So first off, this is a high school relationship ship so no sex yet even though we are bf/gf.

First couple weeks are great after starting a LTR then she becomes distant. She avoids me and doesn't hangout with me. I had a talk with her today using "I" messages and some other possibly beta stuff. Turns out she is only interested in seeing me during lunch because she is having family troubles and as separately her insomnia has come back, an on and off thing.

Here's the deal and I feel this is the beta part of me still left, but I feel I should be there for her and all.

On the other hand I have decided that that isn't enough for me, I need more time and affection out of an LTR.

First red pill thoughts are dread game in a way, but I am still trying to figure out how to use that. If things don't change then it's simply abundance mentality and I need I move on, but there might still be ways of getting her to fear loss and start showing more affection I believe.