1

Is this a humblebrag? Or are you just turning soft?
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:51 PM
1

I think you are a special snowflake and you found a magical unicorn. I think the sidebar, whilst generally good, does not apply to your situation. Oh well, better luck next life.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:07 PM
3

You clearly don’t have much experience with Tinder if you think you can gauge someone’s attraction from it/ In any case, get her to come to you.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:29 PM
2

You ever see Patrice O’Neal? I bet you he had bigger man tits than you. Still an RP hero. May he RIP. Physical appearance is merely one aspect of a multifaceted attraction scale.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:22 AM
19

I paraphrase a quote I once heard (something like “always leave the house like you’re going to meet the love of your life”) into “always leave your house like you’re going to fuck the shit out of a HB10.”
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:18 AM
1

Research Wendler’s 531. 1 rep may sound stupid but the routine pushed me through plateaus I had struggled with after 5 years of mixed programming.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:56 PM
1

Lol you are misinformed. Building muscle is entirely possible with 5, 3 or even 1 reps (hence the 531 programme). Stronglifts 5x5 isn’t one of the most well established beginner programmes for nothing. 8-15 is allegedly optimum hypertrophy which isn’t gonna do shit if you can only deadlift 60 kilos. Do your research kid.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:50 PM
6

Different styles. Both have the potential to work and fail depending on who employs them. Find what works for you.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:12 PM
4

Guy must be a skinny pencil dick if he does supersets and listens to Spotify right? 1 hour - 1 hour 30 is fine.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:09 PM
1

What’s more important is the content of your workouts... Do you focus on heavy compounds? Do you lift your compounds at high weight / low rep? Do you follow progressive overload and linear progression? Do you fuck around on machines? Don’t try and invent your own routine. Learn from the pros.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:05 PM
6

Double espresso two sugars
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:26 PM
6

Way too long and cheesy. Did you rip that from the Seduction sub? You asked her for coffee which is wrong, gave her a lame complimentary pick-up line and rehearsed a script. Let me guess, you haven’t read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP12/01/18 07:45 AM
4

Give her one more opportunity. If she denies again then face the fact that she won’t ever do it.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:19 PM
2

She thinks she wants to size you up. She thinks she wants to know you. In reality, killing the mystery will kills the attraction. Keep things vague.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:06 PM
1

Be passionate but don’t show over-enthusiasm or talk fast like a little school girl telling Becky what Chad did at the party.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 01:54 PM
6

The “ten hundred/thousand” response was a good pass. Don’t ever admit your true number. Next time she uses the phrase ’body count’ play it out like no. of people you have killed. Plenty of fun to be had with this shit test. Edit: another classic in response to her asking if the number is 10: “You mean today? This week?”
/r/askTRP05/01/18 01:50 PM
9

People dont just send random dick pics They do actually. It’s a sad truth. Still, she cheated...
/r/askTRP02/01/18 08:22 PM
1

I hear chastity belts are highly effective
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:25 PM
1

Should have ignored after her initial response
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:23 PM
2

Take everything you read here with a grain of salt. There is no one size fits all policy. The material can fit well with one person’s agenda and not at all with someone else’s. Use TRP like a toolkit.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:20 PM
1

It is a useful tool to lower your caloric intake and practice exercising willpower. Don’t get too hung up on it.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:17 PM
55

It’s important to make the distinction between MGTOW who actively decide not to chase pussy and keyboard Chads who think they are living the RP lifestyle, but in reality rarely put theory into practice. These are two entirely different subsets. The latter study TRP as if it is a degree yet rarely act on their knowledge. It’s as if they are preparing for finals and forgetting to live.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:25 PM
1

Any evidence for the vitamins? Or is that Broscience too
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 07:19 AM
31

Each exclamation mark is like a dagger in my heart
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 07:31 AM
1

Read the sidebar. The answer is literally right there.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:56 PM
5

Stop trying to convert people. Law 38
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:52 PM
2

If somebody jumps off a cliff or wrestles a bear because I told them to always do what they are afraid to do, consider it natural selection.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 06:45 PM
6

Don’t take things so literally. I obviously meant if in a non life-threatening situation like approaching a girl you feel scared, approach her anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:05 PM
13

Always do what you’re afraid to do
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:06 AM
11

Shit works wonders for every single human being. It’s called meditation.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 09:02 AM
2

Search TRP
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:29 PM
19

Don’t listen to the others and demote her to plate for a one time offence as trivial as this. Instead, apply dread. Don’t reply, if she asks what happened say you were busy. She will probably send the nudes anyway. If she does this again in the future, then you next/demote.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:13 AM
16

Nice height gains what exercise did you do?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:10 AM
9

The gym in a sanctuary. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:13 AM
3

Did you ever read the Book of Pook? You should. There is a large emphasis on not burying yourself in theory and studying game like an academic, but rather getting outside, practicing and learning from your mistakes. Learn in the field.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:30 PM
3

Men who whine about everything anything are pussies. FTFY
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:56 AM
5

I think you handled it well but be prepared to next if she doesn’t have sex with you straight away. Listen to her actions, not her words. Funny how she will still go on dates and get her precious attention.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:55 AM
96

Strange, if only we should listen to their actions and not their words. Oh well. Edit: I propose a new adage for beta orbiters: Don’t listen to their actions, or their words
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:53 AM
1

In all other respects she’s great Oh sweet so she is a good fuck? Get a grip and find a girl who is willing to fuck you, you time ho.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:13 AM
1

Lol a ‘virgin’. OP is gullible as fuck.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:12 AM
1

1 fap per week without porn is the winner in my opinion. You had porn-induced ED, not fap-induced. Therefore cut out the porn. You don’t want to cum in 10 seconds each time you get laid.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:11 PM
2

The experience thing is minor since she doesn’t know you have less than her. You didn’t tell her, right? Ah, more evidence that Nofap is bullshit. Any particular reason you are doing it? Any evidence? Or just because some neckbeards on an Internet forum told you to? I may also be a guy on an Internet forum but I’m not telling you to abstain from something without providing evidence. My advice is to fap once per week. You are not a Tibetan Monk. It’s natural.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:18 AM
4

But be careful not to hamster yourself into an endless cycle of self-improvement because you’re too scared to approach. Situational awareness is key.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:25 AM
6

I say yes. Others will say no. Decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:23 PM
1

Rules are rules. Read the sidebar like everybody else and you won't need to ask this kind of shit.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 10:15 PM
1

It's not rocket science but some people need to be spoon-fed
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:21 PM
1

Seduction is still full of Disney BP bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 03:19 PM
4

TRP and asktrp is all you need. Don't waste your life browsing through Reddit.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:36 AM
5

You sound like a beggar. Do you think a King would beg for blowjobs? Apply some dread and retain your dignity.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:26 PM
1

Good job although am I right in thinking you were planning on meeting up with her on the Saturday with her friends too (and it just so happened that she came alone)? Because that could have had a very different, disappointing outcome for you. I personally wouldn't have risked it, even though it worked out this time.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:14 PM
3

Don't forget that the gym is also a safe haven where you go to work on yourself. You don't need a plate or LTR distracting you from your mission.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:04 PM
2

Fully agree. Before I found TRP I used to frequent those subs (even seduction... Eugh!) It's no surprise I didn't see any results. TRP has been the cornerstone of my overall self-improvement.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:58 PM
4

There is tons of non-sexual material in TRP. Avoid subs like "selfimprovement" or "getdisciplined", they are full of non-material and betas patting each other on the back for trying.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:18 AM
2

Don't forget the 48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:15 AM
1

Maybe it was... Depends on context and non-verbal cues which you know better than us. If it is then just respond like any other... A&A, D&A, ignore etc.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:01 PM
3

Not a shit test, more just to see if you are willing to listen to her ramble on about nothing. Either that or she is just being a girl and talking for the sake of it. Do you have time to waste? Are you an emotional tampon?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:21 PM
1

I'm sure with enough time you'll figure out how to use the search function
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:00 PM
0

You misunderstand me too. There is no need for discussion, the topic is plastered throughout TRP.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:06 PM
1

Read the sidebar. There are many ways to increase your SMV. Don't dwell on things you can't change.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:08 PM
1

Yes, bend over backwards to fit into her busy schedule. After all, she is the princess and you are merely a townsperson.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:26 PM
4

For logistics just like every other fucking girl
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:13 PM
1

Read the sidebar and decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:21 AM
2

2: What are all your criteria for the ideal wife? The ideal wife is a unicorn. She doesn't exist. Get reading the sidebar, boy.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 11:48 PM
6

Yep, oneitis sneaked up on you and grabbed you by the balls. Either fuck other women or if you really don't feel like it just distract yourself with work, fitness, hobbies etc... Now is a good time to finally start that martial art or musical instrument. You're a beginner. Give it time and you will learn not to get emotionally invested with plates/FWB. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:52 PM
6

Stop asking dumb ass questions and read the sidebar you little bitch
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:59 PM
3

It takes discipline, not motivation.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:35 PM
1

Chronic hand issues from training boxing? Or just from street fights with no gloves/protection?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:27 PM
3

Next time she sucks your dick, act like you are really uncomfortable. When she asks what's up, say you really don't like the sensation of teeth on your shaft. With any luck, she will have them all removed and the blowjob will be much more soothing. Imagine all of those betas who would offer to buy her braces instead. Chumps!
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:21 PM
3

I've heard people who are definitely plugged in refer to carrying out multiple tasks as "spinning plates". After all, that's why we call it that. Just like a clown in a circus spinning plates. It's not crazy to think she just considered you fucking multiple girls as "spinning plates". Who cares anyway, as long as you still get ass. If she puts up resistance or goes cold, you next her regardless of what terminology she does or doesn't use.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:55 PM
7

Abundance
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:12 AM
30

You are trapped in a self-improvement cycle. Stop thinking that you need to improve to get girls. The thing now that will get you laid is game and approach. Don't bury your head in textbooks, go outside and get real results.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 07:50 PM
2

Don't hamster. Lift.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:28 PM
3

You wouldn't care if your buddy fucked a whore at the brothel you sometimes like to bang. Just leave it and continue to fuck her if you want. Or don't.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 08:33 PM
8

Just FYI Brits refer to height in feet/inches, not cm.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:00 PM
5

Just read your old posts. You did good. Don't let her guilt-trip you. Stay ice cold.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 02:29 PM
3

I'm starting to suspect TFA fucked one of GLO's plates. All I see is short people hate.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:12 AM
3

Good response. Using you as an example was clearly because you don't look particularly tall or like a steroid user. Not the best example GLO, was it?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:05 AM
1

Do some research. Follow an approved workout routine and look into eating at a calorific surplus. Stop being lazy.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:19 PM
2

OHP in the rack is totally acceptable. Don't use machines.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:18 PM
1

Oneitis. Read the sidebar, pussy.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 06:58 AM
1

Get gym equipment. You need to lift if you want to be a man.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:51 PM
1

Can you point to (or recall) the part on the sidebar that says "Listen to their words" and "Apologise for kissing a girl who kisses you back"? Of course he can't, but only because that would actually require an asktrp OP to read the sidebar. Don't be absurd.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:22 AM
42

Always maintain high status. It isn't something you switch on in front of HB9s and off in front of fat chicks. In any case, the unobtainable women you list can always connect you to hot friends/bigger social circles.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:21 AM
3

Don't forget the Book of Pook in the early days
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 10:17 PM
1

I don't care what you meant, I'm telling you that you have oneitis. I could see it in the way you described her. Regardless, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:16 PM
2

Please tell me this is a troll? If not, you've got a long way to go. Start by reading the sidebar, dummy.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 08:36 PM
1

If you're doing cool things then it's all good.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 08:34 PM
2

As if a King would try to convince peasants that they should sleep with him.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:44 PM
1

She's getting what she wants -- attention. Stop validating her with text chit chat and use it for logistics only.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:38 PM
2

Sex Panther
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:37 PM
1

I'd estimate 70-75kg. Edit: IIRC Zac Efron is your height. I'd make his physique in Baywatch a goal.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:22 AM
1

I really doubt its the first one bro You've got a way to go bud. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:51 PM
3

Maybe she meant your dick didn't fit inside her pussy properly? She is fucking someone else who is better than you. Don't take it to heart, there is always someone out there better than us. Just keep working on your SMV and move onto the next. Next time take the hint after the first rejection.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:12 PM
3

Listen to what she does, not what she says. Is she sucking your dick? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:50 PM
1

Video games are OK in moderation but we all know that 90% of people can't moderate that shit so I always recommend cutting them out completely. Use free time to read, lift, socialise and practice implementing what you have learnt. Hobbies and studying too of course.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:03 PM
13

How is this a request for personal advice? You know full well that this is a humble brag with a bullshit question thrown on to the end that you already know the answer to.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:01 PM
1

Whilst that is true, you should always have a prize mentality. If it's not got business arrangements, consider yourself the most important person in any given room.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:55 AM
1

Of course she isn't a unicorn shit for brains. They do not and will never exist. The boyfriend dying is a big red flag and the girl most likely suffers from psychological trauma because of it. Tread lightly.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:03 PM
0

If I followed number 6) I'd be offering value to myself the entire time
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:59 PM
14

48 Laws of Power can be applied
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:49 PM
6

You double texted? Have some dignity and delete her number
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:26 AM
3

Yoga is beneficial if it sets you up with hot girls to fuck. Otherwise, stop hamstring and join a gym. Or do you enjoy being weak and pathetic?
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:20 PM
13

Why would you respond? Don't you have things to do?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:46 PM
1

You're a Time Ho (search YouTube for Patrice's explanation). She wants attention, you want sex. You're giving her attention, she's not giving you sex. You are losing. Do you think she would have said that line to Brad Pitt? Should have replied with "don't worry I'll make it easy for you" and got up and left. Radio silence and soft next. Abundance is key. She will most likely reach out, at which point you give her just one more chance to hang out, whereby you make your move and she either accepts…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:45 PM
1

Who ever said we treat women like animals? Children are people
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:40 PM
1

I'd delete this before you get banned from asktrp too
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:34 PM
1

In my opinion, yes. I use it everyday and rate it quite highly.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:06 PM
1

Headspace anxiety pack
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:59 AM
1

Meditate. Control your emotions like a man.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:31 PM
2

Let's be honest, it's pretty bent.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:30 PM
3

The reason is to maintain mystery and spin her hamster. Fuck honesty.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:29 PM
2

Always work on your SMV and always leave her wanting more. Girls want attention but they prefer to have it from higher status males (until they actually get it, at which point she loses her attraction to you). People want what they can't have. Tease her intermittently with attention but don't ever give her what she truly wants. You should never get spun by a girl. When you spin a plate, it is on your terms, and when she stops putting out and starts demanding increased attention, the contract end…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:08 PM
2

What you say is true (the hormone is oxytocin) -- but when girls have ridden the cock carousel from 18 (or younger) to 25, 30, 35 etc., their ability to 'pair bond' with sexual partners diminishes until they are just having hollow, empty sex to satisfy basic primal urges. To clarify: I'm not disagreeing that women love sex. But when they 'spin plates', they are doing it for attention (/commitment), since all they need to do to get laid is step outside the front door.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:54 PM
0

Where I'm from it's considered socially awkward to have to ring when it could be done in a 5 word text. Borderline autistic. You got time to waste?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:08 PM
0

Are you 30+? Wonder what gave it away... Edit: to save a comment, I will clarify now that it is safe to assume OP is young (based on the nature of the question). It's 2017. Young people text.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:50 AM
1

You shouldn't feel emotional upset because you are supposed to be outcome independent, emotionally uninvested, and confident that you can pick up another girl when you please. But in reality, you're not, are you? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:59 AM
2

What you are missing out is that a plate to a girl is different to a plate for a guy. Our plates are girls we spin for sex. Girls work in a different currency -- they spin guys for attention. Sure, girls like to fuck, but they can go without it in ways we can't. They need attention, however. And to answer your question, girls do not get attached to their plates (beta orbiters) or to they guys they fuck in the same capacity as 90% of the population of men out there. But that's not saying much whe…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:57 AM
21

In that case, all of the rest of my comment holds true.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:40 AM
43

How often did you fuck for the first year and two months? Assuming you had a normal relationship and she has just text you out of the blue saying that she is uncomfortable/anxious having sex with you, there are two explanations: She is getting side dick She is no longer sexually attracted to you and is trying to tame her beta bucks Neither options have great outlooks, do they? However, these assumptions are based on what she said. You must remember to always listen to what she does, not what she…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:27 AM
1

This is correct. It is outdated advice to tell people to actually call a girl. Social norms change.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:20 AM
1

Just to clarify I don't do no fap, just no porn. What if I don't get ass one week? Fuck keeping that shit inside you.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:49 PM
1

Wrong spelling dummy
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:48 PM
5

Same as you, I've seen the effects no porn has on me. My mental state is much clearer and my interaction with the world is purer. It's almost like passive meditation. Porn corrupts the mind. There are no secret tips or tricks, if you really want to watch porn you will. The key is in truly not wanting to.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:42 PM
1

My advice if you see her everyday is don't do it. If your accommodation is large and you don't socialise together you could maybe get away with it.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:40 PM
3

It's one thing to shit where you eat. Shitting where you eat sleep and breathe is a different ball game.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:31 PM
1

Misread your comment, I agree stick to what you've started. It's a marathon anyway, not a sprint.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:06 PM
1

What's TSAONGAF? I would personally shift NMMNG above Models.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:08 AM
8

No reply. Move on. Let me guess, you haven't read NMMMG...
/r/askTRP25/10/17 07:56 AM
1

Step 1: Cut a hole in the box That's as far as I get. Keep getting stuck after that point.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:04 PM
3

"What did you say? My hearing isn't as good as it was in my youth." AKA A&A
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:59 PM
1

Living alone gives you the perfect opportunity for practice. Talk to yourself and sing as much as you can. Record your voice, analyse it and work on it. Practice practice practice.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:25 AM
8

Honestly it doesn't hurt if you use lots and lots of lube
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:24 AM
14

I think the problem is obvious. For a healthy relationship to flourish, the girl should be pegging you in the ass with a big black strap-on at least once or twice a week. Send her a nice girthy dildo with an Amazon gift card so she can pick a strap of her choice.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:12 AM
3

Don't ask them to meet up on Tinder. Get their number and then text them stating the meet up, not asking.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:34 AM
26

Is any girl fiancé material? The answer is no.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:11 PM
12

They are trying to control you like a little beta bitch. When you pass a shit test, they aren't getting what they want. What do children do when they don't get what they want? They throw tantrums...
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:48 AM
3

Hotel or her place.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:14 AM
1

Can you elaborate on the part about 'objects' reacting to you?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:51 PM
6

You're not afraid to escalate because you're a virgin (although technically you aren't). You're afraid because you're scared of rejection. I think you already know that the answer is practice. Yes, you will get rejected. Possibly quite a lot. But you will also succeed. Keep working on yourself and do what you know you have to do.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:53 AM
6

Make law your career and keep music as a hobby. You won't be so passionate about it when you have the added pressure of having to write stuff in order to make a living.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:15 AM
2

Good video although too many people put too much emphasis on diet and genetics. If you don't train your abs, you will look like an Auschwitz survivor before your six pack pops. Build abs in the gym, reveal them in the kitchen, and pray you have half decent genetics.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:04 AM
1

As a side note, none of us will or can ever be Chad, since Chad is the epitome of a natural alpha and we are learned ones at best.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 10:32 PM
1

Ignore things like this with quiet confidence. Maybe chuckle to yourself as he rages and loses all essence of frame. Besides, if it actually broke out into a real one v one fight, you'd probably win since you train MMA. You do train MMA, don't you? [Not advocating fighting but everyone should be prepared for self defence]
/r/askTRP21/10/17 06:23 PM
2

There are many traits you need to incorporate into your life that will pave the way to becoming 'alpha'. There are a few good posts on these traits if you search the main sub. The important thing is to not just be a moody dick. This is a common pitfall for beginners. You can still be happy and friendly, just don't walk around with a dumb smile on your face the entire time and let people walk over you. Stick up for yourself and set boundaries. Start with NMMMG after finishing the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 06:20 PM
3

Meditate and practice Stoicism.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:28 PM
1

What is your question?
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:26 PM
7

Reminds me of a time when I went radio silent on a Tinder girl. She sent multiple texts over a two week period which I ignored. Decided to respond one night when I was bored and went to hers to fuck. She insisted my dick had gotten bigger. It was clearly just her perception as my value had risen in her eyes.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:18 AM
5

Get hobbies
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:37 PM
2

Tell him to stop eating your food
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:04 PM
13

She's disappointed because she wanted to go on the date. Not rocket science...
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:03 PM
1

Understatement of the century
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 11:37 AM
5

Whilst I highly value Meditations, needless to say it was a simpler time when Mr Aurelius wrote it. With modern day science and evidence supporting theories such as evolution and the Big Bang, I consider anyone who genuinely believes in religion today to be slightly senile.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:26 AM
10

Who cares what your honest intentions are, you don't answer seriously in any case. "I intend to marry you, have 6 kids then get a divorce and live happily ever after."
/r/askTRP19/10/17 06:08 AM
5

How is any single religion RP? Believing in a god(s) with no proof but simply because people told you to?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:58 AM
7

Shit with the door open, talk about pussy, go on riverboat gambling trips...
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:37 PM
1

The fact that it is better than a restaurant or movie does not say much considering that those are two of the worst first date venues.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:34 PM
1

You want constructive feedback? Stop making excuses and read the entire sidebar. Start tonight. I did the entire thing on mobile. Download the PDF or use baconreader app.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:30 PM
1

And so the hamster wheel spins... If you are making excuses this early you are fucked. Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:14 PM
1

Sarcasm. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:09 PM
4

What do you do that causes people to shout at you? Download Headspace and start meditating. Learn to control your emotions.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:04 PM
6

Ok so it's not a troll. Men are creatures of logic, women are creatures of emotion. Your close male friends are who you can confide in. An LTR is someone who comes along on your life's journey and provides you with what you value; sex (and some degree of female companionship). In exchange you give her metered doses of what she values; attention (+ security). Women do not want to hear about your bitch ass feeling. She may pretend she does but deep down is losing respect by the word (double time f…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:36 AM
3

Please tell me this is a troll. Are you a girl? If this was a lesbian relationship I might understand... Just in case you're not trolling, key points suggesting you are a girl are: you require attention and validation from your ltr (or anyone for that matter) you discussed your feelings with your ltr you cried in front of your ltr Stay with her by all means if you don't mind her having zero respect for you. Maybe she is into cucks, who knows, it might work. Or end things, try and salvage what li…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:31 AM
2

And the sidebar
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:46 AM
5

Well she said it so it must be true. Shame. If only there was a sidebar or thousand posts that taught us to listen to what she does and not what she says. Better luck next time bro.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:20 AM
2

Why did you move in with your LTR? Shot yourself in the foot there didn't you... If only you lived alone, then you could spend more time with the girl from work and see if you actually rate her enough to consider promoting to LTR. Make your decision and stick to it. Don't be afraid to lose both. Abundance abundance abundance.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:01 PM
12

"Why, do you want to audition?"
/r/askTRP17/10/17 09:45 PM
3

Pretty sure? You should be certain
/r/askTRP17/10/17 09:43 PM
5

If you think you dress alright, you don't. You will know if you have put in the effort to look sharp.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 09:43 PM
1

Go radio silent. Ignore her snaps. Soon she will text or ring asking to meet up. Give her one more chance but if there's no sex it's a hard next. If she doesn't reach out, move on.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 09:28 PM
3

Your confidence is key. You may surprise yourself with the results.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:40 PM
1

Failure is key to success. Read the sidebar then read the Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:55 AM
3

Good advice but fuck living with your parents until you are on six figures. I'd say one year max after graduation then find somewhere and bit the bullet with rent. It's important for your personal growth.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:24 AM
2

You really like her but you only know her name? She could be a complete psycho bitch but I suppose that doesn't matter as long as she is hot, right? You are over-invested and you don't even know the girl. You also get nervous because she is on such a high pedestal -- so high that she is almost divine. I suggest you start lifting, finish the sidebar and add value to your life.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:59 PM
5

What the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:56 PM
6

Or perhaps his skull
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:05 PM
1

The Red Pill handbook. Search the main sub.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 07:49 PM
2

Diet -> fitness -> pussy If you want cheap pick up tricks go to the seduction sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 03:53 PM
1

Must have been difficult for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 03:52 PM
2

Get karma then post to fitness. It's not hard.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:51 PM
3

Wrong sub
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:07 PM
1

Leave it.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:25 PM
1

Lol not a shit test. She isn't interested.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:23 PM
1

Get some muscle on your bones
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:21 PM
3

Can't recommend any books although I'm sure others will. Want to make the point though that you must be careful not to rely on theory too much. I found HTWFIP really useful and used that as a foundation to start practicing. Practice is what will make you refine your skills and perfect them. Start now.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:54 AM
1

Well if it was on Reddit then it must be true. I guess unicorns do exist.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:26 AM
1

Always do what you are afraid to do
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:01 AM
2

TRP sidebar first, then handbook/top posts, then recommended books. If you have a personal question, read ASKTRP sidebar first.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:01 AM
2

Meditate. You know this.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:59 AM
8

You're overthinking this way too much. Chill the fuck out. Say "What's your number?" Don't explain yourself.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:26 PM
14

No way, don't live in your car. It would be terrible. Live with your parents, save up aggressively then rent a place for yourself.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:23 PM
3

Well done on actually reading the sidebar. That puts you ahead of 75% of the people in this sub. Yes, you should start talking to girls right now. But make sure you continue to work your way through the recommended books at the same time.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:09 PM
2

No one here is Chad. By definition, Chad is a natural Alpha. The most we can aspire to be is a learned one.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 11:54 AM
4

"Yeah, shame things didn't work out between you two."
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:49 AM
14

Demanding that someone respects you is one of the most sure fire ways to make them not respect you.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:48 AM
4

Your reply is quite good. Give it a shot.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 08:19 PM
7

Until he actually becomes blue pill
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:45 PM
6

Tinder is easier to use (low effort) but you get far worse results. Don't rationalize that you have work to do and shouldn't approach. Get out there.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:53 PM
3

Should have dropped her off and had that unavoidable sudden urge to "use the bathroom". Once you're in, you're in. Leaving her at the bar could go either way but at this point considering how drunk you both were I think whether or not she reaches back out to you depends on your perceived SMV and frame.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:22 AM
7

Much better. Always say as little as possible to convey your message.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:00 AM
12

Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:43 AM
5

“You should sit in meditation for twenty minutes every day — unless you’re too busy. Then you should sit for an hour.”
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 05:25 PM
2

she is one of my plates I think you will find that you are one of her plates. She is spinning you for attention like the bitch that you are. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:22 PM
1

Excellent results. What Headspace packs did you use and for how long? And did you branch out to independent meditation or sick to Headspace?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 04:39 PM
1

Push through the ASD but if it's a strong and hard no realise it and bail. Who cares if you look like a pussy who can't get laid? You won't see her again so it doesn't matter. And yes, don't see her again if you don't get laid this time.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 04:20 PM
13

Just tip it
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:13 PM
2

Don't make small talk like that. Tease her or bring up something from her profile that you can joke about. If you can't draw her in by your first 1 or 2 messages, you lose.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:52 AM
9

During foreplay: "I want a Big Mac with fries... What the fuck do you think I want?"
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:41 AM
15

Maintain radio silence. She is acting like a child. Are you surprised?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:43 AM
1

Let me get this straight, you've been on >2 dates without fucking? Do you get your dating strategy from cheesy American Rom-Coms? Did her father not give you his blessing? You are a Time Ho. Type that into YouTube and let Patrice explain it. Essentially, she is spinning you like a plate and getting what she wants (attention, your time) but you aren't getting shit. Very rarely I will make an exception and go on a second date when there was no sex on the first. But if there is no sex by the second…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:28 AM
2

You are the person who got me into BJJ. I've seen you praise it a lot in this sub. I also want to branch out into MMA. How do you split it? Do you train individual arts or attend actual MMA classes?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:16 AM
6

What makes you say stay away from nofap? I've never needed to visit them but I'm curious.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:14 AM
1

That moment of sexual clarity after you bust a nut is one of the most insightful moments I often value more than the sex itself.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:52 PM
3

The ideal he talks about is having sex whenever you truly want it. The bitter reality of the plate-spinner is that some nights he will want ass and simply cannot get it. Maybe his plates are busy or have a deadline at work the next day or just all smashed simultaneously. It happens. The point is that it is very rare to be able to achieve and maintain a vantage point where you are able to have sex whenever you truly desire it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:30 PM
3

Certainly not beta for trying to embrace his sexuality.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 09:34 PM
2

If you had read the sidebar you'd know the answer is split. You'd also know you shouldn't go for meals on dates (unless maybe with an LTR). Why would you ask her out a third time if she already said no? You think school work was the actual reason? Got a way to go, bud.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:41 PM
1

Pick up a hobby
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:12 PM
1

That will be reinforced NMMNG
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:12 PM
2

Sidebar
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:11 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:09 PM
1

The Rational Male next
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:03 AM
2

No More Mr Nice Guy is a book I have read and I strongly urge you to read it (as well as the entire sidebar if you haven't already). You've got a way to go bud.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:12 PM
4

What she's doing is far ruder. If a guy asked you to give him your hard earned money would you feel guilty saying no? This reminds me of a book in my reading list called When I Say No I Feel Guilty. I haven't read it yet so really can't say what it's about or if it's any good but I've seen it recommended here a lot and based on the title alone I would say it's worth looking into to see if it would help your situation.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:27 PM
4

You're forgetting one other great option which is no response at all.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:01 AM
3

Fighting might carve a natural alpha but it is bad advice for anyone with half a brain. Not only can it fuck up your life regarding employability if it gets on your criminal record, but it can obviously fuck you up by physically and cause lasting damage. Fighting to 'prove' yourself is the least alpha thing you can do. Want to become a real alpha? Stop giving a fuck about what people say you should or shouldn't do. Do what you want. Maybe that does include fighting.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:42 AM
6

This is stupid advice. Don't get in a fight for the sake of it.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:16 AM
3

It isn't losing frame but you shouldn't compliment girls like that. Don't give your number either and put the onus on her to text first. Say "what's your number?" and take the lead like a man.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:42 PM
1

If I were to build a man cave because I wanted to, it would not be beta. If you build one for the sole reason that people on the Internet told you to, it would be beta. See the distinction?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:18 PM
1

We can't just list a bunch of traits for you to employ and become a Chad. You must change your inherent nature by slowly reading and ingesting as much as you can. Start with the Book of Pook. Edit: Assuming you have already read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:58 PM
1

A lot of the songs I like have objectively BP lyrics but that doesn't mean shit cos I like the music and the way it sounds. Who cares if a song is 'beta'?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:53 PM
13

Yeah. We send each other pictures of our biceps and recipes for chicken breast. You gotta fuck 100 girls before you can join.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:52 PM
1

I'm not reading your post because I don't really care about your situation. As I said, if your SMV is as sky high as you claim it to be, then game is most likely the issue. In other words, I am saying something other than SMV is the problem. In any case, your attitude stinks and you sound like a vexed autist. Chill the fuck out, meditate, read and keep practicing. There are no quick fixes you are going to find in the threads of this sub.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:01 PM
3

It's hardly a meme. If all of your claims are true then the problem is either your game or the girls in your area. How solid is your game? Physical appearance isn't everything, but it's hardly bad advice telling the average member of TRP to maximise it.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:44 PM
1

Then something else is the problem. What is the common factor? Up your SMV.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:28 PM
7

"A real one?" "I don't mind sharing if he doesn't mind going second." "So do I. Let's keep this a secret from them."
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:20 PM
1

I work a full time job, go to the gym, have hobbies and socialise with friends. I also read when I can. You shouldn't have time to waste.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:12 PM
1

Nothing wrong with dousing a princess with your not-so-valuable time in hopes that she might put out after 3 or 4 dates. Keep doing you, kiddo.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:09 AM
8

Yes. It is in their genes. Just how all Asians are super clever.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:03 PM
4

Too many red flags for anything more than a plate but if you wish to keep fucking her just use latex-free condoms. If she says she has an allergy to them, tell her that is impossible. If she insists, say cool and leave it (next). She will most likely change her mind. In any case, don't request exclusivity, because even if she doesn't lose all her respect for you for being needy, she will just lie and continue to fuck other guys anyway.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:01 PM
3

3 dates for sex? That is bullshit. If I don't get sex by the second there are no more chances. It should be by the end of the first. You want sex and she wants attention/time. Why would you possibly give her what she wants three times before she gives you what you want? As Patrice said, you are a Time Ho.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:20 AM
6

Having an LTR isn't beta. When you have enough ONS', you will realise they simply aren't fulfilling anymore. Give it time, kid.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:18 AM
6

Incels either rationalise that their SMV can't be raised sufficiently because they are too lazy or in some cases it truly can't be due to genetics, medical issues etc. There is certainly some hamstering in their sub though.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:15 PM
2

She isn't sexually interested in you. She's now thinking, 'why settle for one orbiter when I can get two?' Next.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:52 PM
2

Thought you might like to try reducing the word count. Always good practice to write something out then simplify it as much as possible without losing any meaning or desired effect. I personally liked the response "nah don't get your hopes up" and would have used that or something similar. To simplify your response, could have tried something like: "... There will be pizza. And me. Win-win. Meet at [place] at [time]." Always say as little as possible. I agree that in some cases you need to incre…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:44 PM
1

A bit too wordy. You can simplify that.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:03 AM
12

Ignore. She gave you the ultimate sign of disrespect. You are better than that.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:51 AM
1

Tricky when you live together. She could catch on to this and start doing it in the communal areas so that OP retreats to his bedroom.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 05:42 AM
2

Public transport? Taxi? Get a job and buy a car?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 01:49 PM
4

Why are you having conversations over text? Set up a date then fuck her brains out
/r/askTRP01/10/17 01:01 PM
1

Should be common sense to anyone who has any inkling of the sidebar. Unfortunately not the case.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 12:28 PM
6

Or how about you make eye contact for a couple of seconds like a normal person. Edit: When talking to people, obviously you make eye contact. That is not what we are talking about. You said to make 9 seconds of eye contact when you first meet a girl like a romantic scene from a Disney movie.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 09:43 AM
14

Except for the fact that you literally spelled out it should be for 9 seconds. When I say 'stare' I'm referring to the amount of time, not the width of your eyes. Sit in front of a mirror and look at each eye and then your lips for 3 seconds each as you suggest. It is far too long.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 09:18 AM
31

Staring at various points on a girl's face for 7-9 seconds is autistic behaviour. Glance at her eyes/lips if you must but don't stare.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 08:56 AM
19

So she is just a kid but was front squatting 85kg with perfect form? The story unravels further...
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 08:53 AM
7

You sound as much like a kid as OP.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 08:52 AM
11

She probably sees you getting irritated and continues to tell you this shit cos it entertains her. The trick is to ignore it but without coming across as angry/upset/emotional.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:50 PM
1

You could have learnt it the easy way if you just read the sidebar
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Settle things over a game of rock, paper, scissors. Best out of 3.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:07 PM
8

I'll give you a clue. The answer is weights. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:07 AM
5

Stronglifts 5x5. Add arms to the end if you want something more fulfilling.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:33 AM
8

"Used to but not spoken in a few years" Then change the subject and move on.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:34 PM
1

No as there are exceptions to every rule. Start the journey of maximising your SMV but also get practicing with your approach at the same time.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:21 AM
6

In order to approach without being considered 'creepy', be attractive. As long as your SMV is higher than the girl in question's, you can pull it off.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:51 PM
1

That may be the case in Russia or China but for us Westerners the female standards of the ideal physique are obviously different. Add Taylor Lautner to my original list.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:43 AM
2

Well if she said it, then it must be true. Lift. Don't discuss it with your LTR.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:00 PM
6

True, but neither would Brad Pitt's head on Arnold's body
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:29 PM
5

Like the other guy said check the BWF subreddit but you should be focusing your efforts on landing that job if you aren't already. Upgrade to a gym at that point if you want to actually get big.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:56 PM
4

Do you think if Brad Pitt asked for a girl's number she would reject him? Get a grip and move on. Have some dignity.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:42 AM
3

"So I can sell it to telemarketers"
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:39 AM
18

Girls have pictures of Brad Pitt (circa Fight Club) and Zac Efron (circa Baywatch) on their walls. Not pictures of Olympic weightlifters or prime Arnie.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:50 AM
24

You won't get shit tested if your SMV is low as fuck. A shit test is to see how good you are at handling shit. Girls don't care if low SMVs can't handle their shit.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:24 PM
28

Meditate. Free your mind from unwanted urges and thought cycles.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:52 PM
5

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:58 AM
3

That general notion was preached by Patrice long before Big Sean
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:57 AM
2

Drop the wink
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:56 AM
3

Ignore the faggot who commented below. Your reply is good. Remember to evade her accusations. Don't give her the satisfaction of arguing about/discussing this shit.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:13 PM
3

Don't reply. Anything you say will just stir her emotions anyway. Give her time to cool down then wait for her to reach out. In any case, avoid big texts like this and deal with matters in person. But this is not a matter to be dealt with. She is emotional and complaining over nothing -- she knows this is the way that it is between you. If she doesn't like it, she can move on. Abundance mentality. She will stick around.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:41 PM
2

I respect that. I struggle to dance and have fun at a club if I'm sober, especially when all of my friends are drunk. Good job. You are right about being wary of shitting where you eat. The places I would never game a girl are work, the gym and my martial arts club. But to each his own, exercise with caution if you must. Still, as I said, dinner/movie is a terrible choice if you actually want to fuck the girl. Try coffee or a bar (and stay non alcoholic if that's what you're keeping to). Good lu…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:35 PM
2

I assume you were sober with the first girl since you drove. Was she sober too or drunk? Text the her in a few days. Start with some flirting/banter (keep it to a minimum, this is just to build basic rapport over text) and then state the next meet up (a few drinks at a bar). A movie is the worst place you can go on a date closely followed by dinner. Good job killing two birds. Take the kickboxing girl for a drink or coffee then fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:49 PM
3

You can be damned sure a girl isn't a unicorn by the simple fact that she is a girl
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:11 PM
1

until she moved out of his flat Minor detail you left out of the OP...
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:13 AM
1

Don't be a bitch. Tell him you're coming over to get your bike. Go and confront him.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:07 AM
3

Let me guess, you aren't physically imposing. Start lifting and pick up a sport.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:05 AM
1

Realistically, it shouldn't matter because she is not his, it was just his turn. You wouldn't be mad if your bro fucked a whore in a brothel who you used to bang a lot. But in reality, he might get pissy. Don't forget that most people are BP. If you still talk or value his friendship, just ask. If you don't, just fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:02 AM
1

The fact of the matter is that some of us do ponder if we are good enough. The root of approach anxiety. This is a short term fix to help get guys on their feet and start approaching. Meanwhile, long term groundwork is still underway in the background.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 05:21 PM
9

Most likely new members who have read a few posts and think they understand TRP but can't be bothered to actually digest the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 03:40 PM
4

And if she rejects you, be grateful that you now know that messaging her is a waste of time. Focus your efforts elsewhere.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:24 PM
2

Martial arts, sports, musical instruments
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:23 PM
1

Why would you care what your plate gets up to in her spare time?
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:22 PM
2

Download Headspace. Complete the free trial. Buy premium and sit through the self-esteem pack.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:10 AM
17

Respect is earned. That applies to both men and women. Women rarely earn my respect.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:48 AM
4

Good job although this field report belongs in TRP. And no you are not beta if you let her cum before you.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 09:12 AM
30

Very noble reply. Hopefully a princess well recognise your chivalry and reward you for it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 08:46 AM
11

I know a girl who works in a high end restaurant and she told me that all the waiters fuck each other all the time. Is this what you're referring to?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 08:44 AM
17

They want to feel empowered. It's cute.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 11:43 PM
1

That's a good response. Which Heartiste article did you get that from?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:44 PM
1

Krav Maga is ideal for self defence I don't disagree. My point is that it is not necessarily in OP's best interest to focus on the purest form of sheer self defence. Depending on his circumstances, he may not need that level of self defence. If that is the case, OP might be better off learning one or more of the sport martial arts eg MT and BJJ and then he will not only have a hobby where he can train to compete but will also have adequate self defence knowledge for day-to-day public safety. Lea…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:38 PM
1

Krav Maga prepares you for self defence but unless you live in a rough neighbourhood where you get your ass kicked every night, I would recommend training BJJ/MT or boxing/judo over it any day. They offer enough self defence to take pretty much any untrained guy (and if you are good, trained people too) but with the added value of being competitive sports. You say they are competition martial art forms like its a bad thing. At TRP, we value hobbies and pastimes that add character to your life.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:07 PM
1

OP, ignore what this guy says about BJJ and Krav Maga being the only fighting options. I personally train in BJJ and Muay Thai and the latter is fantastic for self defence. Much more so than BJJ because you will rarely ever be in a clean 1v1 fight. Krav Maga is a soft martial art. Learn real ones like a man. Boxing and Judo are other options. Shit like Karate, Taekwondo, Aikido are what you should avoid.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:33 PM
2

My priorities are my career, gym, hobbies and then sex. If the amount of sex would affect my ability to perform well in those areas, then it is too much.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:52 PM
2

Obviously the more sex you have in a given night, the less sleep you will have in that night. Too little sleep is bad for you. Are you trying to humble brag or are you maybe a bit too tired from all the sex to think logically?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:24 PM
2

If your goal is to have fun then sure say things like "go make me a sandwich." But OP is not trying to have fun over text. He is trying to get his dick wet.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:20 PM
3

Re-read my last comment. What I'm saying is that loads of guys say it not as a joke. Grab a girl's Tinder and read her messages. These are creepy betas who genuinely think it is a good way to initiate a date.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 04:19 PM
2

What suggests that N&C is a joke? I am friendly with a girl who shows me her Tinder from time to time. There are so many guys who seriously suggest it. You can tell it's not a joke to most of them.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:04 PM
2

What we find funny and what girls find funny varies
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:02 PM
4

Yes they know what it means which is my point. She won't think it's a joke, she will think "this guy thinks he can just fuck me? Without giving me attention first?" And then she will flake. It only works if you have a much higher SMV than her and she has no ASD.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:38 PM
1

Again, could do with some context. Is it a Tinder girl? How old are you both? Something like: "You didn't think we were going to misbehave did you?" Try it and see. Tell me her reply to the initial text and I'll try and help you out. If it doesn't work, who cares? Abundance mentality...
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:36 PM
1

"Netflix and chill" is bad because it means 'to turn on the television and then fuck'. You need plausible deniability and/or humour. "So you can make me a sandwich" is bad because it is essentially a 'meme' which triggers women who think they are equal to men. Don't piss her off before you've had a chance to game her and at least bang her once.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:29 PM
14

Don't give a serious reply. The correct response also depends on the context of your previous text -- whether it was regarding a hang out, coffee, drinks at a bar etc. Try something dumb/funny like: "I like to give back to the community once in a while." "So you can help me with my maths homework." "You won a competition and get to spend a few hours with me. Don't question it."
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:25 PM
1

How? It's a block of text
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:28 PM
8

You can read the sidebar on mobile just fine. You were hamstering.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 07:37 PM
1

The girl is thirsty for attention. Remember, attention to a girl is what sex is to a man. If you give her attention without getting sex, she wins and you lose. Don't be her emotional tampon. Let her tell her beta orbiters and girl friends about her tough week. Never give out attention until you are getting what you want (sex) upfront.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:54 PM
1

I drop them a text the day before saying the time eg "meet tomorrow at [x bar] at 8"
/r/askTRP22/09/17 05:51 AM
12

Don't respond at all and go see that movie you wanted to see on your own. Maybe she will text you last minute to say she will be there. If she does, you might fuck after. If she doesn't, you still get to see the movie you wanted to watch. Win-win.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:12 PM
5

You're overthinking this. She used the word 'maybe' because you already said it's gonna be a late one. Just ignore and drop her a line when you finish work.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:38 PM
1

Of course anyone can do it.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:36 PM
6

Raise your SMV. If you don't know how, start with the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:24 PM
6

You are hamstering. She probably sees you putting up with this shit and continuing to give her attention (i.e. rewarding her) so she just acts like a bitch and blames the pill. I know plenty of girls on the pill who aren't cunts. Withdraw your attention and apply dread.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:10 PM
2

Did you design your own routine? Stick to SL 5x5 or SS if you're a newbie
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:06 PM
1

It isn't so black and white. You think if Chad spends a few bucks on a coffee he is now a beta? How can gold diggers take advantage of you if you only ever buy them one cup of coffee? As I said, alternate rounds for alcohol, split the bill for food (which is reserved for LTR). It really isn't hard.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:03 PM
4

Your first line is terrible. Not only does it validate her but it's cringey as fuck. Your second line is miles better. Alternatively try something like "I'd consider it. Know any hot single ones?" Serious negging...
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:31 PM
4

I always say this. The gym is a sanctuary / safe haven. Even when all of your plates smash and you get fired from work and your dog dies, you still have the gym for cold hard weightlifting. Don't let girls ruin that.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:44 PM
1

If you use fluoride free toothpaste, you are a retard
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:44 AM
1

T-Rex figure = massive legs, small arms. I did SL for around one year (small breaks because of exams and holidays etc) until I hit a plateau in most of my lifts. I failed/deloaded several times and then peaked.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:11 AM
3

And when she springs to it, you clear it. Stop hamstering.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:10 AM
12

No loss except for your valuable, rapidly depreciating time.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:55 PM
1

If you're not just using this as an excuse to start chatting with her then it doesn't really matter what you say. "You should take a pregnancy test. Let me know."
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:48 PM
5

Master your mind and exercise control over your thoughts. How? Meditate.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:47 PM
1

You are hamstering. If she 100% took the morning after pill and still gets pregnant then you should just accept that the gods want you to have a child. Or she will notice when she is late and tell you for herself.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:35 PM
6

You look cheap because you are a man and there is a social contract that states that men should pay for drinks. Of course that is horse shit, and we should generally never spend money on girls. But it is what society thinks, and what the girl on the coffee date thinks. But that doesn't mean you should spend all of your hard earned cash on her... I would never advise someone to buy a girl alcoholic drinks or food etc during an evening date. You obviously share rounds or split the bill in those in…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:32 PM
2

I certainly had the dreaded T-Rex figure by the end of my SL cycle but have been training PPL 6 days a week for about 1.5 years now and look great. However I wouldn't be lifting as heavy as I am now if I hadn't maximised my strength first with SL.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:27 PM
1

Sure, sometimes. But I haven't mastered outcome independence yet. I try and use my phone less for that reason (to detach notifications from happiness).
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:49 PM
1

Not literally closed together but closer than a starfish position
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:30 PM
1

You're happiness is dependent from their texts? That's the opposite of outcome independence. I think it's in your best interest to soft next this girl. Oneitis is a path you want to avoid.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:30 PM
2

The plate has smashed. See if she reaches out after she gets the parcel but don't bank on it. Don't become her text buddy either. Fuck more girls.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:58 PM
2

How distinct is the hope of getting your dick wet? Surely the vast majority of your dates end with a fuck. You are spot on when you say pussy isn't worth a cent. But sometimes I prefer to spend a few bucks rather than waste my own time which is actually worth something and have to potentially find another date.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:23 PM
17

This is what I've been thinking lately. We are so programmed here at TRP to never spend a dime on a girl. I absolutely am willing to fork out a few bucks for a fuck. After I take a girl for a coffee which I may or may not end up paying for, if I end up establishing her as a plate, we will only get drinks (alternating rounds) or chill and fuck. If I initially refused to pay, I look cheap and cockblock myself. To me, it's a no brainier.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:18 PM
1

If you go for food she is already your LTR so you will inevitably go on more food dates. In that case it doesn't matter if you pay because the next time you just say "your turn to get this one." The above scenario doesn't apply to new dates or plates because you don't take new dates or plates out to dinner (exception is if you are considering upgrading to LTR). With drinks, just get the first round and then say "your round" when you're ready for another. With coffee, you might have to take the $…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:51 PM
8

Get skipping ropes and work on your stamina. Fuck her in positions where her thighs are close together e.g. prone bone
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:59 PM
8

Stronglifts 5x5
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:56 PM
2

Med school.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 01:58 PM
2

Martial arts. Muay Thai and boxing are fantastic for cardio. Combine them with BJJ and you not only cover fitness but also practical self defence for those times you do step outside. They are also great fun, of course.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 01:57 PM
1

Good explanation although there is little point explaining it to the BP feminist. They will never see it from our point of view.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:25 AM
3

But he said please
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:02 PM
4

That's cute. Did you get lost in the wrong subreddit? It can be confusing, I know.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:01 PM
2

You need a high SMV to pull off aloof game. Your questions therefore boils down to "can you have a high SMV with an average/below average face?" The answer is yes. Don't just work on fashion and physique though, but social skills, hobbies, knowledge and career etc. too.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:57 PM
2

I will certainly check it out. Cheers.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:29 PM
11

If it's an LTR and she says can you pay this time or she forgets her purse you can just pay for that one meal but then the next time you go out say "this ones on you" or "your turn to pay". This advice is for LTRs only. If she isn't an LTR (or at least a plate you are considering upgrading), you shouldn't be going on dinner dates.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:19 PM
1

I'm interested to discuss this. You believe your mission in life should be completely focusing on your career? Do you socialise/read/lift/go on dates?
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:16 PM
7

If she truly meant cuddle then that was the correct response. Be careful though because in some cases girls will use words like 'cuddle' and 'chill' when in fact they mean they want you to fuck their brains out because of their ASD. Use your own judgment and context of the girl to determine which of the two is likely to be the case. Again, if you turned up and she really just wanted to cuddle, going home is the right response. Don't come off as angry or emotional though.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:10 PM
5

Being aloof only works if you have a high SMV. At least higher than the girl you intend to game. Because you are cool and distant and appear uninterested in her, her hamster does its thing and rationalises that you are high status enough to get girls that are hotter than her -- or else you would surely show interest in her / actively try to fuck her. Think of how an HB9 is aloof around AFCs.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:07 PM
1

Work can be your obsession but you still need free time to lift, read, socialise, fuck, and generally self-improve. Career should never be your life. Just one string to it.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:00 PM
1

She kissed you but said that she finds kissing non-LTRs strange? Listen to her actions, not what she says. If that phrase is unfamiliar to you then go and read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP17/09/17 03:58 PM
16

If she is really attracted to you she will fuck you 99% of the time. A girl wouldn't fuck Brad Pitt every time. If she doesn't want to on 1% of occasions, it isn't really an issue. Don't overthink it but keep an eye out. 2 times in a year is minor if they were spaced out. If she does it again next week, start asking questions.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:26 PM
1

Why the fuck are you playing Runescape? The nature of that game is to grind. It's a long term game where you must invest hours and hours of your time which could be spent actually socialising or reading and improving. Drop that shit cold turkey and don't look back.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:02 PM
6

Is this the first time or has it happened before? Maybe she was just really tired or didn't feel good. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt this time but if it happens more than once then you know the deal.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:59 PM
34

You didn't fuck because she said it's too fast? Welcome to her frame. Have you got unlimited time? Or like everybody else, is it your most valuable and quickly depreciating asset? It may have been a case of LMR/ASD which you failed, or she may not be attracted to you enough. Don't reward her for shutting you down by continuing to give her your time and attention. Apply dread, withdraw a little, then fuck her or fuck her off.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 10:34 AM
4

You probably annoy people by talking too much. You probably get annoyed because you're irritable. Meditate to calm your monkey mind so that you can embrace the art of shutting the fuck up.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 10:31 AM
5

To provide RP advice to those with dilemmas in their life.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 10:30 AM
3

You absolutely should expect her to put in her effort with makeup when she sees you but you lost by arguing. Let me repeat that, you lose. You lost control of your frame and shouted like a child. Game over.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:51 AM
1

This girl sounds like a headache. You got your lay which is surprising considering her backstory of flaking and disrespect. I would take your winnings and get the fuck out of there (soft next but let her come over to fuck you if she insists).
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:45 AM
1

I don't live in NYC but perhaps you are asking the wrong question. If you find that the girls are harder to game, the question is not why, but how can you increase your game and improve your results with said girls...
/r/askTRP10/09/17 12:01 AM
2

"Alright guys, we should clean as we go or this shit will build up."
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:47 PM
6

You did the correct thing. Why should you give your time and commitment if she won't give sex? Imagine if you fucked a girl but said "I want to see if you are willing to wait for me to spend any non-sexual time with you."
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:09 AM
1

You say you can't enjoy sex because you can't love someone. Why should that matter? I (and many others) love to fuck plates who we have absolutely zero emotional investment in, because we like the feeling of pussy around our cocks. There is no requirement to connect to the owner of that pussy on an emotional level. Do you masturbate?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:28 PM
1

Try the Reddit linear progression based PPL routine. I made big hypertrophic gains using that programme following on from SL 5x5. If you start maxing out in strength, change to a 531 based progression.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:10 PM
1

Maybe you're a sociopath. Look into Dark Triad. Or perhaps you'd be suited to MGTOW.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:07 PM
1

Sounds like you are already contracting oneitis. Wait a few days.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:05 PM
2

This. Size is relative, especially to a girl with a poor frame of reference. I've had girls think I have a 9 inch dong and others think it's average. Saying 5'6 will paint the picture of a small guy. Just show up on dates without prior warning and deflect any shit tests. If she leaves, who cares?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:52 PM
1

Wait a couple of days and then drop her a text saying something like "hey it's gosu". Exchange a few texts to establish rapport and show off your wit and then tell her you "should grab a drink/coffee on Thursday". You get the gist.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:50 PM
1

It's a dumb question. Listen to what you like listening to. Or better yet, skip the music and practice mindfulness and focus on your muscles.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 04:31 PM
2

I was worried you had forgotten reading until I got to the bottom of your list. Make sure you invest lots of time into that one.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:36 PM
1

Treat the eczema then do what everybody else does
/r/askTRP06/09/17 02:06 PM
3

Why are you divulging all of this personal information about yourself? You should be mysterious and a closed book. Search for posts "Mystery Man" and "Be More Like a Stranger to Her"
/r/askTRP06/09/17 02:01 PM
1

Don't take girls for dinner (unless she is an established LTR). Certainly no plate or FWB. Split the bill or take it in turns. Again, only if she is your LTR.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:54 PM
3

In 5 months you should begin to look like you lift (not skinny). You can pack on some solid muscle if you're a newbie. Eat more, lift harder.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:52 PM
1

Whatever the fuck you like listening to. Sometimes I listen to hip hop other times I listen to jazz. How is the RP related?
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:49 PM
4

It will boost a man's SMV but in my personal experience every male model I know is a cunt.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:49 PM
1

Lonely island
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:50 PM
19

You did the right thing by cutting her out of your life. If you ever cross paths with her, don't be mad, be indifferent. Nothing will make you look better than remaining unfazed. As you say, you feel hurt and upset. Whilst this isn't the most 'alpha' reaction, you are young and most likely inexperienced with this kind of thing. Understand why you feel that way but keep your head up when you're out in public. Learn not to over invest and if it ever happens again you will have better control of yo…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 09:38 AM
1

Cut down with the texting and read No More Mr Nice Guy. There is a strong emphasis on Nice Guys who try and fix their partner's problems.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:58 AM
2

Not saying she cheated because I don't know. Nor does anyone else. But it is certainly a possibility. It doesn't have to be with one of her orbiters (in fact as you say, it's unlikely to be). There are other men out there...
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:05 AM
5

No such thing as a unicorn. AWALT.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:03 AM
5

You did the right thing and handled the situation well. Only other thing you could have done is ignored her texts altogether.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:35 PM
1

Regardless, you are over-invested. Continue to fuck as many girls as you can and you'll soon forget her name.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 07:30 PM
5

You sound quite emotionally invested. Let me guess, she's your only plate? Probably a good thing she's moving to cure you of your undiagnosed oneitis.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 07:11 PM
4

Try staying off the SSRIs and meditate. Download Headspace, complete the first 30 days, then buy premium and complete the Anxiety pack. That will help you more than a prescription. Also get out the house and lift hard.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 06:38 PM
1

I was addicted to video games a few years ago. I cannot tell you how happy I am to be free from that curse (I don't play any at all now on any platform). I went from doing nothing but gaming to actually living my life. Play a little with your friends if you want but don't waste your most valuable asset; time. Everything in moderation. TV is barely better, stick to one episode a night at most if you must.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 05:02 PM
8

Read the Book of Pook and Models. Or fuck a prostitute.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 04:47 PM
1

Sidebar first, then Book of Pook, then Rational Male.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:27 PM
3

The dream is irrelevant. The point is that she intentionally tried to make OP angry/upset by taunting him during a heated argument. Don't let girls walk all over you because you have a 'rock solid frame' and can handle all shit tests regardless of context.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:57 PM
3

The issue is that she acted out of anger. The context made what might at other times be considered an 'innocent shit test' disrespectful. She is taunting OP and trying to belittle him. Sure, it's not the most disrespectful thing a girl can do or say, but it was intentional. She intentionally disrespected him regardless of whether or not you label it as a 'shit test'. Where would you draw the line? Allow her to say what she wants as long as she acts respectfully? If you don't believe a girl deser…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:48 PM
5

It's normal for your girl to get angry then try and intentionally make you upset? And disrespect you? Read the context. Not a shit test, nor normal behaviour.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:32 PM
4

It could be a shit test but OP has explicitly commented that she said it bitterly hoping to anger or upset him. She taunted him and showed complete disrespect. Just because the line on its own can be used as a shit test doesn't mean you should always treat it like one regardless of context. Use your common sense.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:23 PM
2

Would be a great response depending on the context. She could have said it as a shit test OR she could have said it to try and make OP angry because she disrespects him. The latter does not deserve the same kind of response.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:53 PM
13

Lol. You don't next her for dreaming of having sex with someone else. You next her for showing off about it in a heated argument in order to try and make you upset. She taunted OP with this information, which is entirely disrespectful. You aren't in control of your dreams but you are in control of what you do and say. Good luck to you if you prefer to stay with this kind of woman.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:40 PM
10

Which is a fairly big issue
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:35 PM
18

There is only one answer here and you're not going to like it. Next her. How could you be with a woman who dreams of cheating with you and then has the audacity to tell you to your face? She has no respect for you. End it before she cheats in real life, if she hasn't already. Take solace in the fact that you will be helping a bro out by teaching her not to act this way with her future romances. Edit: So many people here think it's a simple shit test. What might be a shit test in one context isn'…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:20 PM
2

It's a skill that anybody can learn, like all other skills. Some people may be naturally gifted but others can catch up,
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:17 PM
3

Nothing wrong with an invitation
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:59 PM
14

Well fitting T shirt that shows off your muscles and jeans or shorts (chino or denim). Any causal shoes.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:32 PM
2

Wait until she hits the wall so you can finally be soulmates and provide for her. Or boost your SMV and fuck chicks who actually get tingles for you. Your call.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:24 PM
1

Fair enough, my sessions only last 60-75 minutes. I'm on 3250 calories on a gym only day. Additional ~850 calories or so depending on the session for MMA days. Going for a clean bulk with a minimal surplus of calories. All of my hobbies are either physical or cost money e.g. music, so I have little else to respond to your question with. Perhaps a language?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:20 PM
1

I do PPL built around the main compounds. Every day I nearly succumb to the weight of the barbell. I am pushing myself as hard as I can. Why not gym in the morning and MMA in the evening?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:45 PM
1

What about the two days you don't lift? Sounds like hamstering anyway, I lift hard to my maximum capacity 6 days a week and train mma 3 times a week.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:13 PM
2

As if a girl would have a second thought about rejecting a guy she wasn't into
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:24 PM
2

What you are describing is 'warmth'. Read the Charisma Myth.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:14 PM
1

Ignore the message. Or are you curious to see if her bulge is bigger than yours?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:12 PM
32

He is a beta cuck. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 11:09 AM
2

Try and talk him out of it as fighting is never a solution. He might be serious though and throw a Haymaker when your guard is down so be cautious around him and if you have to fight then do your best but try and avoid it without being a pussy if possible. Not much time now if he plans to confront you soon but you really should have some boxing or Muay Thai skill. Start taking classes when you can.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:57 PM
1

Can you fight?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:12 PM
1

Lol, I'm English. 'Surname' is how we refer to the second name. Didn't think twice about it, and neither would an English girl.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:11 PM
2

Amazing that even on a post like this there are still accusations of misogyny.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:51 PM
10

Not licking your guest's balls
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:18 PM
5

Listen to whatever the fuck you want to listen to
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:01 PM
1

I'm guessing you are from America.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:07 PM
5

You mean you would take your chances with a Tinder date without pre-screening her on Facebook? I agree don't add them, but I'd rather be a 'stalker' than get catfished.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:45 PM
1

You could say how do you spell your name? And when she says it, if it's obvious and a common name, say "no, I meant your surname." Say you were going to screen her on Facebook or something in a jokey way.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:39 PM
3

Meditation is the answer. Start with Headspace and then do the self esteem pack. The focus on the pack is on negative chatter and mindset. It will help you. Hobbies too.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:35 PM
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You are trying your hardest to keep her entertained and happy. And for what? Sex? How Nice of you. Do yourself a favour and pick up NMMNG.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:34 PM
3

Let me guess, she let him fuck her
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:32 PM
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Why do you care if a random guy talks shit about you? I say 'random guy' because this guy is not your friend. Not anymore anyway. Continue to fuck this girl if you want but she can never be LTR material again. No harm in plating her though. Don't bother rubbing it into your ex-pal's face though. A king wouldn't go up to peasants and show off about how many riches he has.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:29 PM
1

Great quote. Was that from the Black Phillip show?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:06 PM
6

Search her phone number on Facebook or whatsapp. If no name found, just go with it anyway. I don't think I've actually had to address a girl by her name on a date. Meet up and at some point look at her ID so you can laugh at her photo and secretly read her name.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:52 AM
1

You feel like a loser cos you do loser shit. Join societies/clubs/frats and make friends. Don't try too hard, just chill and socialise. Go out when people ask you to. Don't be a recluse. Lift hard and talk to everyone. Don't waste your final year browsing Reddit. A girlfriend should not be your goal as you have a baseline to establish first, and in any case they should never be your mission. They are merely a byproduct of living your life properly. Edit: Almost forgot- read How to Win Friends an…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:30 PM
1

Hug is fine Your line is fine but it doesn't matter what you say. Just go for it. Once making out start undressing and fuck on the living room couch. Or get up and drag her to your room. It really doesn't matter. Stop overthinking and have a good time. Sex is already on the cards or she wouldn't come round.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 06:47 PM
1

For optimising hypertrophy you are correct. But it is misleading to say you will make barely any visible gains training low rep for strength. You will still gain size.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 06:19 PM
1

Bullshit. "Low rep = strength, high rep = visible gains" is over preached broscience. Sure, the emphasis may tip over to the corresponding end of the spectrum, but no stick man deadlifts 220kg. Linear progression = gains. Gains = strength and size.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:39 PM
4

Never met a vegan who wasn't also a feminist
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:35 PM
2

Seems like the next logical step for you is the Book of Pook Edit: followed by Models by Manson
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:34 PM
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He starts with the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:41 PM
1

I agree they are different I'm just saying in some cases they can be "LTR's that didn't make it" or conversely some girls who start as plates can upgrade to LTR status.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:31 PM
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Whilst it is true that plates can have red flags that might make them unsuitable for LTR status, others certainly can upgrade. Further reading: Humansockpuppet's and Whisper's Bitch Management study guides
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:33 PM
1

Not to mention fucking a plate tends to involve exchanging a few pleasantries before you jump to the good stuff
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:31 AM
2

Meditation isn't a secret trick to make you more present. It is a tool that enables you to make yourself more present by actively refocusing your attention. Catch yourself daydreaming and bring your focus back to your environment. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:21 AM
1

How do you eat, fuck, study, make music and read in 2 hours
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:15 AM
6

Women truly are powerful illusionists. They practice the art of deception every day when they put on their makeup.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:10 AM
1

This was asked a couple of days ago. Search.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:08 AM
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If she rejects a kiss on the first date she won't fuck until the 10th. Next.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:21 PM
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Pressure flip/amused mastery (almost laughing at the concept of her thinking she knows what's good for you): "I have eaten and drank every day of my life but haven't got tired of that yet. What makes you think sex is any different?"
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:52 PM
4

Being a man isn't easy. Act calm but do what you need to do.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:47 PM
1

Definitely in person. You need to gauge her reaction. Don't give her time to make up excuses.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:45 PM
4

And the sense of accomplishment in certain cases.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:43 PM
1

Extra safe are very thick. Try the featherlight range or realfeel (more expensive but the best). I haven't had this problem but I wonder if practicing masturbation with a condom on might help...
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:35 PM
1

Re-read my comments- I suggested SL 5x5 or Starting Strength as alternatives. I can't even explain to you how retarded it is to take the piss out of somebody for using long words.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:24 PM
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I highlight passages/quotes with useful and applicable information and copy them into a note application.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:24 AM
1

Of course, when a woman hits the wall and decides to settle for a BB. Haven't you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 09:10 AM
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Your post reeks of neediness and is pathetic. I don't know where to start. Firstly, cut this girl out of your life. Secondly, read the fucking sidebar. Thirdly, the book of Pook and/or no more mr nice guy. Get a grip, man.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:37 AM
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Military press provides the base. It is a highly effective compound. Lateral raises are absolutely not better for noobs. I don't know where you got this knowledge from but it is wrong. Deadlifts barely trains quads, it is mostly your hamstrings and lower back (with less effect on your upper back and remaining legs). The 100g of protein is not only unbacked pseudoscience but you said 100g of lean meat which is certainly not the same as 100g of protein. Overall it seems your post is highly misinfo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 08:36 AM
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The basic 8 does not make sense. I can't comprehend how anyone could think it's an effective routine.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 11:39 PM
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Your suggested workout routine is terrible. Lateral raises over military press? Chin ups alone for back with no deadlifts? Beginners should stick to the tried and tested routines like SL 5x5, starting strength etc. Your diet advice sounds pretty low calorie and low in protein (only 100g of meat for meals?) People who want to build muscle need to eat high calorie and high protein. People who want to lose fat need low calorie (and high protein if they want to maintain muscle). This is pretty funda…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 11:33 PM
1

Please tell me this is a troll
/r/askTRP27/08/17 06:48 PM
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Good advice not to ignore everything but it's important to not come across as angry or jealous when setting boundaries. Calmly tell her to stop, if not- next.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:54 PM
2

More importantly, why would he want to? Does this boy have a scarcity mentality by any chance?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:27 PM
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I'm being sarcastic. Your post sounds like a humblebrag. You did fine. Just read the signs from the girl, it's not rocket science.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 11:39 PM
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She moaned your name, called you daddy and saw Jesus in your eyes? Uh oh, must have done something wrong.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:50 PM
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There is nothing in TRP against LTRs. It is one alternative to spinning plates. There are however a plethora of reasons not to get married. Perhaps you should re-read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:19 PM
1

Wait til she comes over again although if you bump into her in a club you could try then. She will probably pretend not to remember/get embarrassed if you approach her about it sober in the streets.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:14 PM
1

Glad to hear it helped
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:09 PM
2

Try the search function
/r/askTRP26/08/17 12:49 PM
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Well, if a website claims it then I guess it must be true.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 07:26 PM
2

It's important not to focus on self-improvement too much. Add value to your life, become a man, but then focus on learning. Learn about game and women and whatever interests you. Read books. Don’t use self-improvement as an excuse to stagnate and live your life in Monk Mode. Remember, self-improvement is masturbation. Get out there and live life, socialise and apply theory.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 05:04 PM
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Don't think of it as "Monk Mode" per se. Think of it as a scheduled period of introspection that everyone should delve into once every year or so.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:56 PM
1

In my opinion approach anxiety never goes. You just get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:50 PM
1

I haven't personally- I've never actually been faced with this line. I would absolutely use it though if the context was right. Delivered well, it's a funny response. Humour always beats a shit test.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 04:09 PM
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Diagnosis: Chronic oneitis Prescription: Lift, get some hobbies, read, bang other women, get a fucking grip
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:44 PM
1

Get a practical hobby like a musical instrument. Every time you are tempted to jerk to porn, practice the instrument. Go for percussion if you want to let off steam.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:23 PM
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To paraphrase Patrice: "You think knowing my favourite colour is gonna make you want to suck my dick?" Just roll with the shit test. A couple of my favourite responses: "You'll never know me." Or "What's your name again?"
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:03 AM
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Pressure flip: "Maybe you're just too old..." Disagree and amplify: "How am I too young? My mom says I'm a grown up." Agree and amplify: "Yes but don't worry, I am toilet trained. Still learning how to wipe my ass though."
/r/askTRP24/08/17 01:16 PM
1

Take the L = take the loss
/r/askTRP24/08/17 01:07 PM
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Not just that. His frame. Check out MMA. Slightly taller but McGregor is a good one.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:12 PM
2

Millions I would be the father and all my children would be girls. The boys get sacrificed to white walkers. N/A
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:11 PM
1

Read some of the top RP posts then get off TRP. Visit it in the morning or evening to check for new material but otherwise stick to books. A good starting point is the Book of Pook, the Rational Male, Models, NMMNG if you think it applies to you, etc.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:17 AM
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Or FB = I was never interested and probably never will be but please make yourself useful and validate me.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:15 AM
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You entered her frame and accepted her terms. You should have reacted to this as if it were a shit test and just taken the L if she refused.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:15 AM
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Has he fucked her yet? Maybe she has a cock. On a more serious note, this is quite interesting. These traits aren't necessarily a good thing for a female partner to have, even though we may aim for them ourselves. It can be easier when a girl falls into classic behavioural patterns and is easily susceptible to dread etc. Out of interest, what country it this girl originally from?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:12 AM
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People don't give a fuck about lyrics. You think Justin Bieber hits the charts because of how his lyrics are written? Women like songs that are catchy and have a nice beat. A nice voice too. It may or may not have beta lyrics -- this isn't a deciding factor for them (and shouldn't be for anyone). I always see people ask if they should only listen to rap or a genre that has RP lyrics. They should listen to whatever the fuck they like the sound of. You like jazz? Listen to jazz. You like death met…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 09:27 PM
1

Not an option as I need them for work. Going to have to be a case of strict self control.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:36 PM
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Great quote. I've internalised a lot from TRP over the past few years but still struggle to make the time to read books (and not just posts). All that time wasted browsing the Internet and checking whatsapp and social media... So many lost hours. Going to order a few hard copies now.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:18 AM
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Meditate in the morning if you don't already (15 mins min. Try 20) and recognise when you are overthinking throughout the day. Use the noting technique to observe it and let the thoughts drift away by bringing yourself back into your surroundings. It takes practice. Leaving a social scene can be considered socially awkward depending on context and how you go about it. It also depends on whether or not it's a group you want to be popular with (remember popularity is linked to social status). If y…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 11:00 AM
4

Meditate. If you don't know where to start, get Headspace premium and use the 30 day anxiety pack.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 09:54 AM
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Sounds like you still overthink things like a beta. Have you not managed to clear your mind and settle your thoughts by meditating every day? You will learn not to invest emotionally with practice and experience. This is something that can't be learnt from books. Sounds like you are still seeking validation from your friends. You need to make a conscious effort to not give a fuck what they think (within limits, don't go full autist).
/r/askTRP22/08/17 09:45 AM
2

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/08/17 07:25 AM
1

A decent bro would never touch an ex. But if he does, there is no reason to get angry. You should have no investment in her. Perhaps question your pal's loyalty but don't get mad.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:15 PM
2

Cut off all contact
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:10 AM
1

You implied it by saying your ex confessed something. If that isn't the case, ignore that last sentence and take heed from the rest of my comment.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:37 PM
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You wouldn't be mad if your buddy banged a whore you fucked in a brothel, so why would you care if he banged your ex? You've had your turn, you shouldn't give a fuck what who she chooses to do next. And like others say, you shouldn't even be talking to her.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 11:38 AM
1

Pause for a moment before you speak to literally 'gather your thoughts'.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 09:27 AM
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It's a shit test gramps, not a serious question. Your response makes it look like you've got something up your ass. Or maybe you're going for the moody/sullen artistic vibe. The best response to a shit test is light hearted and fun. Or immature if you prefer to call it that.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:45 PM
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Not great since you are validating her. It also sounds like you would enjoy being a cuck which makes her lose respect for you. The trick is to maintain a strong image like you don't give a fuck (or better yet, truly don't give a fuck). Don't worry so much about coming up with things on the spot just yet. Work out a good response when you see a shit test (on this sub or in everyday life) and you will get better at understanding the subtext and appropriate responses.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:25 PM
2

It can work but it depends on your body language. You don't want to look like a sulking passive aggressive teenager. You must still execute no response the right way.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:23 PM
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It's a shit test to see how strong your frame is and how needy you are (or aren't). If you say you would kick the guy's ass then you are a brave and gallant white knight but you lose. If you say something light hearted non-chalantly like "I guess we would just have to go ahead and have a threesome" then she will see you don't really give a fuck about her imaginative scenarios and you will pass. This is not to say you should let guys grab your girl. It is just to say that you should not let her s…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 01:52 PM
1

Of course they are but why do you think members of the RP community know more about meal preps than an entire subreddit devoted to it? Or more about lifting than the range of subs based on fitness? If we had a thread devoted to every important lifestyle aspect then the actual theory-based and in-field questions that asktrp was designed for will get buried. TRP isn't a convenience store when you are spoon fed everything like a disabled child. It is a toolkit that provides you with the insight and…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:58 PM
4

Give this post a read from the main sub: Take the Pain: Why Mindfulness Goes Against Your Natural Instincts and How to Solve That
/r/askTRP19/08/17 10:38 AM
1

How is this RP related? A quick search on Google will yield the mealprepsunday sub
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:35 AM
6

Nope. No ways. Unless you lock down an LTR in high school, you will be forever alone.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:30 AM
1

Search
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:28 AM
0

A guy who doesn't train abs effectively won't get a six pack from dieting. Abs are made in the gym. They are a muscle group and should be trained with progressive overload like any other muscle group. They are merely revealed in the kitchen if they already exist.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:49 AM
1

Diet won't do shit if you haven't developed the muscles themselves.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:47 AM
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Pickup is about using tricks and deceit to game women. They are your mission and your success is based on how many you can fuck. TRP is about getting a real mission in your life worth pursuing and actually creating high value for yourself so that women are naturally attracted as a byproduct of your success.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 10:15 AM
3

A load of successful people smoke cigarettes. Think they are good for you?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 10:15 PM
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Masturbating every day is good for you. In fact a few times per night is ideal. It's better if you do it over footage of another man with a bigger dick than you fuck a girl you want to bang. Supplement this with video games every night of the week and you are on track to becoming the best version of you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 10:55 AM
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You will be a beta bucks if you provide. Solution: don't provide. Your mentality is holding you back
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:35 AM
1

More important question is why do you care?
/r/askTRP13/08/17 05:26 PM
1

Stronglifts 5x5
/r/askTRP13/08/17 11:17 AM
2

You don't squat? Uh oh
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:53 AM
1

How old are you? Focus on your mission and hobbies. Spend minimal time at home. Move out when you can.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:53 AM
2

Are you friends? No? Delete. Obviously.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:52 AM
1

Game her like any other girl. AWALT. She has no special status for being a stripper. She is a girl. You fucked up. Too tired to get your dick sucked? Escalate heavily and make your intentions clear. Get the fuck out of there if you think you're going to orbit land.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:48 AM
5

The happiness is contained within the cum. Once that's gone its game over effective immediately.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:44 AM
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Get a fucking grip. 5'8 is barely short. You have much bigger problems going on if you think you need steroids to be successful. No girl wants to bang a roided gym rat. They want to fuck people with the physique of Brad Pitt in Fight Club or Zac Effron in Baywatch. Neither are tall. Also, you're studying medicine... You don't think career and status will be enough on top of a natural gym physique? Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 09:36 AM
1

Skip to the end of the song and play it through in your head. Also, meditate.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:49 PM
1

Feel free to PM before and after pics
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:55 PM
6

I know plenty of squeaky voiced sluts who spend more time riding the carousel than not
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:53 PM
1

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:59 PM
3

Save it. You should have an emergency fund of at least 3x monthly income.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 12:08 PM
1

There is no void to fill. It is all mindset. Get reading.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:38 AM
3

There is no such thing as heartbreak. You are simply overwhelmed by emotion because you invested far too much, just like a girl. Hobbies will help distract yourself and are generally important but the thing you truly need right now is to ingest the sidebar and pave the way to becoming a fucking man.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 10:04 AM
1

Get a grip on your life. Distract yourself with hobbies, reading, work and socialising until you are mentally stable enough to stop being a pussy and go fuck some other girls.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:20 AM
1

Do you have any hobbies? Other than games
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:18 AM
1

Posted by /u/needathrowawayplease 3 years ago in TRP: A lot of people are reacting negatively to this post because it requires admitting that entertainment and escapism are not investing in yourself. Or because they are strawmanning the OP and making it look like he said to avoid these things cold turkey. He didn't. He's not saying you shouldn't pursue entertainment. He's pointing out that these common forms of escapism can trick your brain into thinking you're self-improving, a bad-ass, or are …
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:56 PM
1

It's a waste of time. Delete it. Game girls in real life.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:44 PM
1

Video games are an unproductive time sink. Not a real hobby.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 04:20 PM
-1

Become a man. Dress like one, look like one (lift), act like one (traits and character). Read more and develop a rock solid frame. Stop playing video games if you do.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:42 AM
2

Watching a man watch a man fuck a woman you both want to fuck...
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:19 PM
1

Archwinger Heathcliff-- Woujo
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:18 PM
2

Original commenter gave a great breakdown. OP fucked up by calling her out and generally giving a fuck. He should have remained unfazed. He cared too much and for that reason lost power. He should start by getting enough of a life together so that reading his LTR's diary is not high on his priority list and so that she is less likely to fantasise over other guys.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:26 PM
3

In my opinion it is even more sacred than the workplace. The boss can give you a hard time but the gym can be a true sanctuary.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 08:28 AM
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Absolutely. You may experience extravagant thought but it leads to inertia. Cut that shit right down.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 08:26 AM
1

I use Headspace and go for 15 minutes. I found 10 was too easy and 20 caused me anxiety. Knowing I had to sit down for 20 minutes caused me to procrastinate and skip days but 15 is much more achievable for me. Do whatever works for you. For me, morning is 100% more beneficial.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:40 PM
2

Best friends with a girl? Why on earth would that be the case? Don't move unless it's into a house with other close friends. It's not good for your social life if you move out of a house of 4 friends to a solo apartment because of one girl. If someone I knew did that at uni I would think they were autistic. Just forget about this girl and get on with your life. You will obviously see her in the communal areas of your house and when you socialise but remain neutral and maintain the peace. Don't m…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:40 PM
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You will either fuck her or enter her orbit.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:25 PM
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The hamster wheel is spinning... You don't get strongman powerlifter built (no girl has photos of hunky Olympic weightlifters on their walls)... You get pro tennis player/athlete built. Stop making excuses and start hitting the gym. It will take years for you to get to a point where your size may hinder your athletic performance.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 08:06 PM
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There is no real reason you are going to be busy for such a short time e.g. 10-20 minutes and then suddenly reemerge if using this technique in a club/bar. No body leaves the bar to quickly tend to their garden/car/DIY project at 11pm only to return moments later.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 07:13 PM
1

A truly fantastic series of posts. Your observations are spot on and the actionable advice you provide is excellent. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 07:03 PM
6

You are the prize. If somebody won the lottery, they wouldn't ask why they should go ahead and claim their winnings. Don't justify yourself -- next that ho.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:58 AM
1

Last one is good. Keep things light and flirty.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 08:26 AM
4

She thinks you're a beta bitch who blows up her phone because you are a beta bitch who blows up her phone. Hard next this bitch. Your behaviour has made this situation far beyond recovery. You need to learn the fundamentals of TRP. Get reading.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:09 AM
2

Just set up the lay for the following night.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:46 PM
1

Could be a good idea. Find girls to work on your photography with. Go for a drink after if there's chemistry. Then fuck her brains out of course. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:35 PM
10

I just can't see it leading to a fuck. Drinks and an excuse to head back to yours (with plausible deniability of course) has much better chances of working.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:46 PM
1

Impressive work. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:49 PM
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Check out a new business or a car? Are you mad? That will dry up her panties quicker than anything. Take the girl to a bar for a couple of drinks then back to your place. She doesn't care what car you are thinking about maybe buying one day. You aren't gonna fuck her in the dealership garage...
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:47 PM
1

I had a nasty addiction a few years ago. It got to a point where my life started stalling noticeably outside of work (ie socially). I would start cancelling on mediocre plans to grind away. I've now quit playing video games all together and my time is much more productive. Get some real hobbies you can hone your skill in and talk to people about eg a musical instrument, sport, martial art etc
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:08 PM
1

Fuck the campus rules. Who cares if you get kicked out, right?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:07 AM
3

To add to this: a solid combination for self defence is boxing and judo. Muay Thai is also good but in my opinion less practical on the streets than boxing. BJJ isn't ideal in this situation since it is rarely 1v1, but still good as a sport.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 10:22 PM
3

Ignore until later on then just say "yeah been busy". She will probably get the hint and not make that mistake again. If she does, reconsider her status as a plate. If not, continue to fuck her.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:28 AM
1

Don't lie. Don't give straight answers either (see shit tests). The faking was more for your abundance mentality (and confidence too). Pretend you're walking around with a 12" dong and got 7 plates on speed dial. The difference in mentality will subconsciously show through your body language and then you will eventually truly become confident etc. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 08:31 PM
0

Sounds super clingy to keep her by your side. It's best to avoid fights but don't be a limpit.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 11:51 AM
8

The best advice is to become the guy who is. Start developing hobbies, fitness and social skills. In the mean time, pretend that you have abundance at first. Fake it til you make it is also good advice for young guys with no leg to stand on.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 10:41 AM
4

This is true but in what way has knowing this actively changed your life? What do you do differently?
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:59 AM
4

Nice humble brag. The answer obviously varies wildly depending on a multitude of factors that we can't possible know about (let alone you who was actually on the date). AWALT doesn't apply to everything about women.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:51 PM
2

It sounds like you are on the right tracks. Keep doing what you're doing and continue to grow as a man. Ignore the comments people like your mother make as you know them to be false. Don't argue though. Don't speak about theory either. Law 38: think as you like but behave like others.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:42 PM
1

"Not yet. You can hand in your application to my secretary."
/r/askTRP31/07/17 12:29 PM
2

Watch the Wedding Crashers before you go
/r/askTRP31/07/17 12:28 PM
2

In any case you have done right by leaving it and seeing if she initiates contact, which as you say, she hasn't. I would continue your radio silence and just carry on waiting. If she asks if something is wrong, shrug it off and say you've been busy. She will eventually reach out. If not... Then that's a soft next. Maybe not what you want to hear but as you pointed out, something is wrong if she never contacts you.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:44 PM
7

Terrible reply. Try "then I guess we should do it doggy style" next time.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:34 PM
1

You talk on the phone at least every other day and whatsapp everyday? Do you not have better things to be doing? Goals to work on? A mission to accomplish? You've probably bored her to death with your abundance of contact. It's needy behaviour and kills attraction. It's no wonder she's desperate to get away and enjoy two months of no contact. There's nothing you can do now, and if you bring it up, you will appear butthurt and (even more) needy. Get a grip and stop reaching out to her everyday. Y…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:33 PM
1

Yes try and ignore her unfortunate penis
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:47 PM
1

Waste of money. Ask him her to spit on it instead.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:46 PM
2

Why don't you read the sidebar
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:44 PM
1

Good examples although I would suggest removing 'lol' from your vocabulary along with smiley faces (and 'haha' and exclamation marks). Aka don't text like a high schooler.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:35 PM
2

The fact that you have a 'thin wiry body' is because you either don't lift enough or don't eat enough. You should be in physical shape by now. Change your routine if you are not. Your anxiety and insecurity will hold you back in finding an LTR. Sort out your inner game. Meditate. Find your passions.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:29 PM
8

You still need to create plausible deniability. There is a reason girls say "not looking for hookups" in their bio but still jump on every dick they decide to meet...
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:57 AM
10

Firstly, your opener was poor. Don't compliment them. Say something funny about their profile/an observation (that doesn't validate them). Secondly, you asked her if she wants to fuck you in your second message. "[Insert X] and chill" is a terrible way to make a girl want to meet you. There is no plausible deniability and her ASD will be firing off left right and centre. Exchange a few more flirty /funny messages to build rapport and then tell her (not ask her) that you should grab a drink. Meet…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:56 AM
2

Why did you get into the bad relationship with the guy? Don't add fuel to the fire. Give him no reason to hate you.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:52 AM
3

Correct. Don't look around frantically like a paranoid schizophrenic. Eyes on the prize- confidently look straight ahead/slightly up (tops of trees, second story of buildings etc). When talking to someone, eye contact + looking away as your gather your thoughts. When listening, eye contact. Don't stare. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 08:39 AM
2

There is a fine line between being mysterious aloof and being what others might consider socially awkward. The difference is largely influenced by your SMV and body language, and eye contact is highly important. I don't know much about schizophrenia, but practice and perfect it as much as you can to the full extent of your capabilities.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:33 AM
1

In my opinion, every RP man should consider every religion as bullshit. We are supposed to act on empiricism and at the very least logic. Religion doesn't fit in with that approach. That being said, there is nothing 'alpha' about being islamophobic.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 08:29 AM
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Not the way you listen, but whether or not you display alpha or beta traits in general. This ties in with your physical appearance, body language and behaviour. As a side note, it is charismatic (according to the Charisma Myth) to keep eye contact and not nod too often. Don't sit there with a dumb smile on your face either, affirming everything they say. Body language is very important.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 09:44 PM
1

The mind and how complicated it is Not a recommended talking point if you are trying to game this girl. You should never get into deep conversation with girls you plan to fuck. Only scratch the surface and keep things light and flirty. Save the deep philosophical conversation for your pals or strangers you never plan on fucking if you must.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 09:39 PM
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Whoever cares less holds the power.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:02 PM
15

Don't try and use reason to understand the hamster wheel. Let it spin.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:01 PM
25

Don't forget she might just be "looking for friends only. No hook ups." Until she matches with any male she finds attractive, of course...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:00 PM
1

What lead you to pick BJJ over judo then?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 09:41 AM
1

I see that now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:15 PM
1

Good advice
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:00 PM
2

Obviously there is a limit, but frame, SMV and public perception of one's persona play a big part in the general perception of a hobby too. For example, with judo: If Chad is a black belt, you might think "wow, that's so cool, Chad could fight anyone." But if a massive nerd with a scraggly neck beard, shit hair and unflattering glasses is a black belt, you might think "jeez what a geek. I bet he obsesses over the Japanese aspect and worships anime too..." But no Chad is going to make dungeons an…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:50 PM
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Great answer, thank you. I agree that BJJ has an exotic air to it (anything Brazilian sounds kind of 'cool') but I would have thought Muay Thai would fit that bill too with Judo appearing a bit more nerdy since it's Japanese and may be associated by others with Anime etc. I guess what my question boils down to is what are the social reputations of various hobbies/sports/skills -- something not very easily searchable on Google and which varies wildly based on location and cultural norms.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:36 PM
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How do you stop fearing it? Grow accustomed to it via exposure
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:09 PM
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You should aim for 5x 'No's a day rather than 5x approaches
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 12:44 PM
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Don't be mad... You will break frame
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 12:40 PM
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Of course, but losing your cool is the easiest and most surefire way to shatter the perception of whatever frame you have established.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 12:39 PM
5

Something about free will
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:24 PM
5

Focus on losing the weight first. Don't waste your money since the clothes you buy now won't fit down the line.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 09:50 PM
1

What's WISNIFG?
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:44 PM
4

Help- I have 6 weird uniform muscular growths in my stomach region. Looks like a 2x3 rectangle. What do?
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:50 PM
6

Passive aggressive and butthurt. Ignore her. You are too busy to care about these insignificant interactions.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:19 AM
21

You should get all riled up and angry. Wait until she goes then start bitching about her behind her back. Think about her rude behaviour all day long and how entitled she must be... Or remain unfazed and choose to not let her actions rattle your frame...
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:18 AM
3

Of course I am oversimplifying things. I'm just speaking broadly in generalisations. There are exceptions to everything.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 06:44 AM
1

Yes. Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:23 PM
4

A woman will never love you. She will only love her attraction to you and the way you make her feel. If some other chump with a few more inches on his biceps and dollars in the bank can provide those same feelings, then she will branch swing. Such is her nature, after all. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 09:55 PM
2

What country are you from? There are a shit load of good unis outside of America...
/r/askTRP02/07/17 09:45 PM
1

Yep 150g. Scan your food with myfitnesspal and you'll see your daily protein. If I ever have a passive day I'll average about 80g. You need to actively try and eat high protein (lots of chicken is an easy way) to hit 150+ every day.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:43 PM
1

Dude fuck this guys advice, it sounds terrible. Pick one routine and stick to it for 4-6 months at least. I, as well as many others here, will recommend stronglifts 5x5 for at least one cycle. This will pack on muscle and establish a foundation of strength. The mobile app is very intuitive. By monitor macros I essentially mean count protein (don't worry about fat and carbs so much) as well as your calories. 150g baseline everyday as a minimum. 150-180 may be optimum but mixed evidence out there.…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:27 PM
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Count calories with myfitnesspal. Monitor macros. Aim for at least 150g protein everyday. Make sure you workout is solid - research this and check the fitness sub. Spend your spare time socialising, reading, or practicing your hobbies.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 12:50 PM
3

Do not let her borrow it. She will see the books and make judgments. It will decrease your power (ironically, since one of the books is presumably the 48 Laws).
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:37 AM
1

You haven't provided enough context or background information to answer your question accurately. Her statement alone could just as easily be a sign of disinterest as it could be a compliment. Just keep your cool and avoid over investment. Standard rules of game apply. Remain unfazed by anything she says. If you're getting results, continue doing what you're doing. If you're getting friendzoned, take the L.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 12:41 AM
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There is obviously no strict rule or definite answer to this question. Even as a rough guideline, the answer will vary depending on what you consider to be "leisure". Example: If "leisure" means practicing a musical instrument, spend as much of your remaining time as you wish honing your skills, as it is a productive habit and a hobby which should bring you happiness. If "leisure" means mindlessly surfing the web, scrolling through Facebook, indulging in television or jerking off to niche porn, …
/r/askTRP02/07/17 12:37 AM
1

For the protein shake do you just stick everything in a blender? Good job by the way, very solid routine. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:55 PM
2

Presumably just squatting once a week but deadlifts will hit a lot of leg muscles...
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:55 PM
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If somebody uses the same account for personal/general Reddit browsing and posting as they do for TRP, and they use the same username for multiple platforms as they do for TRP, then it might just be their fault if they get doxxed.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:40 PM
1

Slow bulk
/r/askTRP10/06/17 02:36 PM
1

Focus on your education and career
/r/askTRP10/06/17 02:34 PM
1

No but search TRP for the "12 levels of dread"
/r/askTRP08/06/17 12:37 PM
1

In theory it could, but in reality it very well may not. In which case, the appropriate action is further dread. Familiarise yourself with the 12 Levels.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 12:12 PM
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If she was sufficiently sexually attracted to you she would have fucked you. If logistics is truly the barrier, then there's not going to be a solution any time soon.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:29 PM
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Sounds like she's making you a big old beta bucks. Giving her attention and cuddles? She's spinning you like a plate. Fuck her or next her. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:14 PM
1

Say you're working on something. Keep it vague. You don't have to explain yourself to her. Who cares if she bitches? Your colleagues should know you well enough to know its bullshit.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:08 PM
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I think you're confusing soft nexting with ghosting/radio silence. The former is when you essentially accept things are over (the plate has smashed) and you stop communicating. There's no need to formally end things. If she happens to reach out and contact you, you might fuck her again. No biggie if she doesn't. The latter is typically done for a few days as a form of 'punishment' in response to disrespectful or unwarranted behaviour. It has the potential to be incorporated into dread game. Text…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:30 PM
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Stop studying and go apply
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:25 PM
4

Sounds like you dodged a big fat bullet. Do not move in together. Just don't.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:39 AM
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It's gonna be hard. Really, you should not move in. Now you have to go from being a pimp whenever you're with her to being a pimp 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:30 AM
1

A sulking teenager is obviously upset and moody. Things that seem butthurt like 'K' or sending blatant read receipts immediately and not replying. If you ghost but act as if you didn't even realise you were ignoring her when you eventually reply or 'check your phone' (because you've been so busy), then that does not seem so sulky but still subconsciously instils dread.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 08:23 AM
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You need to refuse. Don't say it like a dick but say you're busy. This is the only solution.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 08:20 AM
3

15 times in 3 days is not necessary. Try once a week.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:37 PM
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Refuse to help her. Say you're busy. Tell her to research it herself. Let her get in a little trouble.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 10:19 PM
6

First link in the FAQ. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:28 PM
2

Don't reply. You're too busy to worry about which plate has text you back and which hasn't. She doesn't rank higher than any of the others if she is merely just a plate. Careful not to over-invest.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:25 PM
1

Wait a while, she should initiate. If she doesn't, you have bigger questions to ask about the relationship. Remember that you are the prize.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:13 PM
8

Go radio silent for a few days. She needs to learn not to overreact to dumb shit. Edit: it's very important you don't give off the impression of a sulking teenager. Don't throw a strop. Just ghost her a little and say you've been busy. Keep things vague. Essentially small-scale dread game.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:08 PM
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Then gtfo
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:08 PM
3

Work then sleep then work then sleep so you can save up the money to buy a new jeep
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:08 PM
1

Become more attractive or fuck more attractive guys
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:07 PM
3

Don't quit masturbation. Just do what Glover describes as 'healthy masturbation' in NMMNG once a week. Give up porn though. When you google naked chicks or whatever, it's a matter of lack of self-control. No one can stop you from doing this except for yourself. You need to truly want to stop in order to actually stop (much like smoking).
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:37 AM
2

Be careful man. TV is also unproductive (albeit a good talking point). Reading is good.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:25 AM
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Listen to her actions, not her words. This could very well be a case of LMR/ASD/generic hamstering. I've had plates text me saying they want to call things off for the very same reason. We've fucked two days later. Try and escalate to a fuck next time you're with her. If she is serious about this, soft next. It's always sad when a plate breaks, but you get new ones.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:25 AM
2

Just don't be surprised when a girl asks you about your hobbies and after saying nothing but video games she turns cold towards you. It's not particularly exciting or interesting.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:16 AM
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She probably just wanted company. Remember, women spin plates too. The difference between our plate spinning rationale is that they do it for attention (whilst we do it for sex). You gave her attention and now she is satiated. Be wary of this as you may become a Time Ho and fall into the inescapable depths of her orbit. Next time you see her, make sure it's possible that you can escalate things sexually. Otherwise, soft next.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:13 AM
3

Why would you not be rich when you're older though? Career progression should be up there at the top of your goals
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:09 AM
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You mean she has saved you the hassle of having to provide your own evidence that it wasn't a rape? Maybe unicorns do exist
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:26 AM
1

You need to get some productive hobbies then. Try musical instruments, sports, martial arts.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:26 PM
2

Patrice O'Neal always spoke about video games in TBP and I'll be damned if anyone can accuse him of not being RP. The key is moderation and also recognising that it's not a productive hobby. It is pretty beta if all you do in your spare time is play video games.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:17 PM
3

To be fair that wasn't gossiping. It was bitching
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:14 PM
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Nowhere in TRP is it recommended that you ask her if she's free. Are you scared of a little rejection? Say "Let's meet at [X bar] on Friday." If she rejects you, she saved you time. Be grateful. As for nexting: if she can't make the date you propose but offers an alternative, it's all good. If she doesn't try to rearrange, soft next.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 07:00 PM
1

Solid advice
/r/askTRP04/06/17 06:14 PM
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And I still care about her. Uh-oh. Somebody's over-invested. Find a new girl and start again.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 05:13 PM
1

I'm certainly leaning towards BJJ. Maybe boxing on the side once a week.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 04:55 PM
6

Imagine two identical guys who have gained the initial attraction of a girl. In parallel universes, they each go on a date with this girl. They were able to secure a date because of the initial attraction. The first guy has poor social skills, fails to escalate and kills any attraction the girl had for him. He goes home empty handed. The second guy used a mixture of social skill, seduction, verbal and non verbal communication and escalation to secure the lay. This is game. In other words: the ve…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:48 PM
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How do you see a woman's face when you're fucking her in the ass? Put a mirror in front of her?
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:27 PM
3

More likely she just wants to fuck the other guy. Still, OP has a scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:26 PM
3

Because you will be happier. Don't forget, our long-term goal is to maximise happiness.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:47 AM
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Sometimes I give her a box then she opens the box and it's my dick in a box
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:46 AM
1

Why are you calling this girl your girlfriend? You've been on two dates and fucked once. You're too over-invested and have a scarcity mentality. Who cares if the culture shock is too much for her and you never hear from her again? Find another girl to fuck in your car. Always be prepared to take the L. And 'health class' was presumably not based on an RP curriculum, so I'd take their teachings with a grain of salt...
/r/askTRP04/06/17 10:12 AM
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There was no need for your initial text. Most likely didn't do any harm in this instance but it was unnecessary. A few days after getting her number, text her saying "We should grab a drink on Friday. 8.30 at [X bar]" Just the two of you. No need for double dates.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 09:39 AM
1

You're a Time Ho. She is using you for your time. Make it clear that you want sex and if she doesn't it's fine but you are not going to continue investing your time in her with no reciprocation on her end. Patrice explains this in TBP show. Search for 'time ho' on YouTube.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 10:47 AM
1

Out of interest what are the other 3 you've done?
/r/askTRP03/06/17 07:24 AM
1

Again, with a plate, why next? This is a common shit test that can easily be overcome. Classic LMR/ASD.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:47 PM
3

Why would you soft next because she shit tested you?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:34 PM
21

"Thank God, I was afraid you were just going to use me for my body." Listen to her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:34 PM
8

Your enemies also breathe the same air as you but I assume you don't spare your lungs from oxygen
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:32 PM
1

You could say that about any shit test response. It comes down to tone and non verbal communication. You can certainly say this in a non butthurt manner.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:29 PM
9

Who gives a fuck? Listen to what you want because you like it
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:28 PM
1

BJJ almost seems like a universal favourite amongst those that have done it. Have you considered or experienced actual wrestling?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 07:58 PM
1

I was referring to the individual members of TRP. Should have made that more clear. I agree with boxing.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 06:21 PM
9

Great response
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:23 PM
1

What is the benefit of BJJ in this situation?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:34 PM
4

You can also add the number to Whatsapp and see their name and photo if they use the app
/r/askTRP02/06/17 07:34 AM
1

Search TRP and get them all for free
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:35 PM
8

Read the entire sidebar. There are no shortcuts to becoming a man.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:28 PM
7

Sexting is not alpha. It's retarded and pointless. Want to see naked girls? Google "naked girls". Want to fuck naked girls? Use texting for logistics and arrange to grab a drink with this girl. Texting all day long can only extinguish her attraction to you.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:42 PM
0

"How would you like another one? Another ex fiancé, I mean"
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:28 PM
0

Only a mother has the capacity to love her son unconditionally. Unfortunately not all of them do.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:49 PM
2

No woman can love a man unconditionally unless he is her son
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:57 AM
2

"K" and "lol" look butthurt. Ignoring is the best option.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:52 AM
7

12 levels of dread
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:10 AM
6

Loss
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:40 PM
5

Wait a few days and drop her a text to arrange something. Avoid chit chat. Be ready to take the L.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:35 PM
6

Why aren't you lifting heavy weights? Do stronglifts 5x5 and count calories. Meditate too.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 12:14 PM
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If one of my friends did that to my sister we would no longer be friends
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:07 AM
1

Adding accessories to SL is fine
/r/askTRP29/05/17 06:42 PM
15

Dopamine. You get instant gratification from video games. Weightlifting requires dedication and only provides delayed gratification. This is indeed something that separates boys from men.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 04:05 PM
8

Sure it's fun. But it's also dumb. There's no need for nudes. If you want to see naked chicks, go fuck girls in real life or watch porn. If you can get them with minimal effort then fair enough, but you risk extinguishing attraction in the same way anyone does when texting too much. It should be reserved for logistics, unless you plan to never actually fuck the girl. Whatever you do, don't send any that you wouldn't mind going public. I shouldn't need to explain why.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 03:19 PM
1

As well as improving your form as others suggest, make sure you are eating enough. Count calories on a mobile app.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 10:27 PM
15

Since you're new to TRP, it seems safe to assume you were a beta for the bulk of your relationship. If I had to guess, I'd say you've given her a lot of things, whether it's meals, holidays, security, entertainment etc. Now, you want something (blowjobs, doggy etc) and she is refusing to give it to you. That's incredibly selfish. You are supposed to be the prize. A fucking King. And this girl, to whom you've granted the rare opportunity to see you exclusively, won't even suck your dick. Do you r…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 01:20 PM
5

TRP is about manhood. The two of you are acting like fucking kids.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 10:22 PM
7

Because you are emotionally over-invested and have a scarcity mentality and/or oneitis. Think of your ex like a whore in a brothel. You wouldn't be mad if another guy fucked her.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 08:30 PM
3

Why don't you send him a message
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:41 PM
4

This is a common shit test which you can find many answers to by searching.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 11:34 AM
7

Not only did you fuck up massively by not ending things when you caught her sexting another man, but she has now sent dirty pictures and you still haven't cut things off. She has zero respect for you and from the background you've provided I can see why. This is entirely pathetic. This woman is abusing you. Taking full advantage of you and turning you into her little beta cuck slave. Hard next her as soon as possible. Get this woman out of your life and get your ass in to fucking shape. Read the…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 09:52 PM
3

He hasn't burned the fat around his dick and his erections have probably not changed either. He's putting on mass. She's just more attracted to him because he's taking care of himself. It's all in her head.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 09:45 PM
3

Have you considered a life of abstinence?
/r/askTRP25/05/17 09:04 PM
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Funny how it goes without saying that you'd never pull such a scumbag move, yet women do it all the time. Anyway, consider alternative career pathways if you're struggling to make money. Maybe you should keep art as a hobby.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:30 PM
8

That's pretty retarded. Maybe you shouldn't drink so much if you find yourself having no control over your actions.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:49 PM
5

Nail on the head
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:33 PM
39

Shit fellas, he's onto us
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:46 PM
31

Why the fuck would you send a text the next day asking her how things were going? Were you looking for a texting buddy? And why the fuck would you double text the following day when she didn't reply? Good Lord, next this girl and have some dignity. You are supposed to be a fucking prize, not a needy peasant.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:45 PM
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The answer is simple genetics. The kid gets 50% of their DNA from their mother and 50% from their father. If the mother and father have strong jaw lines, the kid probably will too. Vice versa. If only one of them does, the odds are halved. If you want a son with the greatest chance of having masculine traits, fuck a woman who looks like a man and pray you don't have a daughter.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:35 PM
9

A good strategy I always recommend for this delicate situation is to read the sidebar and move the fuck on
/r/askTRP25/05/17 06:28 PM
3

If you find a unicorn and get married, it is very unlikely you will get divorced. She won't cheat on you, nothing bad will ever happen and you will live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this situation is entirely hypothetical. There is no such thing as a unicorn. Women cannot love men unconditionally. They lack the capacity to do so. It is in their nature. By definition, there is no such thing as a unicorn. If you get married, you are setting yourself up for disaster. Don't be delusional. Even…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:11 AM
3

Avoid all arguments
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:58 AM
5

If you ever have reason to believe she has cheated on you, next immediately. Don't cheat on her, just get her out of your life. Consider implementing dread to prevent it. You should be constantly working on yourself anyway.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:03 PM
1

Has she already cheated on you?
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:56 PM
3

Social media and video games should not be in your list of hobbies. Go out and get some real ones. If you need ideas, consider a different musical instrument, a sport or a martial art.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:14 PM
49

It's always sad when a plate breaks. Go find another.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:26 PM
2

If you read the sidebar you would know the answer is sex with other girls.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:40 PM
5

SL 5x5
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:22 PM
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You're skinny fat. Cut then slow bulk if you want optima abs.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 04:30 PM
5

PPL
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:38 PM
7

Maybe they talk about fucking other guys, but rarely anything directly sexual about the orbiter himself.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:34 PM
10

Nice response. Generally speaking, it's a good sign. Girls tend to avoid talking about anything sexual with beta orbiters or male 'friends'.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:10 AM
5

Intermittent fasting is when you cycle periods of fasting with windows of eating. There is no evidence behind it but it certainly helps with eating less since you've got a narrow window to have all your meals. The water diet sounds retarded.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:21 AM
0

You're missing the point. Do you really think masturbating three times a day is going to help this guy? Do you really think hard evidence is required to make simple daily decisions? I suppose you don't wipe your ass because there's no randomised controlled trial regarding its efficiency. If you're so hung up on evidence, I don't think TRP is for you. The whole premise of the sub is entirely anecdotal.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:16 AM
0

Like most things on TRP, this is anecdotal. I was able to gain control of my life and stop obsessing over sex by first gaining control of masturbation. Let's put it this way: cutting down on masturbating may help, but continuing to masturbate as OP has been doing for however many years obviously wont change a thing. If something was 'killing me', I'd take the leap of faith and go with the first one.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 07:47 PM
3

You can't help the fact that he's taller than you but you can certainly gain the upper hand with strength. Knowing how to fight will also help if he does initiate it but you should be avoiding fights at all costs. Learn a martial art if you want to be able to defend yourself. Other than that, all you can do is laugh at the pathetic life of the White Knight.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 07:41 PM
0

If you have an abnormally high sex drive that interferes with your life, you should attempt to tame it -- not feed it.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 07:37 PM
0

Stop masturbating so much. Tame yourself. To start, do it once a week maximum. No porn whatsoever. If you can't even do this, you have no self control. Focus on improving your SMV. Even ugly motherfuckers get laid when they are ripped and high status.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:32 PM
2

Having money doesn't make you BB. Spending money on women does. Wealth is certainly a sign of high status, along with power. In terms of general popularity, social skills get you far.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:30 PM
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Yep, no reason not to get in shape. If it helps motivate you by the way, I'm currently 8 weeks in to a 16 week cut and have managed to lose 8kg but maintain strength. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:23 PM
7

1kg/week is achievable and with sufficient protein intake and gym activity you can minimise muscle loss. There's mixed opinions and limited evidence but I wouldn't recommend more than 1kg/week unless you are happy to sacrifice muscle. Edit: 15 weeks is also a reasonable timeframe for a cut, so it's quite a realistic goal.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:58 PM
10

If by dating you mean a few drinks and copious monkey sex, go for it. If by dating you mean fine dining and chivalrous pecks on the cheek, go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 10:25 AM
3

All you can do is work your way up the dread ladder, or next her. If you get to a stage you're not comfortable with, the only options are to put up with your current situation, or next her.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 10:22 AM
5

Not only is she "emotionally cheating" as you say, but she felt it was suitable to divulge all this information to a stranger she just met online (your fake account). She probably fucked the other guy and didn't want to admit it, or is at least planning to. Next or at the very least dread.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 11:35 PM
2

Get some hobbies, interests and stories.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 11:32 PM
1

Ghost her
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:15 PM
1

That was beautiful.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:01 PM
2

No set algorithm. Depends on many factors such as context for you ghosting her and the dynamic of your relationship which no one on TRP could possibly understand to its full extent. Experiment and use your better judgment based on what you've picked up at TRP. If you over-ignore you may cause resentment and the plate might smash. Use everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:01 PM
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