Realized I have come a long way since changing my ways about 6 months ago. Went on a tinder date this week and realized I wasn't attracted to this girl. Used this moment as practice and initiated kino, kept a good convo going, had her on the ropes and then the last minute said I wasnt interested. Used the same tactic a couple days later and succeeded with a girl I was attracted to. Love the mindset that if something or someone doesnt make me happy, I dont have to pursue it. Feels good to take control over my happiness. Thanks for all the tips. Still growing every day and never settling. Why should anyone be "fine." You have the ability to make yourself happy, go do it.