I'm Done Pretending Men Are Safe (Even My Sons)

Lethn · 2017-07-15T18:13:23+00:00

The take away, for me:

I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings, and I’m through pretending these people, these men, are safe.

As an idea man, a concept worker, a rational problem solver, I guess I must be a super villain. I should have known, I've always been the quiet one and at one point, I had a goatee.

In all seriousness, that woman is batshit insane. Someone needs to call CPS and the poor boy's father who I'm sure was demonized by her ( and a court system which enabled her because, you know, "mom" ).

Lethn · 2017-07-15T18:35:34+00:00

He doesn’t understand that even quiet misogyny is misogyny, and that not all sexists sound like Twitter trolls. He is angry at me now, although he won’t admit that either, and his anger led him to conservative websites and YouTube channels; places where he can surround himself with righteous indignation against feminists, and tell himself it’s ungrateful women like me who are the problem.

LOL Yeah and he's completely right, fucking nutcase. What this shows though is actually really encouraging, because even youtube channels like I suspect Sargon of Akkad, David Rubin and Rebel Media and so on are actually showing these guys there are other points of view out there and makes them realise that their mother hating men isn't actually as normal as she makes it out to be.

Startthecar27 · 2017-07-15T20:27:16+00:00

She is mentally ill. She put fem before her own kids health.

2017-07-15T18:26:33+00:00

http://davidthompson.typepad.com/davidthompson/2017/07/mothers-milk.html

Well, some people get broken, or break themselves, in ways that can’t be fixed. In a rather horrible sense, they embrace a kind of destiny. And so Ms Allard doesn’t learn, and will not allow herself to learn, and despite the warnings of onlookers, and the effects on her own children, she persists. If you trawl through Ms Allard’s Twitter feed, you’ll see there’s no pause to reflect on her own actions and their consequences, none at all, even when pleaded with to do just that. Instead, every unflattering response from readers of her articles, whether scornful or concerned, is immediately construed as a validation of her behaviour.

It seems that Ms Allard’s need to be righteously feminist and crusading - which is to say, her vanity - trumps all else. And conveniently, that crusading just happens to excuse quite a bit of sadism.

emberfly · 2017-07-15T21:46:47+00:00

"I emotionally abused and alienated my sons in the name of feminism, and now one of them hates me. Please feel sorry for me."

Lostboulevard · 2017-07-15T21:51:16+00:00

Deeply disturbing essay, and a sign of the times.

Batshit crazy women are given custody while fathers are only valued for their wallets.

The good news is that the comments are full of righteous rage at this toxic bitch. A feminist tried to chime in but was rightly told to go fuck herself. I hope this cunt's boys read the comments on the essay -- it will give them hope.

thwml · 2017-07-15T20:52:03+00:00

"I love some individual men. It pains me to say that I don’t feel emotionally safe with them, and perhaps never have with a man"

If every man scares her it sounds like she has some deep rooted emotional issue to take care of. That being said this article is dumb.

Title	I'm Done Pretending Men Are Safe (Even My Sons)
Author	TryTryAgainAgainOkay
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	July 15, 2017 6:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/6nhcqo/im_done_pretending_men_are_safe_even_my_sons/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/im-done-pretending-men-are-safe-even-my-sons.918011 https://theredarchive.com/post/918011

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