One says talk less, other says talk shit. One says be calm, other says go nuts. One says act like a king, other says act like a clown. One says DGAF about girls, other says make jokes and laugh with them.

One says to be cold, other says to be warm and charming.

Everytime, I've seen each of them being described as Alpha/Beta vice versa.

Why in the hell would I talk to a HB5 or 6 or 7 or 8? much less give a fuck is one attitude. Other is flirting with all HBs. Guard the time you have, coz you are high value, have no time for nonsense, is one attitude. Spread the time with every human as you float in abundance and do not care about time is another attitude.

Every fool who talks too much without knowing he is a fool uses the second approach.

I do not see any appreciable self improvement if one follows the 2nd approach.

I got friendzoned using the 2nd approach. Yet I see people getting girls from both the ways. Then I see this was not because of any approach, but because of what they have already built. A high SMV man, no matter what approach works.

I do not know what is the best approach.

One is a man who seeks entertainment from the outer world. Seeking fun as his mental point of origin. Other is an entertaining clown to the entire world. I do not know the mental point of origin.