The sexism I get just as much from men

Cze1 · 2017-06-08T02:59:42+00:00

I would say to be who you want to be, and not what society wants you to be. People think im crazy because Im still alive and well at 27 without feeling the need or ever did to be in a relationship, even though I want one, I want it to mean something. I didn't let any forms of media let me feel lesser of a man for not losing my virginity before a certain age.

xippilli · 2017-06-08T02:11:06+00:00

You might be interested in /r/MGTOW

CatOnKeyboard4Dayz · 2017-06-08T01:41:25+00:00

Yeah. If you don't have any aspirations or passions, here's one. Try your best to make the world as good a place as you can.

mwobuddy · 2017-06-08T07:49:48+00:00

But if there is one thing that has become clearer as I age, it is that my dick shouldn't go to waste. You see, I've had classmates and coworkers try to set me up on dates before. I'm accustomed to lectures about why no guy should be single for too long, but when I ask for elaboration I'm met with a quiet shrug. But of course I know why, and it isn't companionship. I've never needed to sleep with a girl to get that. It's so I can find my "match" (guy talk for soul mate). And then, presumably, to fulfill the 4 C's every man is required to perform.

try r/theredpill

You know whats interesting. There's polls and surveys in general Euro newspapers about sex, but it focuses on female satisfaction. Sex is matter-of-fact for women, indeed its something they deserve as a part of life, and with whoever they want (beacuse its their body, their choice).

But when we talk about male sexuality, suddenly its perverted, disgusting, abusive, using, etc.

These labels intensify if you LACK the things that make a man "a man". namely, alpha physique, money, car, flash, etc, confidence, everything else.

Try to be a poor male who doesn't 'clean up' before going out to bars and getting laid. Doesn't work, because women don't smell opportunity. It lowers her value to be with a male of such low value, to be seen talking to one as well.

It seems like somewhere along the way of the last 100 years society has all drunk the kool-aid that is Disney and 'ideal love'. 100 years ago, people understood that men married women for sex and women married men for financial purposes and having a child.

Once this myth of ideal love comes into play, people stop paying attention to what it is that draws men to women and women to men, or at most, they pay attention only to demonize men for it (pigs), or to demonize men who draw attention to women's desires (untrue, misogyny).

Start with abundance mindset, perhaps. I never got so much attention in my life as when I started affirming "I deserve to have X type of lifestyle, X people around me", and then suddenly everyone would talk to me in casual conversation, women would come up to me more often than the before "never". Hell, I've done full Pook, I sit silently at the bar, a woman is flirting with everyone, but eventually she goes home with me despite doing nothing, just because I forced myself to embody "deserving" or worthiness.

2017-06-08T12:02:08+00:00

Sounds like you need clean your room.

If you're nihilistic and without moral structure, work on getting yourself together. I think we all - or most of us - hit the stage you're in in our early 20's. You'll not be the same person in ten years so don't count on it lasting, use the time you've got now to cultivate yourself, but just yourself.

Cooljamie · 2017-06-08T01:29:45+00:00

Ur a downer dude

Title	The sexism I get just as much from men
Author	-a-unique_username-
Upvotes	18
Comments	11
Date	June 7, 2017 11:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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