I been focused solely on self improvement for now since I'm going to start college later this august. In order to maximize my efficiency I had to ignore a lot opportunities (for example, I know a girl who been trying to get me to ask her out on a date) but I really want to reach all my goals before college starts. I'm currently focused on reaching 14% body fat, refining my style, finish all my reading (48 laws of power, mastery, rational male preventive medicine, art of seduction), publish my web game and a few apps while I want to continue practicing my art skills to build my portfolio.

But then I'm conflicted, I could waste time going out with her and others or I could keep going on my strict self improvement so that I can take advantage of my head start over others freshman year in college and do even better (abundance mentality).

Do you guys think it's smart to ignore high-school tier stuff so that I can do even better in college?